@domesticblisters: Replying to @good at peein' Im doing my best to be real about my life while showcasing principles that work for everyone and a range acommodations. I understand its upsetting that the society we live in isnt taking care of us the way it should. As for my “tone,” I gave up trying to guess what tone neurotypical people want a long time ago. #strugglecare #MentalHealth #ADHD #chronicfatigue #privilege
Kc Davis
Region: US
Monday 13 November 2023 22:44:39 GMT
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MoodyNoonStudio :
I’m so frustrated with the number of commenters putting bad motives on you. Your info has been so life improving for so many of us.
2023-11-13 22:55:59
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harlequinhyena :
not only do you provide examples of accommodations for any budget, you also have a loyal following who fill the comment sections with extra ideas 💡
2023-11-14 05:24:43
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penny :
Real talk, your posts have given me permission to make the accommodations where I can and need them. My first laundry pickup is tomorrow!
2023-11-13 23:07:24
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I think the biggest thing I learned from you is that just cleaning one thing, leaves a room better than it was. if that's all I can do, that's OK.
2023-11-13 23:07:26
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ClairityBearity :
Even when I was really poor, struggling, I hired a cleaner for a reset when I had mono. Just one clean, and it helped SO much.
2023-11-13 23:27:29
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RealBoringHousewife :
You do what you can. Why are people skipping over the point?
2023-11-13 22:48:34
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SawdustFairy :
your point that running the dishwasher even when it’s half full if the schedule works for you was life changing for me 🙌
2023-11-14 01:10:01
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exec.function.not.found :
I don't have a housecleaner but one of my top tier strats for cleaning is to pretend I *am* a housecleaner, and I've been hired to clean my apartment.
2023-11-14 05:22:39
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rae.6666 :
You LITERALLY SAID that some folks don’t have the financial privilege to do some of these things. You did nothing wrong, we love your videos.
2023-11-14 02:06:01
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aerodynamicvomit :
forget these haters. finding your content alleviated so much guilt I had about messy house. I still remember your voice saying morally neutral🤯
2023-11-13 22:54:48
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Jen Capra :
I can finally budget in a cleaner & am considering it bc of you instead of feeling like it’s a failing. TY ❤️
2023-11-14 02:54:17
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Jessica :
Why are people so mad at you for just trying to survive???
2023-11-13 22:50:43
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SarahESecond :
I’m very happy you can afford those accommodations. I think some people hear so many useless suggestions for how to function better they get defensive
2023-11-13 22:57:22
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Nina B. :
Pleeeease don’t let these people discourage you from continuing your work. It is incredibly valuable and I just enjoy you in general. 🥰
2023-11-13 23:48:51
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Emily Aaliyah :
I can’t afford some of the services you have but dammit I’m gonna get me one of those rolling stools. A fantastic idea!
2023-11-14 04:16:41
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mommalong714 :
Housekeeper.. you still have to do the things so they can clean. I just like to know everything gets cleaned same time time to time. I don’t like
2023-11-13 22:53:16
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Quinn :
Can't make a video that takes EVERY HUMAN SOUL INTO ACCOUNT. What works for one won't for another, take what works for YOU.
2023-11-13 22:50:31
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theEyeofSarahn :
Well I can just say your advice and candor really help me as a working mom with raging ADHD and anxiety. Taking the shame out of it and all
2023-11-14 00:28:09
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CrayGardens :
When I was on chemo we sent our laundry out. It was an amazing way to keep our family afloat. Laundry is very labor intensive.
2023-11-13 22:57:24
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MK :
If you didn’t mention it people would say you’re hiding it… people really will be mad either way 🙄
2023-11-13 22:52:52
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Nicole :
I think it was so important to highlight your entire approach, as a buffet rather than prescriptive.
2023-11-14 02:59:27
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Dr. Lucille Isadora Tures :
Yes, everyone can’t hire work out- that’s why she wrote an entire book describing how to keep house while drowning.
2023-11-13 22:51:55
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sqvirrels :
drop off! wash dry fold services are SO worth the $1-2/lb. I'll never stop saying ittttt
2023-11-13 23:31:21
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Han :
It’s so exhausting being on the internet and having to caveat every damn thing you say 🥴
2023-11-13 22:49:32
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💗Marti - Hello Love Nails💅🏻 :
Additionally, though, some of us who are financially privileged are indeed on the struggle bus and people need to know that! Love your videos!
2023-11-13 23:04:28
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krispypoptartmom :
I think most also have never looked into cleaning services. Some people do once a month some just before big events at their house or you can also
2023-11-14 00:08:26
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katelyn :
so helpful how you mention paying for services with the same neutrality and self-kindness you do with everything, esp as those can carry lots of shame
2023-11-13 23:07:54
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kedgy549 :
Yes! Even if someone can’t afford one of your accommodations, it may inspire them to find a similar accommodation they can afford!
2023-11-13 22:59:40
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✨Ouiser of Witchtok✨ :
Love the painters tape. Have some of that up from last year when we painted the kitchen.
2023-11-13 22:50:02
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Christina Norman :
I fully recognize my privilege when I say that I needed someone to give me permission to hire a housekeeper. I felt guilt, shame. TY.
2023-11-14 05:15:59
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ashleyolver5 :
Paper plates have been a game-changer for me!
2023-11-14 03:58:52
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Jessicatheotterpop :
I am considered lower middle class and I have chronic health issues. I can’t afford all of the suggestions but I can adapt some to work for me!
2023-11-14 03:19:15
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Everleigh Way :
I just ... if I don't send out my laundry, I don't do it. it's also my money. It' my money and this is what I want to spend it on. so much less stress
2023-11-14 02:23:09
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HelenaHattress :
why are they even mad. I know I have said more than once if I could hire a maid. if I could pay someone to do laundry I would....
2023-11-14 01:41:33
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sarahkillsplants :
someone in my life is a single mom on assistance due to a TBI. she regularly gets a cleaner to help her deal with the accumulation 🤷🏻♀️
2023-11-14 00:53:37
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Megs 💙 :
I have implemented so many of your tips and I am a nonprofit worker with no disposable income. Thank you 🥰
2023-11-14 00:28:44
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Tiffany T :
I’m broke n have learned tons of helpful stuff from you!🥰😂
2023-11-13 23:35:26
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okoyeah! :
I appreciated your video because it let me know I'm not alone in the tiredness. I laughed when I saw you using the grabber because I do too!
2023-11-13 23:05:41
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Sarah Spencer :
Why r ppl so mad that some ppl use housekeepers or other services? As a former nanny thank god ppl can afford 2 hire nannies that’s what paid my bills
2023-11-13 22:53:47
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Cameron🏞️ :
you've even specifically said before "you don't want my advice on xyz bc I just pay someone, and that's not helpful for most ppl" 🥴
2023-11-13 22:50:46
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randomnamehere :
I pay my son $1 to move clothes from washer to dryer cause it hurts my back 😂 I pay someone to do my laundry
2023-11-14 19:50:38
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Amy Sherfield :
I’m confident the housekeeper and launderer appreciate your business and it helps them struggle less financially. Why would that be bad???
2023-11-14 03:31:41
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Jessicatheotterpop :
Sharing info is how we all get through this! We don’t have to do it all. Take what you want and leave the rest
2023-11-14 03:19:49
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Lora :
I buy those precut veggie trays and my kid snacks on that all week
2023-11-14 01:29:43
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xyz :
I’m of mid financial means and your videos made me feel ok about hiring cleaners! Thank you for normalizing it!
2023-11-14 01:27:07
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Emily (eme791) 💙 :
for me... paying someone to do my laundry was the biggest grace for myself. people still look down on me for it.
2023-11-13 23:55:07
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user2226761766322 :
People used to make me feel bad for having someone do my deep cleaning . I don’t get my nails done so this is my self care !
2023-11-13 23:21:14
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Diana Lyn :
What more do they want? Your life…jealousy is the fuel to their fire.
2023-11-13 23:19:48
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