@mike_on_parenting: Taking things away can be such effective tool in improving future behavior. Too often we are focused on reducing behaviors by taking away privileges (ipad, TV, toys, etc) but this strategy flips it on its head and focuses on the behavior we want to see more of. #parentingtips #parenting #parentingindonesia #respectfulparenting #toddlers #moms #parentcoach #parenting101 #respectfulparentinghelp #parentingcoach
I wish my mortgage, bills, and employer acted like that
2023-11-14 03:02:15
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Katie :
Y’all need to chill, he didn’t say every single time. Just sometimes! It’s a tool to have in your toolbox.
2023-11-14 04:07:46
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this is actual "negative reinforcement" according to classical conditioning. (we often confuse negative reinforcement with punishment.)
2023-11-14 21:55:15
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Sandy :
“ as an adult you don’t get rewarded for doing things ur supposed to” is such a lie. Promotions, happy home, feeling of accomplishment.
2023-11-14 08:19:59
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Katie Parker | Mama x3 :
skipping bathtime works wonders over here (and we always pick days he doesn't need a bath anyways 🤭)
2023-11-14 18:08:39
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Jenks_00123 :
But as adults, you don’t get rewarded for doing what you’re supposed to.
2023-11-14 03:02:36
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that_one_girl1046 :
I thought you were gonna say "not talking about things they like, take things they NEED." And I was like ummmmm
2023-11-14 06:04:34
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Sadie :
Love this
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Dena Kelly :
Yes! Negative reinforcement can be so powerful!
2023-11-14 02:49:13
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aundreaavila299 :
People get mad when I do this and I’m like okay but see how she acts towards everyone? I’m doing something right
2023-11-15 22:39:41
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Tess Burney :
Omg my parents used to do this. I would borrow money and would always give back the change and they would say “that’s nice of you to bring it back. Keep it”
2023-12-30 18:36:45
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pinacolada3040 :
Bath is non-negotiable for me 😂😂😂
2023-11-14 17:09:41
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serena :
my kid would be like..."bet"
2023-11-14 03:34:01
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Tayl.r :
Sometimes lol cause kids are smart. And then there’s the “but last time….” tantrum 🥴
2023-11-14 05:59:44
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kickfroggy :
this is a great way to praise effort over achievements
2023-11-16 20:17:12
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Krista Robinson :
After going potty 4 times..they might need a bath 😂😂😂
2023-11-16 00:43:24
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Danielle :
my daughter loves bath time. 😂 this is a great idea though!
2023-11-14 16:53:33
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kraftychicken :
Commenting to stay on BCBA-tok! ❤️
2023-11-14 02:24:57
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Larose :
This is such an interesting perspective. I’m going to try it.
2023-11-14 14:27:32
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Zoeyana🍊 :
Yes this works!!
2023-11-14 16:47:19
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THE GRAZE MAMA :
Love this
2023-11-16 23:33:02
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MrsTullfu :
This is genius, thank you!
2023-11-16 03:28:24
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haleyinmymind :
as a teacher, when my kindergartners do an exceptional job of cleaning the classroom, I pack their backpacks for them. for some reason they love it 😂
2023-11-26 19:34:04
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hnubhli | lifestyle ✨ :
I’m gonna try this!
2023-11-16 07:02:23
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Mel Kreis :
This is great! It teaches them that SOME jobs can be half assed and you can still be proud and reward yourself instead of feeling shame
2023-11-16 05:37:50
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