Dr. Angelica Shiels
Region: US
Tuesday 14 November 2023 21:18:12 GMT
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Olivia :
I was an extremely parentified child and what part of what I loved about Gilmore girls is how much of myself I saw in Rory
2023-11-14 22:30:44
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jess :
how am I all three as an only child? 🙃
2023-11-14 22:44:56
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pb :
i went from golden to parentified to scapegoated to no contact 🙅🏻♀️
2023-11-18 00:11:09
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Illuminaughtie :
this is why I like mintchip ice cream it's the only one everyone else wouldn't eat I formed my preference around others and now I'm lost idk who I am
2023-11-15 01:42:37
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G Vilk :
instead of building an identity, they build an anxiety reaction. Bam!!
2023-11-15 04:10:04
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therightopinion :
can you be both the golden child and scapegoat?
2023-11-15 12:26:27
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t_crayyy :
My therpist introduced enmeshment to me and it rocked my world
2023-11-20 01:02:11
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Cam 🇿🇦🇬🇧 :
parentified here, I was always her "therapist" now she doesn't even ask me about my life. all about her.
2023-11-16 17:10:20
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SaviMamma :
is it possible to be two at the same time? like the parentified child with one parent and the scapegoat with the other?
2023-11-21 13:00:59
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deeohsah :
I was the scapegoat. It stays with you. I left 12 years ago
2023-11-15 14:07:51
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LanderMe :
How do you heal as a parentifief golden child who was undiagnosed autistic and never developed a sense of self?
2023-11-14 22:59:57
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Blkonpurpose :
Can you talk about the outcomes of children that grew up in a dysfunctional household? Abuse, drugs, emotional neglect, etc
2023-11-14 22:22:14
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Coupdegr4ce :
You are just giving out gold for free on the internet. I hope people understand the true value of this type of information. Thank you!!
2023-11-14 21:38:13
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NUNA :
how about if ur the only child and had to grow up contorting yourself into every role possible for all the ppl around you
2023-11-14 21:27:28
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Anita van Eeden :
i was a parentified scapegoat. and i'm indeed living from anxiety, not from identity because i still have NO freaking idea who I am. at all.
2023-11-14 22:24:40
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Dalton :
my therapist told me this and it super helped motivate me to take better care of myself and schedule/organization
2023-11-15 00:52:12
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🌷Cherry です^_^~🌷 :
I am so enmeshed with my parents emotions and it's only now I'm realising how much damage it's taken on me ❤️🩹
2023-11-15 01:45:36
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sage.allyson :
How do we prevent our children from falling into these roles?(Besides the obvious of working on ourselves/self regulation etc)
2023-11-14 21:49:15
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probably.not.ai :
What happens when you’re mom’s golden child but dad’s scapegoat? (Asking for a friend)
2023-11-15 10:42:29
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@aplus :
i am the adult goat😅 and when everyone was calling me the problem and pushing me to therapy(alone) I made sure I didn't put the roles on my kids,😅
2023-11-14 21:50:15
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Spoopy Bri :
I played all of these roles depending on my parent’s mood while both my older brothers just withdrew into their bedrooms. Exhausting.
2023-11-30 22:49:11
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Bird :
I was all 3 in one, that was a complicated experience
2023-11-14 22:36:28
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Alex :
I was both at the same time. Golden child when it served them, scapegoat when it served them. I’m an only child. Parentified by both parents
2023-11-22 06:17:25
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livdoesntnormallydothis :
Being a parentified only child means depending on how your parents view you, you get a little bit of all 3 sometimes! 🥰
2023-11-16 18:45:09
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