@jimmyonrelationships: Stop Helping Her with the Mutual Chores #wivesoftiktok #domesticlabor #relationships #marriagegoals #husbandandwife #datingadvice

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Thursday 16 November 2023 13:42:02 GMT
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purriffic1
Purriffic :
my fiance says "just ask for help" no I shouldn't have to ask for help. get off your game and do something
2023-11-18 20:59:05
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legalthoughts
LegalThoughts :
I didn’t clean the bathroom for a month to prove a point. He cleaned it and wanted an award ceremony. 🥴
2023-11-16 15:36:23
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llcoolbarb
llcooll :
Every time he says “can I help with anything” or “just ask for help” I say “you’re an adult, it isn’t “helping” me. It’s called being responsible.”
2023-11-16 19:42:27
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elizabethann_1981
elizabethann_1981 :
at the end I would get so mad at my ex when he would ask.... do you want me to help? No! I want you to just DO it, not help me do it
2023-11-16 15:39:18
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dorianaldyn
dorianaldyn :
A million times this. It's the same reason why a vacuum should never be a gift for ME.
2023-11-16 15:05:21
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blackcatconjures
BlackCatConjures :
my ex would say "I don't clean cause you never tell me what needs done" use your eyes! whatever needs cleaned, just clean it! I'm not your mommy.
2023-11-16 19:19:46
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everyonesmom11
Wimomtok :
My husband always points out what I did and thanks me. He appreciates a clean home and i feel appreciated.
2023-11-16 15:31:12
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jules4je7
Jules :
Thank you. I’ve seen a lot of marriages end because of this problem. Women are done carrying the emotional and physical load of running a household
2023-11-16 16:41:52
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arielkingoftgehill
Ariel King :
That thing where he said "If your family would come over and the house was a mess bc u BOTH didn't clean up, who would they blame? Her" 💯%
2023-11-17 01:02:00
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dynamicduomama
DynamicDuoMama :
Husband told me he he did dishes the other day. I said “cool thanks. I have done them about 198 times since the last time you did them.”
2023-11-16 15:59:40
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erjinks0
erjinks0 :
Yes!! When my husband got this, it changed our marriage so much!
2023-11-16 14:04:24
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it8436
it :
dose she do a 42 hour week out of the house if not it's her job and as soon as she hits 42 hours it's time to shair the home work
2023-11-17 01:17:29
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candycemathews
Candyce McKinnon :
In my first marriage ALL of the cleaning was my responsibility. 🤬
2023-11-16 14:37:27
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sabrinakissell
sabrinakissell :
Being constantly told it's his house when I do all of the maintenance is infuriating
2023-11-16 15:11:11
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heidibaird0
Heidi Baird205 :
When my husband announces that he’s done the dishes, I say “great!” Not thank you.
2023-11-16 13:59:33
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salwal_
Sal :
And that’s just the visual side of the mental load. It doesn’t include the paying bills, deciding what’s for dinner, buying it, planning family things
2023-11-17 02:31:43
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beckyboop7007
beckyboop7007 :
My husband said”make a list you know I’m visual” I said “so take a visual scan of the house and make your own list, he didn’t like it
2023-11-17 20:19:37
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mandimail26
Mandimail26 :
SAY IT LOUDER 🙌🙌🙌
2023-11-16 14:02:58
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its.karrie.with.a.k
Karrie Miller :
one day I will have the courage to show these to my husband- you are 💯
2023-11-16 14:27:52
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iamb_4u
hollycross822 :
My ex-husband always pulled the "just tell me what to do and I'll do it." I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO TELL YOU. I'm not your mother!
2023-11-25 02:52:44
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writewhalecanada
writewhalecanada :
I left my x’s plate on the table for 2 WEEKS! Until his mom came and picked it up and made me feel horrible for “playing a game” on him. 🥺
2023-11-17 03:43:59
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pies_n_dragons
dusty (taylor’s version) 🤎 :
Thank you. I feel like I’m getting to be a better partner everytime I learn something from your videos. 🙏🏾
2023-11-16 16:00:47
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lindseyfuller7
Lindsey :
These videos make me feel SO VALIDATED!!! Thank you for making them!! 🥰
2023-11-16 23:11:40
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claireiswarped
🌙 :
He never understands why I don’t sit down for the evening until 8 or later. “Our house isn’t that dirty honey” YES IT IS. He just doesn’t see it 1/?
2023-11-18 12:34:45
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jenmink7
Jen :
After 22 years of marriage I had a stroke and am now paralyzed on my left side, now my husband understands how much I was doing All the time
2023-11-16 18:00:54
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