@nikki.neisler: WHY WE AREN’T HAPPY ➡️ Apparently, we don’t usually change because the unknown is unpredictable, scary, and potentially unsafe. Instead, we choose a life we don’t like. “Your unhappiness cannot be blamed on your past or your environment. And it isn’t you lack competence. You just lack courage.” Damn. #couragetobedisliked #BookTok #selfhelp #selfhelpbooks #thatgirl #selfworth #confidence #tipsforgirls #howtolive