everybody has a secret
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Monday 20 November 2023 00:05:57 GMT
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Wickedwenniej :
oh honey....you are just a cover up! 🥺 so nobody will ever find out! he will do it again...cancel!!! 🙋♀️
2023-11-20 00:28:19
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meaghan :
Leave. You explicitly talked about how you want monogamy and then he cheated anyway and hid it for a year.
2023-11-20 02:31:24
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Jared :
This one has too much gray area to be answered here. Please delay the wedding and go to therapy
2023-11-20 01:49:57
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K A Y L A :
It sounds like with keeping his bisexuality mostly secret, he hasn't gotten to explore/experience enough (for him) and is not ready to commit
2023-11-20 00:43:16
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Ms D :
Yes cancel. He didn’t get the boundary he wanted (open) and so he did it anyways. Trust is gone…
2023-11-20 00:28:35
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aye_deyonce :
People WILL ask Q’s but she can say that they’re breaking up bc of infidelity. She doesn’t need to say it was another man. She should end it tho.
2023-11-20 02:05:21
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Sammi Heit :
doesn't matter if it's a "one off" it HAPPENED and the trust is BROKEN.
2023-11-20 01:39:35
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shapes_and_things :
Feels like they love each other but she might be more of a beard to him. I hope she doesn't lose more time of her life to this.
2023-11-20 00:25:04
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Mama4Justice :
Cancel the wedding. If he violates your trust before marriage he will do it during marriage
2023-11-20 13:42:35
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youngmf11 :
Soulmates don’t have to be romantic - maybe he’s meant to be her friend forever but not her husband. And that’s okay!!
2023-11-20 00:50:06
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Lauren :
She needs to ask herself, if they were not engaged, would she stay. call off the wedding and see if she can forgive or not w/o that hanging over them
2023-11-20 01:55:35
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Sara 🇧🇪 :
Definitely end it. Being queer is not an excuse for being unfaithful. If he had cheated with another woman, she wouldn't have sent in this question,
2023-11-20 02:48:42
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Ruth Ann710 :
Straight or bisexual does not matter. He will do it again speaking from experience I should’ve left my husband the first time.
2023-11-20 05:53:10
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🦋 Laura 🦋 :
What a heartbreaking situation 💔 She needs to leave. The trust has already been broken and he hid it for a full year.
2023-11-20 03:21:32
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Mk :
he not only broke her trust but also put her health at risk without her knowing
2023-11-20 19:59:59
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✨Dungeon Crawler Katie ✨ :
You should absolutely cancel. He kept it from you for a year. He wasn’t protecting you, he was protecting himself.
2023-11-20 14:37:00
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... :
she should stick to her guns. It was a boundary she mentioned to him multiple times & they're not married yet, cut your losses.
2023-11-20 00:16:06
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h8190 :
It’s always a “one-off” until it is not.
2023-11-20 17:10:52
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☕️ :
No, you don’t get to hide underneath the rainbow 🌈 when you cheat. Would you have left if he cheated with another woman? If yes: Cancel the wedding.
2023-11-20 01:09:30
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mowbtomato :
If she doesn’t want an open relo she needs to end it - without giving him time to explore all sides of himself he is going to do it again
2023-11-20 03:14:09
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Rachel Coutts :
Cancel that wedding, this is going to be a constant issue for them.
2023-11-20 01:11:46
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Alicia :
He also didn’t tell her for a year… 😳
2023-11-22 01:47:30
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Eden :
this sort of thing will likely keep happening until he fully comes out. Holding secrets weighs very very heavy on the soul
2023-11-20 05:28:35
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nomes_na_naomi :
If she’s not down with ENM then it’s probably best to end the relationship. I feel for both of them in this situation. (1)
2023-11-20 04:04:07
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tiarne :
he did wrong by her but I also couldn’t imagine the mental toll of having to hide your sexuality and not having a chance to explore it openly
2023-11-23 07:18:41
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Motherboy30 :
the biphobia in a lot of these comments is really disappointing.
2023-11-20 00:46:20
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Chloe Singleton :
She needs to leave. As a bi girlie I totally understand wanting to explore your sexuality, but they agreed to monogamy and he betrayed that.
2023-11-20 04:20:17
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jay :
Oh my God I need a part 2?
2023-11-20 01:11:19
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teepeeps :
Delay the wedding. Make an excuse like you lost the venue.
2023-11-20 01:11:51
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Diana | Writer . Advocate :
I wish you hadn't focused so much on HIS sexuality, HIS religious family, HIS shame... That's why she unburdened on a seemingly anonymous platform -
2023-11-20 00:51:26
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Manupmom :
in my experience with cheating, forgiveness can be achieved but trust has yet to be established (it's been 12yrs)
2023-11-20 00:26:36
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Jennifer :
Do not get married. you spent 8 years together & have a great friendship but your goals for marriage are not compatible. cut your loss and move on.
2023-11-22 04:07:44
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Georgina Todley :
yeah. I think you need to cancel :( he has his own journey to go on and you d to have your boundaries respected and trust your loved one.
2023-11-20 00:50:37
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The Chelsea clinic 👣☀️ :
yes cancel it
2023-12-03 22:17:11
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Cholo_HungryDoggo :
if he did it once, he will do it again 😳
2023-11-20 00:23:02
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Samantha💕 :
Cancel. Let him figure out who HE TRULY is. This isn’t fair to you, to 1 keep that secret and 2 have tk literally act as if everything is fine in both
2023-11-20 14:33:25
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Nope :
You can forgive him and let him go. End of relationship for me if this happened to me and my fiancé
2023-11-20 00:30:13
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ThatsJustJoJo :
It doesn't matter who it's with or their sexuality, cheating is cheating. If he wanted to experiment he should have allowed her the freedom to
2023-11-20 03:35:08
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Allie Elizabeth :
Cancel - you do NOT want to go through a divorce if you realize you can’t trust him. If you’re meant to be together, you can marry years in the future
2023-11-21 01:38:33
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DeAnna :
I married a gay man (unbeknownst to me) - it doesn’t work out. Save yourself the pain
2023-11-20 00:32:58
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:
No no no he’ll want to do it again!
2023-11-20 03:33:47
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Nina 🇻🇪🇦🇺 :
what's the name of this episode? I wanna listen to your thoughts too!
2023-11-20 00:20:49
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ZOZOJorgo :
She’s grace to his will.
2023-11-20 00:59:50
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Dora Amneris Rector :
No no no that respect is out the window … it would be a no for me
2023-11-20 05:17:26
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Kristi McDonald :
When she said she wouldn’t be able to stay with someone who cheated and then he confesses to cheating… he wants out?
2023-11-20 13:11:51
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Marjolein :
Cancel the wedding. He broke a promisse with you, he will do it again if he have the change.
2023-11-21 11:29:33
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FunN2025 :
Don’t get married. Don’t do it.
2023-11-21 12:48:30
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Manon 💜 :
the separation had already begun when he told you and broke your trust. If you get married, you'll probably divorce within a matter of time.
2023-11-20 19:17:21
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AE :
I'm bi and while at times a memory of a woman I had been with or a crush forms there is no way I'd risk it with my husband
2023-11-21 04:30:54
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Tere Ashby :
You’ve answered your own question in your story sis……. Leave
2023-11-20 00:27:51
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