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mors_55
Mors :
what happens when they say "Calm down, it was just a joke" as a kind of "Return fire" scenario
2023-11-23 06:12:04
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miranda.casper
Miranda Casper :
now how to deal with a whole family of emotional snipers who always say you overreact and "chill its just a joke"
2023-11-23 13:10:17
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chikkenscratch
chikkenscratch :
“I’m not in the habit of laughing at insults.” That’s saved me a few times.
2023-11-23 12:21:31
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jesswilson718
Jess :
We like to say - that’s an odd thing to say out loud.
2023-11-23 02:12:49
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haunterpurplex
Ty :
My favorite is a blank stare followed by “hmm? That’s interesting”, instant deer in the headlights
2023-11-23 01:08:45
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scain311
Sarah :
I like to say ‘That’s a strange thing to say’
2023-11-23 02:49:22
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algebrainz
algebrainz :
ah yes, the "I don't get it" disengage
2023-11-23 02:55:28
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laudanum1969
Laudanum :
“I don’t understand what you mean” said in a neutral tone while looking puzzled is almost a superpower
2023-11-23 03:49:48
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mmutilatedd
.°˖𝑳𝒂𝒏𝒂☥🦇 ݁ ˖ִ ࣪ :
one of my favorites is "I'm pretty sure that was an "Inside ur head" thought ! " lmao
2023-11-23 06:06:22
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gabberzs
gabbadabba :
“That’s an odd thing to say” while smiling really floors them
2023-11-23 06:00:59
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lizziebarthem
user8433331129360 :
What is a good response to them saying, ‘can’t you take a joke’?
2023-11-23 04:33:12
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darthmew2
Darth Mew2 :
Or something like “well if you bought your wife a purse she wouldn’t be sleeping with the pool boy”
2023-11-23 11:18:57
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supportpaththerapy
SupportPath Therapy :
She got curious! Love it! She set boundaries is a healthy way!
2024-01-21 23:26:54
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higigicamp
GigiCamp :
I used to do this to my narcissistic boss - “why do you think that’s funny?” Drove him insane
2023-11-23 03:20:50
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shazzrey
Shazz Rey :
This is how my boss shouted to the entire staff that I didn’t understand sarcasm. I understand it better than they do
2023-11-23 01:19:36
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sundaysspiders1
Sunday :
Sounds like my ex mother-in-law she did those all the time I never even heard of anything like it until I met her
2023-11-25 02:40:02
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avatar_of_shodan
Ava _ :
I automatically smile when uncomfortable. 😭 I fawn. I gotta learn how to control my expression.
2023-11-23 14:51:17
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seebowgo
Bow :
Serious ask, what if you can't help but laugh because you have been conditioned to. What can I say after a laugh to call them out.
2023-11-24 11:52:21
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reksrat
Chris 'Reksrat' :
The unfortunate counter to this response is something to the effect of “You don’t get it? You must not be fun at parties”
2023-11-23 05:24:05
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beamer0821
beamer0821 :
Then they’ll have it out for you or they say “I was just kidding can’t take a joke” I swear we can’t win
2023-11-24 18:26:33
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cass_hane03
C Hane :
I hope to not need this this holiday season but, if I do, I will be prepared. Thank you!
2023-11-23 01:11:56
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tracym337
Tracy :
This feels like it requires peer pressure, maybe just the ones I encounter? I hate “just a joke, stop taking it personal” if peers jerks doesn’t work
2023-11-23 00:58:09
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harts090
harts090 :
I didn’t have a name for it, but I’ve been doing this for years & it always works
2023-11-23 00:40:53
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purenergy72
purenergy72 :
lol, that's never happened. usually the room turns on me for exposing them.
2023-11-23 07:38:42
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