@professor.steph: Are you a pursuer or withdrawer? Sometimes, parents (or even therapists) can view their relationship with their children like a pursue-withdraw relationship. A parent wants to get close to their child, but every time they try to get close, their child pulls away. I wanted to share this foundational knowledge with you first before I help you spot the important differences between the partner-partner bond and the parent-child bond. #parenting #parentingtips #parentinghacks #parenting101 #marriage #couples #marriage #divorce #breakup #Relationship #relationships #therapy #communication #MentalHealth #fyp #foryou #couplestherapy #familytherapy #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle

Steph the Attachment Professor
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faelight__
fae✨ :
i have both depending on the situation 🫠
2023-11-24 04:07:43
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louseb1
Louseb :
What if you used to be a pursuer but now you’re a withdrawaler?
2023-11-23 08:40:44
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1800wardogs
List :
when the dynamic is pursuer avoidant and withdrawer anxious 😭 shit will drive u insane
2023-11-23 15:49:20
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starbrightcosmos
Starbrightcosmos 🇨🇦 :
What if you’re both on different days 🤣😭
2023-11-23 05:09:03
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professor.steph
Steph the Attachment Professor :
Time to unpack the parent-child side of things!
2023-12-03 18:51:49
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gemjems14
Gemma Finnegan :
How am I both of these 😂
2023-11-23 20:29:37
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abrowncoat
abrowncoat :
The final few years of my marriage summed up in a single TikTok.
2023-11-23 04:57:17
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melhl516
MelHL516 :
I'm a withdrawer! 😬
2023-11-23 18:21:58
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lisa.v.life
Lisa's 📚✨️🧶 :
I was with my ex-husband 12 years, 10 married. In the beginning, middle, I was the anxious pursuer and was punished for wanting proximity.
2023-12-15 00:08:43
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psychnurse948
Psychnurse :
This is exactly my husband and I, but we’ve been through therapy and we’re good. Together for 34 years.
2023-11-23 05:44:43
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jasperthemaltip00
Jasper & Family :
First date question: “in conflict, are you a pursuer or a witbdrawer?” *seeking pursuers only* 😂
2023-11-23 17:23:58
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samanthalavishly
Samantha :
The craziest thing is 2 disorganized attachment style people in a relationship… they take turns being pursuer & withdrawer🤣💀
2023-12-04 04:20:40
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radioactivelime
FluffyNimbuscloud :
Could you talk about strategies this couple can use?
2023-11-26 19:33:15
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autonotes.ai
AutoNotes :
This is so accurate 😮‍💨
2023-11-25 01:42:55
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thajuanguy
That Juan Guy 😎 :
what abot disorganized attachment that starts as a pursuer?
2023-11-25 13:27:47
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shknmyphatass
Shknmyphatass :
This is my husband and I. We’ve worked hard to work through this and find the best balance for each of us.
2023-11-26 12:55:45
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darling_collected
Darling Collected :
Pursuer abd husband’s withdraw so not great
2023-11-24 03:18:14
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apatheticentity
Tardigrade :
I’m deffo a withdrawer 😅
2023-11-23 04:06:19
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angelnummber1
Sage_Tull_Lou :
Everly waiting for the parent/ child dynamic. Does this include adult children?
2023-11-23 19:33:10
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abiade41
Habibi_official :
This was so informative. Do you have a tiktok about fearful avoidant attachments??
2023-12-08 21:31:42
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corymft
Cory, Therapist, AMFT :
EFT, yes!!
2023-12-20 12:55:54
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cul8rspacecow
Getitlike_Dani :
hahahaha I am anxious avoidant 😂 I can not be predicted I can not be fixed
2023-12-02 13:56:38
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in.jennifers.world
Jennifer | 🦋 Connection Coach :
Yes stitch!
2023-12-02 10:08:52
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laurenroth720
laurenroth720 :
I’m a pursuer 😩 my husband withdrawals
2023-11-30 23:51:44
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mushortgurl03
Michelle Deimling :
Total withdrawaler, husband is a pursuer.
2023-11-23 13:19:08
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