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Elizabeth :
Don't forget that being the default parent often means you're also the seen as the mean parent and not the "fun one".
2023-11-27 11:59:09
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Niesha :
No one talks about that side of the anxiety, depression, exhaustion that being the default parent can cause. We got this!!!!!❤️
2023-11-28 15:09:24
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Cat32 :
Could you imagine if we suddenly just stopped being the default parent?! like what would actually happen to the kids/house etc???
2023-11-26 20:12:10
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Steph :
I don’t mind being the default parent.. what I mind is the lack of initiative from the other parent 😂 that frustrates me more than anything
2023-11-27 02:32:32
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Emma :
then it's the "what's wrong with you" "why you in a mood" comments when your tired or over stimulated and need 5 minutes
2023-11-27 20:15:09
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KC :
And silently suffering through it all
2023-11-26 23:40:58
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brookegauthier22 :
Add in having guilt of being a stay at home mom and not making any income and feeling like you’re actually not doing anything to help
2023-11-27 02:26:50
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shaymarie825 :
Every single day. I’m counting the minutes until I can just default parent on my own. The resentment is too much.
2023-11-27 01:04:24
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Julie :
Being the default parent is SO HARD, but as the child ages, they can see and understand who was there for them day in and day out.
2023-11-26 23:15:03
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Kyla.Nori :
So hard to explain what our brains feel like as default parent!
2026-07-11 14:07:04
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Natasha :
struggling with this right now! I wish the men would do more 😡
2023-11-26 22:03:20
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binsley9 :
“Having to ask” that’s the worst part
2023-11-27 13:37:47
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.leon.g4 :
✋🏽help me help my wife. I feel like I step up & take initiative & do things w/o being askd cuz I spot them to help with the load. Still not enough
2023-11-28 07:36:56
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Alejandra Carriza609 :
YES! I lost my S#!+ when my husband told be I forgot 1 of our babies pacifiers! I am not their ONLY parent! 😳
2023-11-26 21:21:49
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Auroradf :
100000% and when you bring it up to them they get mad and say how they do help and they can’t help it the kids always need their mommy
2023-11-28 19:04:27
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Kay Pro :
it's so hard. you start to hate yourself for not having the energy to do anything. then build up guilt because you can't be the fun mum! 😭
2024-01-23 22:35:30
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user1989 :
So stop doing it. Walk out when you want to. I stopped one day and it was the best thing for my mental health. I also realized I deserved more and
2023-12-17 04:58:48
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Kris🖤 :
&They get overwhelmed being around the kids for an hour but we have to hold our shit together every hour of every day.
2023-12-18 17:03:47
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alysshamaxinefost :
Had a c section, 2 month old girl ❤️. Suffer frm plantar fasciitis. Back pains, lower back, my incision pain,exhausted
2023-12-16 19:54:02
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Amy :
When the other passes away Trust me you will realize everything they did do. My husband passed away. Spend more time praying for them and praising .
2023-12-26 07:12:12
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Budget Lego builds :
Looking after kids the most important thing in society. There is nothing more important. With out children society ends real quick.
2023-12-16 03:52:07
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Misty Day 🖤 :
Single mum and the resentment I have towards their dad is heavy, I am drowning in responsibility of raising two little people, he's free and can pick
2023-11-27 09:03:59
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Magaña_ViRi :
I have a 19 and 16 yr old I was the only parent and let me tell you… my grown kids love so me much & they constantly thank me for everything ive done
2023-12-14 17:39:31
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Stephy_Reddy :
agree 100%, you go through changes physically, mentally and emotionally but there is never a chance for you to step back.You just have to suck it up
2023-11-30 17:21:56
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Kara Ventura :
Yep. Do this and primary bread winner. I’m shot. Go to bed crying every night.
2023-12-22 02:56:50
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