Jimmy Knowles
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Monday 27 November 2023 22:06:37 GMT
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bonolomakhanye :
as an anxious attachment all I need is communication and reassurance I don’t want to feel like I’m begging for someone to reciprocate effort
2023-12-30 02:33:05
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Appeal Not Approved :
Some of these avoidants are just narcissists
2023-11-28 00:32:51
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namatorrr :
Avoidants in the comments really act like they don’t have the most toxic attachment style. Even secure people turn anxious when dealing with avoidants
2023-11-28 08:28:00
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ur mom lol :
i’m tired of anxious attachments acting like their attachment isn’t toxic also . like bro you’re not secure either
2023-11-29 00:39:19
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deadteddy00 :
in my experience, the anxious attachment person apologies or reconciles before I've had the time I need to finish processing my emotions.
2023-11-27 23:11:41
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Cyrus Wiredu :
Avoidants. Find each other and date yourselves.
2023-11-30 19:38:58
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afrofaerie_art :
What I realized is that I never even had an anxious attachment style at all. I just had low self worth and was accepting bs lmao
2023-11-27 23:04:19
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LuckyFish :
And the anxious person does it because the avoidant won't and then nothing gets resolved.
2023-11-27 22:55:24
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bigbunno :
I disagree as an avoidant to an extent. I always "compromise" my boundaries my past anxious partners did not do the same. It's their way or no way ime
2023-11-28 01:56:30
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AyyeItsLyd :
Because the avoidant will more often than not have to ground the anxious. Thus overstepping their own boundaries to appease their partner’s spiraling.
2023-11-28 02:23:13
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Han :
Love isn't possessive either. As an avoidant I have tried to meet in the middle. And wanting space doesn't make us bad or takers.
2023-11-28 17:03:38
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JollyJezebel :
To all the avoidants in the comments: learn the difference between "needing space" and "not dealing with problems"
2023-11-30 11:56:16
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Mookho Masilo :
Let’s be clear, NEITHER the anxious or the avoidant are better but the aim is to heal and be securely attached.
2023-11-28 05:04:06
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shermicklepickle :
disagree. As an avoidant, I was always giving more of my time than I wanted to, more of my body, and more of my energy, because I put his needs befor
2023-11-27 23:32:05
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Judge Sahara :
my time to shine, I'm disorganized which is like both. Avoidants aren't avoidant to hurt you, they're avoidant so they don't get hurt.
2023-11-29 14:06:24
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caly :
as an avoidant i find it suffocating when an anxious constantly barged in my boundaries for a resolution and to fix things.
2023-12-01 02:09:00
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eevee eevee chopper!!! :
so funny to see the comments full of anxious and avoidant people just attacking each other instead of reflecting on how to be more secure.
2023-11-28 22:15:57
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drdanyelferrari :
Ugh. I hate this. We do not give because we don’t have self worth. We give because you treat people the way you want them to treat you
2023-11-28 02:27:35
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Ashbee 🐝🏴 :
I think both are incredibly unhealthy and unfair on eachother. No unhealthy attachment is better or less unhealthy
2023-11-28 08:46:09
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Hoopmon :
I see a lot of discussion of the anxious vs avoidant dichotomy (which is not a real thing) just presenting as repackaged gender roles...
2023-11-27 23:23:02
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Tara’s Tarot :
Communicating the need for that space instead of suddenly ignoring is the key
2023-11-28 01:06:28
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Jaymes The Cat :
But as I stated, the avoidant acts like this with every one, even secure. Avoidants breed anxious.
2023-11-28 00:20:15
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_Glaci0ne_ :
The avoidant has to push them selves and the anxious has to pull back and reflect for a relationship to work. That’s how it should be
2023-11-28 06:21:36
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Stevie Bee Designs :
I used to be an anxiously attached person and would naturally be attracted to avoidance. once you heal yourself, you don't feel the constant need to
2023-11-28 21:09:22
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Thea :
As an avoidant, I feel like I ask my anxious for space but never get it. I need space to process and self regulate before I can reconnect with my
2023-11-28 21:56:26
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