@florahsrecoveryy: Replying to @𝑀𝒶𝓇𝒾𝒶 𝓋𝒶𝓃 𝒫𝓁𝓊𝒾𝑒 im breaking my generational trauma by treating him like a human and a human alone 💜🫂 it may be hard for some people to understand but its what works best for us as a family #fyp #domesticabuseawareness #stalker

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suckthymother
🐉 :
honestly my mum never telling me what my dad did actually made it worse in the long run bc it felt like my world crushin down when i finally found out
2023-11-28 17:46:02
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marinabucciarelli
Marina Bucciarelli :
Children know more than we think. Having these conversations gives him autonomy. I would have loved this as a child who also experienced trauma.
2023-11-30 22:25:52
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mariapluie21
𝑀𝒶𝓇𝒾𝒶 𝓋𝒶𝓃 𝒫𝓁𝓊𝒾𝑒 :
its definrtly right to talk with him in honesty.i just wanted to make Sure kinda. You are a good mother, that is very clear. I hope you stay safe.🥺🥰
2023-11-28 22:50:45
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amberwindle
Ziggy moon333🌙 :
Wow you are so so incredibly strong. What an incredible mumma you are. keep on rising love 💕
2023-12-03 00:51:30
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.taniiijadeee
𝓣𝓪𝓷𝓲𝓼𝓱𝓪-𝓙𝓪𝓭𝓮 🩶♓️ :
You have done nothing wrong that’s your boy, your his parent, your the one who cares and it’s all from a place of love ❤️
2023-12-13 21:33:42
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x.tiff.x16
tiff :
Sister is constantly attached to my mum and gets upset when she leaves the house and is such an anxious little child I know it’s scary but ur doing an
2023-11-28 22:07:03
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flowersandsimplicity
flowersandsimplicity :
How do you know what’s age appropriate? My daughter is 16monts so I don’t have to worry yet, but I do. She’s never physically seen him but I was heavily pregnant for most of it💔 you’re so strong ❤️
2024-05-09 09:03:16
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vickilovesdoctorwho
VickiLovesDoctorWho :
"It was his trauma, just as it was mine" got me crying 😭 My mum's response to me talking about how traumatised I feel because of my dad was, "I'm not traumatised, why should you be?" 💔
2024-08-25 15:41:21
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emmajacqueline326
Emmmiiii🪐✨ :
God this is deep.hit me hard. Real hard
2024-03-27 01:34:01
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glazedlife
GLAZED :
My mum was an SA abuse survivor I wish she had told me by a certain age, she didn’t until I went through the same thing at 23.
2023-11-28 20:21:43
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xmegangrace1995x
Megan Grace Bowles :
The truth, always the truth, you both shared this, you both went through it together! The truth means you can heal together as one xxx
2023-11-28 17:47:30
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christinakennedy5
Christina✨🧡 :
He still went though it with you! And you’ll do everything to keep him safe ❤️❤️❤️
2023-11-28 17:45:50
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sarahbx__
𝔰𝔞𝔯𝔞𝔥 𝔩𝔬𝔲𝔦𝔰𝔢 🐆🍒 :
As a child I witnessed my mum suffer DV at the hands of my dad & I too was at the forefront of it sometimes. I would have loved my mum to sit me down
2023-11-29 09:03:23
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leahdclinpsy
leahdclinpsy :
Keep speaking 🤍 also, you should definitely write about your story. You speak so well
2023-11-28 17:52:07
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tilbo.8
tills :
so much respect for you for doing this, you are an amazing mum❤️‍🩹
2023-11-28 17:45:16
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brooke.x097
Brooke x :
Your one of the best mums I’ve seen x don’t ever let people tell you how to raise your child x he went through that with you and he will need to know
2023-11-28 17:47:41
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leo.x.x
Leo :
He is a human, and so are you, I am so so thankful for how honest you are and how hard you fight for him, it’ll change his life
2023-11-28 22:00:38
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lunarosewellbeing
LunaRose :
I've told my kids the truth. they now know the signs to look out for as they get older in potential partners. obviously age appropriate. (1)
2023-12-02 14:16:26
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numerous.bees.in.a.berry
Numerous Bees In A Berry :
my mom finally got a restraining order and divorce when I was 10. as a kid I was just sad about the family being torn apart but as I got older and
2023-11-28 18:58:18
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drekley61
Steve :
You should write a book or something 🤣🤣
2023-11-28 17:49:39
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saturnzdead
Ares :
as someone who only had one parent and one set of grandparents for similar reasons, i never felt that a big chunk of me was missing. (1)
2023-12-01 00:50:36
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nala.thebully
🌸Nala :
Tell him what you want. He’s yours and your his whole world. Never let anyone tell you what to do with YOURS.❤️
2023-11-28 17:46:25
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xlilylulux
Lil🤍. :
my mum experienced a DV relationship, until the age of 7 i was asking why is he hurting you mummy?,why dose he do this to you?,
2023-12-04 13:31:23
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heathercrook2
Heather Crook :
Please write a book flo ❤️
2023-12-01 17:22:29
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sharkytonin
sharky :
Thank you for being so honest with us and with him 💜 it’s incredible to witness
2023-11-29 00:59:21
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camcamlifex
𝙲𝚊𝚖𝚢<𝟹 :
Your such a beautiful person your such a amazing mom and woman. you and and your son are so strong. I will sent you all my love..
2023-11-29 00:18:23
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smilearmyjunior
Miri :
The truth is always best, explaining in an age appropriate way is always the best thing.
2023-11-28 21:54:11
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tia__lx
Tia_lx :
I always knew what was happening as a kid. Being told made me feel so much better and safer 🥰
2023-11-28 20:21:05
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mikaylala.la
Mikaylaa :
Age appropriate truths are always better than lies that will have to be untangled during hormonal teenager times!💙
2023-11-28 19:11:44
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amethystdaydreams
AmethystDaydreams :
And as an adult who can now better verbalize my thoughts and questions, you're absolutely correct on what he's feeling. All of it is so accurate.
2023-12-22 12:19:47
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shutupkelley
shutupkelley :
one of the things that always helped me in my life is how honest my parents were about their experiences. you’re doing great love xx
2023-12-19 00:42:19
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itsyourgirl14355
Sienna ྀིྀི :
It is ok your his mum and you can tell him whatever you want to so he knows somethings that is going on in your family’s life
2023-12-15 13:20:39
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mikaylac4
mikaylac4 :
You just tell him whatever you want don’t let someone else tell you what to say just do what your heart is telling you
2023-12-10 20:50:21
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mols.mg
𝐌 𝐎 𝐋 𝐒 ꨄ :
@Flo this has your son in it I think it’s okay but you asked to tag if you think it has his trave sorry xx
2023-12-05 15:46:55
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anniegee2010
Ann-Marie O'Connor :
My daughter is nearly 7 and from dot we tell the truth - I just make it kid friendly
2023-12-01 14:00:22
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shannon___lewis
shannon🖤🖤 :
Let him know in age appropriate ways he needs to know before he finds out somewhere else
2023-12-01 09:18:44
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makennalle
🍸🍸🍸 :
Incase no one has told you today I’m so proud of you trauma is so hard to deal with especially when you fear your child’s safety. You’re inspiring 🥰
2023-11-30 07:41:09
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rosiehalliwell
Rosiee :
This made me cry, it’s so hard x
2023-11-30 00:07:12
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carolsbwndiwidnem
user3625267114795 :
@POPPY I’m sobbing this is so sad
2023-11-29 18:02:30
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luce.xw
Lucy x :
@neave x this breaks my heart for them
2023-11-29 11:06:24
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sparkles.0101
Sparkles 💖 ✨ :
I just can’t I can’t put it into words. Im protecting by the monster that broke us! i just cant find the words flo 😭 I understand this SO MUCH Broken
2023-11-29 09:56:41
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witchybitch22
Halle Grace :
I’m keeping you and your family in my thoughts. I hope you are all safe and doing well 🫶🏻
2023-11-29 00:48:10
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x.tiff.x16
tiff :
Amazing job as a mum to ur amazing little boy u can do it keep going sending lots of love to u xx
2023-11-28 22:07:36
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peaceout073
Lucy86 :
The moment my kid asked why is daddy mean to you mummy is the moment I knew we needed to leave I thought she didn’t know!! She heard and saw more!!
2023-11-28 20:37:26
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zapphxxo
Zapphire Edwards :
your voice breaking in this broke my heart
2023-11-28 19:31:53
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emmasutcliffe05
Em em :
You’re doing amazing and listen to yourself not everybody else he is your child🥰🥰🥰
2023-11-28 19:21:15
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jasmine._haley
Jasmine💜 :
I know this is going to sound so rude but I don't meen it but if you new what he was like why did you have a child with him I'm so sorry for asking
2023-11-28 18:59:02
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joeybthepoet
Joey Black :
knowing was always best for me. I knew a lot anyway but my mum always willing to fill in the blanks was always best. it stopped me being a victim
2023-11-28 18:07:44
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user638347474
User :
Children are recognised by law as victims in their own right from witnessing or hearing the abuse of theirs.
2023-11-28 18:01:31
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gonexbyex23456
Jade Jean 🩷 :
God bless you 💜 you deserve the world You and your beautiful son 🙏🏽
2023-11-28 17:44:39
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debbistark
debbistark :
❤️‍🩹🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️‍🩹
2024-09-23 11:57:41
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susannea1
Susanne :
The best approach is ALWAYS to just answer his questions and worries, nothing more nothing less
2024-01-18 20:31:18
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lupin_wolfsbane
Niamh💙 :
Does your son know the extent to what his dad, your abuser, did or is just that he knows that this man isn't a nice person
2023-12-24 20:33:06
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