@phyllisann922: Some have asked what the early signs were for my mom in her cognitive decline.. 2017 (67yrs old): My mom was having trouble remembering things at work so she went to see a neurologist. He did an MRI & told her her forgetfulness was likely caused by stress/anxiety/depression & to see a therapist, possibly needing medication. Since the neurologist assured her it wasn’t Alzheimer’s (she was so scared of getting Alzheimer’s like her dad) she never went for treatment of her anxiety or depression. 2018 (68yrs old): My mom felt her memory was getting worse so she asked me to go back to the neurologist with her. He did another MRI and found that in comparing the two scans there was brain shrinkage. The neurologist recommended we go to Penn Medicine in Phila for further testing and clinical trials so we did that. They diagnosed her with “mild cognitive impairment”. She retired from her job selling insurance at the end of this year. 2019 (69yrs old): We noticed things continued to get worse for her. She wasn’t able to pay her bills or write checks anymore and she would get lost when she drove places. The doctors at Penn Medicine diagnosed her with Alzheimer’s and started her on an Alzheimer’s drug called Memantine, along with a drug for anxiety and depression. We stopped the clinical trials because they didn’t seem to be doing much for her and the testing really stressed her out. Today, my mom relies on her 3 children and her 2 caregivers. She cries nearly every morning because she is scared and confused when she wakes up. She constantly thinks people come into her home and take her things. She can not bathe or dress on her own, she can not brush her hair or put on her makeup. She can not make her meals or pour herself a glass of juice. She 𝒊𝒔 however still able to brush her teeth, if we put the toothpaste on the toothbrush for her and show her where the bathroom is, and she can also put her shoes on if we place them next to the correct foot. She can still walk and talk (although it’s difficult for her to find words and follow a conversation now) and she can still DANCE! 💃

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cherylee_1
🍀Cheryl🍀 :
My mom started labeling stuff. Ex: her pencil sharpener. 😢💜
2023-12-01 19:43:36
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joburr_
Jo 🇦🇺 :
I am still waiting to get back to the memory specialist with my mum, she had a PET scan and showing signs of alzheimers from the results. It’s so awful and sad to see them
2024-10-05 12:34:13
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✨️brony✨️ :
I'm so sorry. it is a terrible desease. i know it affects everyone differently. can i ask if your mum is declining rapidly? im asking for myself
2024-02-15 09:05:28
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sunshine_1979_43
Sunshine79 :
I absolutely love the way you take such amazing care of her and have such a fun time with her you’re a amazing daughter god bless you both ♥️
2023-11-29 22:48:38
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memmelsss
MemMel :
You give her such dignity. Thank you for sharing the journey
2023-11-29 23:55:41
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lovelylavender35
JenLee :
You have the same beautiful facial features as your mother.
2024-02-22 01:33:37
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deenie2129
deenie2129 :
Enjoy these moments. It’s so hard when you really start losing her. And it comes before you know it
2023-11-29 23:45:29
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mleann13
Misti :
Thank you for sharing your story and your Mom’s story. We are going through this with my mom as well!
2023-11-30 03:19:30
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rosewoodagain
RoseWoodAgain :
This is how it's done!!! I was my mom's caregiver. Once she passed I started my business caring for the elderly. They NEED us!
2023-11-30 00:22:39
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rachelm79
Momma Apples :
My mom also has Alzheimer’s. Your story is so similar to ours. I wish you both the very best.
2023-12-02 02:01:51
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carolynshort68
CarolynShort :
I love that you make her feel and look beautiful
2024-03-12 19:31:08
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userpurplerose2
Mary :
Your such a beautiful and amazing daughter 💕
2023-11-29 23:59:16
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lillymae72
AmyLou72 :
You’re such a wonderful daughter to your mother!! I enjoy seeing her dance and smile!! ♥️
2023-11-30 12:01:33
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ludakris100
Ludakris100 :
You are a wonderful loving daughter. I too am going through similar with my mom . Depression,crying, can’t remember words. Heart wrenching disease
2023-11-30 15:39:59
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iheartdmb
Jeanette :
Your mom and my mom could’ve been sisters. They look exactly alike.
2024-04-03 14:51:35
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lovemylt0
lovemylt0 :
You are amazing to be such a good caregiver. 💜
2023-12-01 01:31:32
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user80684181
Surferdude23 :
You’re an amazing loving daughter . Your post of your beautiful mother dancing broke my heart . Prayer of strength , guidance sent to you both
2025-02-12 20:01:46
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kathyguzman331
kathyguzman331 :
I love your videos! I can totally relate with everything. I’m a caregiver to my mom who has dementia also.
2023-11-29 22:44:49
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lovelylaterra
Charl3e :
Mom has stunning cheek bones & jaw line❤️
2024-03-12 22:13:33
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beccarose916
Becca 🐞 :
I love how you are looking at what she can still do, some people only look at the negatives.
2023-11-29 22:37:07
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user61575024
Tammera Hooper :
It’s another kind of relationship ❤️
2023-11-30 04:18:11
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blahita
blahita :
God Bless you for doing these TikTok’s with her, I enjoy watching them. God Bless your siblings and you for stepping up and doing what you do for her.
2023-11-29 23:05:14
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nicolemmill1
Nikki 🖤🤍🖤 :
I’m so sorry. Beautiful ladies.
2023-11-30 06:02:55
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user1182947909551
user1182947909551 :
My mom ha been diagnosed with dimentia and I love how positive you are around her. You inspire me to do the same with my mom.
2023-12-01 04:05:58
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