@bethsandland_: Feeling this, this week. 😭🤍 Time is flying (2 weeks off of 6 months) and I don’t remember the last time I just sat and cuddled him. Watched daytime TV or trashy Netflix with a cuppa and a biscuit or three. Stayed in bed cuddled up together into the morning. I know he’s fine; happy, loved, cared for. But I feel a bit sad for me, as though I ended my postpartum at 3 months by going back to work. (Even though it wasn’t a choice, and those three months “off” are something I’m still trying to claw back). I’m stuck in a cycle at the moment, where each week I think “if I can just get through this week…” and then I blink and he’s another month older. I’m so scared that I’ll look back on his baby days and my heart will ache as I wonder where the time went. 💔 #secondbaby #secondchild #mumoftwo #mamaoftwo #workingmama #workingmums #6monthsold #6monthspostpartum #lastbaby

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courtneylee978
Courtney Jones :
My second baby is my light through all the chaos 🥰 All I have to do is look her way and get the biggest smile on earth
2023-12-07 09:44:38
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jessicaevans4705
jessicaevans4705 :
All of this BUT my second gets a calmer more confident mama with a concept of how quick things go so I get to enjoy the moment
2023-11-30 20:08:51
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kim_said_it
KimSaidIt :
Well now I’m crying and I don’t even have a second kid yet 😅🥺
2023-12-01 02:14:31
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badgaltamz
Tam :
My second baby has my attention more!! Instead of constantly googling everything and worrying about everything being right we spend every minute
2023-12-01 02:59:34
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sunnysidecottagecrafts
Emily Sìne McKay :
And I'm crying. It's nice to see I'm not alone in these feelings
2023-11-30 23:03:00
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allyynicoleee
Ally Be :
the 2nd child gets to have something wonderful the older child never had: the 1st kid as a big sibling. my my daughte adores her big brother 🤍
2023-12-02 14:20:58
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alexislynn609
Alexis Lynn :
I’m scared of this and I’m scared I won’t be able to spend so much time with my first bc I’ll be caring for a second 😭 I’m so torn on having a second
2023-12-01 03:40:53
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bubble07895
Bubble07 :
baby sensory... went twice then thought why am I sitting in a cold hall with a bunch of strangers again and sacked it off
2023-11-30 20:47:47
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ok_rude
Kennedy Roode :
I felt more confident in my parenting with my second baby. Like I knew roughly what to expect and knew my priorities
2023-12-02 14:40:29
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winemixercat
catalina :
This made me cry because the mom guilt that comes with your second baby is UNREAL 😭
2023-12-01 18:38:09
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cate_ligx
Cate | MomLife & Sourdough✨️🥖 :
not me crying trying to get my second born to sleep while my big baby sleeps in the other room 🥺
2023-12-02 02:46:14
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jaderileyx
jaderileyx :
Currently 30 weeks pregnant with my second baby boy and this made me cry - I’ve been feeling so guilty about my first having to
2023-12-01 20:54:11
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heather.waldo
heather.waldo :
I always feel this. but I also know I am so much more confident with my 2nd. and I am doing all the things I didn't realize to do with my first
2023-12-01 02:37:46
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victoria__smith11
V I C T O R I A :
But the beauty is a more confident mama and a beautiful new outlook. Pregnant with my 2nd and excited for this 🥰
2023-11-30 22:15:40
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viktoria.valerjewna
Viktoria.Valerjewna :
Don‘t worry, the 2nd one turns out fine even though they don’t have exclusive time with mama. While my first one is reaching for independence the 2nd
2023-11-30 21:00:57
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taylors_library2
Taylorslibrary📚 :
I'm scared, I'm pregnant with my second and my first is really clingy with me. it's always me and him and he never wants to be apart..
2023-12-03 01:23:56
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nadiavaatete
nadiavaatete :
Wow, I felt this. Currently sobbing as my second born is sleeping right next to me😭😭
2023-12-03 04:20:49
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chan_bruh
Chantelle :
Wow wow wow, I’m sobbing. 4 month old with a 2 year old and i feel so guilty all the time
2023-12-02 22:19:27
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gucci_tearsxx
Shanna :
This is such a fear of mine if I have a second one. Like they won’t feel as loved because they don’t have all my attention😭
2023-12-01 02:25:56
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lisamharding
Lisa M Harding :
Gosh I’m in this and feel it all. Bawling.
2023-12-04 01:40:29
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deletedddddd3217890
deletedddddd3217890 :
I feel this feeling but for my first born, that I wish I knew all I knew with my second born. My 2nd gets me prepared where my 1st didn’t 😭🥺
2023-12-05 01:55:53
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tifaniemiles
Tifanie Miles :
To my second and now third little🥺
2023-12-01 20:31:08
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elyshajade8
Elysha Jade :
3 month old and 2 year old. Feel this x
2023-11-30 20:57:22
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hato888
PrincessGA :
@htttcccdr
2023-12-05 01:13:17
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morgan_mosley
Morgan Mosley :
Okay now I’m crying. 😭
2023-12-02 16:08:14
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yannahendrickson
Yanna Hendrickson :
@Raven Hendrickson
2023-12-02 23:26:16
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thatchickyouknew
Miss Guzman :
I feel this in my soul 😞 #21monthold #6monthold
2023-12-02 23:46:43
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meghn1o29
Meg :
Felt this!! The guilt between both children is never ending
2023-12-03 00:28:55
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thatonecristina
thatonecristina :
@Diana @Dee 🤍
2023-12-02 01:10:47
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amandap254
Amanda :
@Maeganjay
2023-12-05 03:35:01
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_emgrewal
MJ 𐙚 :
😭🥲 didn’t expect this to hit my heart this hard as a first time mom.
2023-12-01 06:55:00
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missrosie_19
missrosie_19 :
This made me cry a little!! I read something that said, ‘the first one gets your time and the second your experience.’ 🥰 I needed to hear it!!
2023-12-01 06:37:01
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karla126vc
Karla Chavez :
I felt this so much!!❤️
2023-12-01 06:49:11
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krystals.lee
Krystal S. Lee :
I said to my husband today that our first born was loved by him and I and now our second born is loved by me, him and his sister now ❤️
2023-12-08 10:52:33
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stefanixthatcher
Stefani :
5 weeks pregnant with my second & I needed to see this 🩷 Thank you xx
2023-11-30 22:14:16
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leegoop
🤍 :
Just a reminder: kisses and hugs count as skin to skin 🥰
2023-12-01 05:16:18
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lilacbypardeep
lilacbypardeep :
Need this one so bad…
2023-12-01 04:00:21
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nicolemcarthur1304
Nicole Mcarthur :
@Emma Maria Smith 🥺😭
2023-12-03 20:53:54
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cban1212
Cait B WFHM :
Feel this in my soul. Almost 2 year old and 5 month old
2023-12-03 19:54:33
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lauren_stans
Lauren :
Stop now I’m crying 🥹
2023-11-30 22:11:41
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danielcraigwatson
danielcraigwatson90 :
@Elisa Kirkwood
2023-12-03 08:38:27
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jessicamorris2020
Jessica Nicole581 :
Waylon James 💙💙@Brenton Earl Morris
2023-12-04 03:46:20
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mxluvv
Deletedd0 :
Im sobbinggggg
2023-12-04 19:00:41
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soph.e.hernandez
Sophia Hernandez :
this made me cry and I just had my first baby but I can understand this
2023-12-05 16:47:06
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emmapaulos
Emma Paulos :
🥹😭
2023-12-05 02:36:07
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tdman24
Follow the sunshine :
This is why I’m scared to have a second. So much time taken away from BOTH 😭
2023-12-05 11:37:10
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cmwilkinson17
Cmwilkinson17 ♡ :
feels this for my 3rd bubba right now 🥹🥺
2023-12-05 10:42:43
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betterthisyear1026
Betterthisyear :
🥰🥰🥰
2024-02-08 12:24:12
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angelconnelly3
Angel Connelly :
When my son is in pre-k, I get alone time with my daughter. But I struggle and try to give my son attention sometimes. It’s hard 😭
2023-12-05 03:13:26
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