@bugandalex: I am so so excited AND it's still scary to choose to do something permanent to your body that moves you farther away from what you've been told is acceptable. #trans #nonbinary #transgender #topsurgery

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gotobedcharlie
CJ 🏳️‍🌈 :
i was counting down the days until it got to two weeks before and then it felt like time was moving a little too fast.
2023-12-02 23:28:18
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het1977
Hayley KangarooBabe :
Best of luck and hope you heal quickly and well.
2023-11-30 23:13:24
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lillithlonewolf
Possum Queen :
That makes a lot of sense!
2023-12-04 02:59:37
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zoe87___
Zoe_87 :
thank you for being so honest and genuine xoxo
2023-12-03 06:31:58
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mhadact
Jaime :
change is hard and overwhelming and scary, even if it's a change you a looking forward to. hugs and love to you
2023-11-30 21:19:52
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bearymumma
bearymumma :
I think it's normal to be nervous before any surgery, and especially when you are removing something so visible. I hope it all goes well for you-
2023-11-30 22:31:08
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turnthefrogsg_y
turnthefrogsg_y :
Hey, I felt those same feelings up until the day before (I’m 8 days post op) also I love your hair
2023-12-01 01:48:56
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giselleperalt
GisellePer :
My friend made a plaster cast of his chest before surgery and we painted it as a group, and then made a poster of his post surgery goals
2023-11-30 23:37:02
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kaikazze
kaikazze :
I resonate with a lot youre saying <3
2023-12-02 11:09:29
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scraglekat
Kat :
As a nonbinary person, I totally understand and think it makes total sense. In my personal journey, I’m not looking for top surgery or anything….
2023-12-01 02:23:43
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elephantstickers5
elephantstickers :
Quit that tit! Congrats! There is no proper way to feel. Just had mine and resonate with all of those feelings. You’ve got this.
2023-12-01 02:28:03
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karamorrow2
Kara Morrow :
I've been away from tt for several months and the change in your facial structure is amazing. You look so great! Feel what you feel. There is no
2023-12-02 14:29:25
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grimmsus_
🫥 :
it isn’t silly at all! wear all the tops that makes ur 🍒 look good! take artsy 🍒 pics! do cosplays and costumes of big 🍒characters,have fun!!
2023-12-01 11:29:38
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freebluejay
Jason Thomas Ascroft :
I had this before my top surgery for similar reasons but I'm a masculine presenting trans man. it's okay to feel this way, it's your journey and 1/2
2023-11-30 23:31:10
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goldfish_in_space
Donnie :
I feel like you’ve just articulated all my worries and excitement about getting top surgery. I feel so seen. Thank you.
2023-11-30 21:01:11
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kirstymaymills
kirsty-may :
Just over two weeks time and then the teetus be deletus!
2023-11-30 20:57:25
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ruevalentine
𝕽𝖚𝖊🖤 :
I was so scared I'd regret it or miss them a bit.. as soon as they were gone it felt RIGHT and NORMAL immediately.
2023-12-03 15:04:55
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eternal.nyx
Wyntre :
every time I see your videos I feel like I'm watching my future. your story and mine parallel a lot, as well as our views with it
2023-12-01 17:21:11
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carmenbaynes741
carmenbaynes741 :
wow thank you for sharing. been following for a bit and I'm so happy to he including in your expression
2023-12-01 03:15:46
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lydiasmommy0219
Stephanie :
I love your hair!!!
2023-12-01 02:48:36
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bizarrekitties
bizarrekitties :
Thank you for sharing 🥺 I love learning more and more. And your hair is everything!
2023-12-01 02:21:09
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peschesfresches
peschesfresches :
really taking one for the team with this kind of vulnerability, thank you. 💞
2023-12-01 02:15:26
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steviebroxom
🐝 Stevie Bees 🐝 :
Congratulations! Top surgery is the most amazing thing I have EVER done for myself. I have videos on my page. We have a similar body type. ❤️
2023-11-30 23:24:32
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shaebie
shaebie 🇵🇸 :
it's exactly my experience. like you're in my head. I'm 5 weeks post op and your processing is literally normal xx
2023-11-30 22:19:37
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dwxx0_0
A :
i get it completely! i had top surgery 3 weeks ago and i had similar thoughts before it happened! thank you for sharing ❤️
2023-11-30 21:23:09
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ace_in_the_hole00
ace_in_the_hole00 :
I’m having my surgery in two days and I’ve felt this same thing and it’s terrifying. Thank you for sharing so I’m not alone <3
2024-07-09 02:59:10
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life_as_ben
Life_as_Ben :
You can do something to remember them. We did a painting/photo party
2023-12-04 14:27:28
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crepynoodles
•Milo• :
this is helping me a lot too bug ❤️I'm waiting on the surgeons to contact me and I'm so nervous 😅
2023-12-03 08:48:22
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jax_flows
🤙🏻Jaxon🤙🏻 :
You can absolutely still be perceived femininely without 🍒. Change is really hard and overwhelming but you’ll find other ways to express your feelings
2023-12-03 07:34:38
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lady.gull.bird
LadyBird :
told I was supposed to want them are the words/feelings I have been searching for going on months now
2023-12-03 04:39:33
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kendrastwest
Kendra West :
everything you've said is super valid. I'm excited and nervous for you. also, that hair color is perfection on you.
2023-12-03 03:55:14
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mistyann1234
Misty Ann :
It’s an amputation. Even though you chose it there’s still coming to terms with losing part of you. It’s understandable
2023-12-03 01:26:24
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haloaubreemarie
Halo :
I'm a lab tech that processes tissue samples like yours, and I always get a rush of happiness knowing that the patient is finally free 🥰✌🏼
2023-12-02 19:22:11
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tish101270
Tish :
absolutely! do what your heart tells you to do!!!🥰
2023-12-02 18:09:58
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ezran_kingofdragons
Ezran :
If you want to honor their last days maybe have a little goodbye ceremony. (im also nonbinary and super sentimental)
2023-12-02 18:03:31
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june_bug01
Morgi :
its perfectly fine/valid to be nervous and its not silly for you to want to spend time with them in their final days! you are seen and valid Bug🧡
2023-12-02 08:51:15
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daddypiranha0709
RomannnnJackson :
I am so ready for top surgery. I'm trying to get insurance figured out. I HATE my breasts. I call them my fat lumps. I hope your recovery goes wel
2023-12-02 04:37:37
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user2951813581065
BingBongDong :
your stache is giving...lol. off topic but it is adorable
2023-12-02 03:36:50
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cortaoychisme
Dieresis :
From 2 years post op: you're doing great. Safe journey <3
2023-12-02 02:01:12
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singridereclaimrepeat
Nicole :
you are not alone. went through the same thing when I did my reduction
2023-12-02 01:05:53
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kftspss
soos :
I've been following for a while now and I'm sososo excited for you! thank you for talking about this :)
2023-12-01 23:47:05
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manatee_i_am
alexis. ◟̽◞̽ :
so much love for you
2023-12-01 22:06:17
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blubberpaste
Alex 🏳️‍🌈 :
I feel that.... I started T and my voicedrop will come and I kinda wanna spend more time with my high feminine singing voice.
2023-12-01 18:37:47
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thet4twitch
🏳️‍⚧️🇵🇸 Moss 🇵🇸🏳️‍⚧️ :
mine deadass didn't feel real until I was IN the operating room
2023-12-01 17:17:51
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blujackalopedancer
Blu :
All of your feelings are so valid! I had a reduction at 18, it’s an emotional roller coaster, but you’ll be so happy after 💜✨
2023-12-01 16:58:19
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smokeyquartsthefirst
Smokey Quarts The First :
Congratulations!! My top surgery is in 11 days and I'm feeling the same way
2023-12-01 16:55:22
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buttboy3000
buttboy3000 :
I made a titty bucket list before surgery. That helped me, I struggle rather severely with transitions/change.
2023-12-01 15:33:18
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elliot855
Elliot :) :
I’m getting mine in 17 days and it hasn’t hit me yet….
2023-12-01 15:06:50
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