Family Coach🇺🇸Sean Donohue
Region: US
Saturday 02 December 2023 02:00:15 GMT
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DupesOfHazard :
My mom told me I was smart once, and I never got into Harvard because of it.
2023-12-03 15:26:52
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Spitfire909 :
What if they are smart?
2023-12-03 18:50:15
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Jeff :
Disagree. If they are smart, you can absolutely acknowledge it. What they do with that is what matters.
2023-12-02 20:52:14
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Joshua Ross :
I have always praised my son for being smart and I see the effect. How can this be undone?
2023-12-04 20:28:01
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Greg Grayson :
This isn't smart. How about tell them they're smart AND smart people fail sometimes. Success is a series of failures
2023-12-02 04:13:42
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Chris :
Or by telling them they’re smart, you can give them self confidence to push through the self doubt.
2023-12-04 23:37:53
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176692 :
Or you can tell them they’re smart and it’s a positive affirmation to boost their confidence. Trying new things needs to be a fun guided experience
2023-12-04 14:23:39
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MCUSC :
I was told I was smart since I was a kid and I am smart so not sure what the problem was and still sacked up
2023-12-03 14:25:12
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Sandy Reyes :
What if their teacher always says they are? And they know they are?
2023-12-04 20:02:37
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ruthlesspacifist :
I couldn't disagree more.
2023-12-04 17:25:51
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@bobsanchez11 :
I love this video! Growth mindset!
2023-12-03 16:18:40
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Mitchy :
thanks for sharing. definitely took notes
2023-12-02 04:24:06
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Marajgray :
Well crap 😂
2023-12-02 02:04:48
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Chris Sweeney :
Reward effort not the outcome
2023-12-02 02:03:43
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DTwan - Fitness :
I just want my kids to stop fighting with each other.
2023-12-12 15:34:36
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Coach Brando :
This is great advice. Praise effort vs outcome 👏🏽
2023-12-05 18:21:18
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BADR BARCO :
That’s a stupid advice, my dad called me a donkey my whole life and really hurts down the line. Please call your kids smart!
2023-12-04 15:31:12
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Pacman :
Thanks man 🙏
2023-12-04 10:50:46
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David Willingham :
This is why dad never called me smart? Why he never hugged me? Told me he loved me? He really DID care. Guess I have to get him out of the home now.
2023-12-04 10:16:24
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Justin Jay Beats :
I respectfully disagree. I call my kid smart all the time and he continues to flourish. anyway kids these days are more intelligent than we ever were.
2023-12-04 08:21:59
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TK :
Sean 2 things. 1. I haven’t seen you on my fyp in forever. 2. What about praising once they’ve submitted a life obstacle
2023-12-03 16:10:06
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Lrossmcd :
💯 agree
2023-12-03 14:10:29
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Ben Jamin :
well said. this was very helpful. thanks
2023-12-02 21:10:45
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Lisa :
Thank you, my 9yr old son watched this video with me , he knows what growth mindset means. Thanks to his 1st grade teacher.
2023-12-02 05:28:02
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LoopyLop4 :
We always tell our son he’s smart. He’s 9
2023-12-02 02:56:04
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Kyle Dinsmore :
So what verbiage should be we use instead of “your smart”
2023-12-02 02:41:55
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kktoups :
🤦🏼♀️I told my son he was smart his whole life. He is everything you describe as smart mindset, problem is he is 23, now what?
2024-01-03 23:56:34
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Monaann77 :
My mom called me smart and I’m my own CEO and Owner of my company! I never gave up
2023-12-31 23:35:05
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Chrisusmc02 :
I was told I was smart my whole life and when I faced academic challenge for the first time in college it was crippling to the point where I almost quit
2023-12-28 04:42:08
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Mother0f5dragons :
Tell them they’re smart and when they do well on something you remind them how hard they worked. It’s not one or the other
2023-12-19 01:54:07
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laidrite26 :
What if you say there smart cause they are smart?
2023-12-12 12:30:48
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Ossfit480 :
Personal parenting experience tells me, it’s a balancing act. Working hard matters! But so does working smart. Parenting is hard.
2023-12-06 11:02:03
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titos13 :
You naied this. I fell victim to this. I did it to my daughter and everything you said is happening.
2023-12-05 19:00:07
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Shane Welker :
I love this !!! Very helpful
2023-12-05 00:04:46
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lexi wolff ramirez :
This comment section is so naive… As someone who was stunted by being told I was literally a genius bc of my IQ scores, I completely agree with this
2023-12-04 15:22:22
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Luix Arcilla :
@Gracy Surmion
2023-12-04 14:00:05
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efnaround :
My dad called me an idiot. I now make rockets and he’s in a cheap retirement home.
2023-12-04 13:28:30
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nathandeas21 :
Your on tik tok. That's showing kids bad habits in the first place!
2023-12-04 11:57:31
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ID8tesinglemoms :
So what do we tell them when they are actually being smart/intelligent? Like idk but for me it just goes automatic or by default.
2023-12-04 08:05:01
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54hustler :
I hand them responsibility, see what happens, then praise or coach.
2023-12-04 02:08:58
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Dave :
Now... How do you apply this to an autistic savant with a nearly eidetic memory?
2023-12-03 18:59:25
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A House on a Rock :
Tell your kids whatever you think is best. You’re going to mess them up no matter what because you’re messed up because your parents are messed up.
2023-12-03 15:39:31
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R¥ :
Thanks great content brother 🙏
2023-12-03 15:00:26
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christopherlara780 :
f this I grew up hearing both of my parents calling me pendejo and I know for sure I am pendejo because they limit my growth as a kid
2023-12-03 14:51:29
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xiommena99 :
Thank you so much for the great explanation and advice 😊
2023-12-03 14:35:18
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AgedOak :
Well said
2023-12-03 14:15:22
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SAULO :
my parents did a great job. they never called me smart, on the contrary they called me..... well gen x you know what they called us. 😊
2023-12-03 11:11:02
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