Steph the Attachment Professor
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Monday 04 December 2023 03:02:01 GMT
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Kelly Bellis :
I have this. What are some ways that I can help my body feel safe when things are going well? I tend to create some drama when the storms are calm.
2023-12-05 05:08:48
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Reyy :
"the very person she needed the most was the one who hurt her the most" I had an intense visceral reaction to that phrase, it made everything click in place
2023-12-22 08:01:35
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Jess A :
"When that you need the most is the thing that hurt you the most you get into the push pull." So well said.
2023-12-04 03:41:50
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Susan Brown :
It’s just very hard. 💔
2023-12-04 04:03:11
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Hannah Sturman :
My partner is like this. I’ve loved the man for years and he still can’t tell me he loves me because to him, love equals the power to hurt
2024-01-18 19:46:31
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Cassie may🐾🤍🩶🖤 :
I’m a HUGE withdrawer! Parentified child of multiple divorces, constant relocation. My BIGGEST challenge is making/keeping friends & I hate it!
2023-12-11 16:53:17
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AutoNotes :
Very helpful, in a heartbreaking way 🥺
2023-12-04 18:15:38
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Stephlorenzo87 :
This was my ex. He wanted to be loved but didn’t want to do any loving. That would be too vulnerable.
2023-12-04 12:58:13
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Regina-Be Your Best :
This was a great explanation! Things get better folks. We are what repeatedly do; start repeating new ways of doing things and thinking!
2023-12-08 05:16:46
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Alicia Godoy :
best explanation I've heard
2023-12-04 12:28:31
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Shellatron :
Thankyou!!! This has been my struggle. Asking for my needs in my relationship is quite uncomfortable as an adult
2023-12-06 05:21:05
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Elemental Elsa 🏳️🌈 :
Off topic: That pendant is GORGEOUS!
2023-12-04 23:40:46
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Kerry 🐔 🌏🌱🍉✨️💜🫐 :
This explanation makes more sense than others I've read. But my partner was not safe.
2023-12-04 13:49:47
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FLORA :
oof ow ouch ok it makes sense why I practically jump outta my skin once they say I Love You
2023-12-08 16:53:51
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jackielately :
How does that apply to the cheater who is not safe?
2023-12-05 03:03:11
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Starbrightcosmos 🇨🇦 :
Oh….oh no… this is why I’m 32 and never been in a relationship 😰 and also with my parents, I’m all of this 😭
2023-12-06 05:34:02
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celia2000 :
Oop. Suffered parental abuse but still crave their loving. Even as an adult.
2023-12-08 06:11:56
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SmellRanger :
I resonate with this a little, and think I keep going back to that person because I think someday they’ll see and change…. It’s kinda const grief
2023-12-04 15:15:20
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kali🧙♂️ :
Wow thank you for you’re account
2023-12-12 05:01:37
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Ariel Dawson :
What study did you do to specialise in attachment therapy?
2023-12-04 07:06:49
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kate 🌸 :
Having this attachment style is so hard. Wanting to get close, but at the same time I’m always expecting that I’ll get hurt. 😢
2023-12-17 05:00:29
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MikeyKine :
I want a relationship but as a kid I was so brutally bullied that I don’t feel safe in relationships. Happily single currently. Just avoiding the prob
2023-12-04 15:04:40
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Adam :
thank you
2023-12-05 04:29:54
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Snoopy Snapper Sniffer🇨🇦🌎 :
Can this happen with parent/ child?
2023-12-04 04:09:48
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🍓Kristen🐝 :
Definitely helpful 🥰
2023-12-04 03:46:38
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