@awakeningwithbrian: Dating or married to an avoidant? This is how they heal! 👉 They're going to have to learn to do the very things you’re scared to do. Share how you really feel even though others may not like it, even though it may risk rejection or provoke a negative reaction 👉 They're going to have to build a relationship with the nervous system, because it will freak out and tell you to keep withdrawing, keep avoiding conflict and keep running away when things get too serious. 👉 Most of all they're going to have to free the little child inside who still feels trapped. Who still is on that hamster wheel, running away from the phantom pain of childhood, for all the times he or she was criticized, controlled, or shamed 👉 You are not responsible for their healing! This is a journey they need to and want to do for themselves. Just like your journey is all YOURS to take. Interested in a transformational journey of deep healing? ✳️ Visit my profile link ✳️ #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #awakeningwithbrian

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catiab5
Catia :
Is a month of space normal for an avoidant after an argument…?🥲
2024-01-31 21:17:28
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nothingnew613
Nononesence :
They’re scared and they don’t wanna break your trust
2024-02-15 20:54:01
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dimples976
Deborah Louise :
Wasted 8 years with an avoidant. Always two steps forward and three steps back. Real shame as deep down he’s a great guy.
2023-12-26 11:37:50
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cakesbylatifa
MyCakeJourney :
Gave PLENTY of space and they emotionally cheated. Adios avoindant 👋🏻
2023-12-10 04:24:18
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chickie0324
Chickie32482 :
@Harry , this is you.
2024-01-19 01:20:09
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thundercatfan
itiswhatitis :
Hey brian, I follow you on this account and there are 2 bots that followed me. You might want to let people know that its not you following them.
2023-12-09 17:40:00
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ebonee_kouture
Ebonee Kouture Fashions :
They play too many mind games
2023-12-09 14:42:35
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gsiffrujvdrujb
user7849450136689 :
Avoidants are cowards. Leave them alone. They need to learn to communicate and you’re not the one to fix them
2023-12-09 14:03:58
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mowhakmimfy
mimfy :
nice generalizing bro
2024-02-02 18:53:56
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_gcamacho
giovanni :
So what can I do to help them feel safe and validated, this way they’re okay with opening up
2024-03-14 12:06:55
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rjandripley
RJ :
My avoidant ex pulled away lied and cheated consistently!!!!! Beware of these people
2023-12-09 15:23:39
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shaddupmeg
meg :
my #1 coping, is definitely dissociating…
2024-01-24 16:44:28
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thadhart
Helimechcolo74 :
Sadly this is me
2023-12-17 17:43:44
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edinamauvana
Edina Mauvana :
It’s so important to recognize the work we and our partners need to do on sharing feelings, understanding the nervous system, and healing
2023-12-11 05:23:09
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ebonee_kouture
Ebonee Kouture Fashions :
So why do people act like Anxious attachment people are the worst.
2023-12-09 14:41:41
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sunsetcatcher1
User103947482 :
It’s the worst to be married to
2024-03-05 07:32:13
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jen_mayo
Hair By Jenniffer :
So we should just be friends , until we work on ourselves and learn to trust each other.
2024-01-05 05:17:11
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serwaathefirst
30 :
What if they pull away from you but talk to everyone else you have as mutual friends in your friends group
2023-12-15 20:12:09
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effing_ray_of_sunshine
Effing_Ray_of_Sunshine :
Thank you for trying to help the world understand Avoidants. We will never be understood. The comments are so rude and unhelpful. 🥺
2024-01-09 21:20:34
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amoramariamora
amora 𖣂 :
you explained my man and he is in phase 3 where he is pulled away and silent. 😭I realize give him space until he's ready.
2024-02-26 18:31:49
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amreal0808
HL :
Yeah but by doing so he triggers m’y abonnement issues and destroys me
2024-01-28 08:55:31
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cultofcriticalthinkers
Cult of Critical Thinkers :
Don’t encourage codependency! Empower people to detach. They are avoiding authentic commitment for safety.. you!
2024-01-18 03:41:50
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sophia_ccc97
Sophia :
Wish I saw those videos before getting broken up with 😭
2024-01-15 21:07:57
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user1036572407579
Polin Azaradibi :
I heard they cheat is it true ?😳
2024-01-11 08:33:47
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freespiritdameviv
user3348820929885 :
what if I am like this but also have the anxious behaviour 😬
2023-12-30 15:44:04
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mymyelel
MyMyelel :
I need not to know them to begin with
2024-03-06 22:08:44
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nothingnew613
Nononesence :
They are not trying to abandon you they just wanna get space
2024-02-15 20:57:51
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nothingnew613
Nononesence :
When they are overwhelmed, they’re trying to soothe themselves not trying to abandon me
2024-02-15 20:55:57
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nothingnew613
Nononesence :
Give them space
2024-02-15 20:52:26
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lala_rosa1
Rosa Hernandez-Rojas :
Ugh
2024-02-03 16:20:32
1
darklord_scruffles
The_Overlord :
How do I reach an avoidance partner? help them?
2024-01-23 16:32:16
1
robin_jarrett18
Robin Jarrett_18 :
@𝓳𝓸𝓻𝓭𝓪𝓷 𝓪𝓭𝓪𝓶𝓼
2024-01-22 09:27:16
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userisgayyyyy
mj :
@Fruity
2024-01-22 05:53:47
1
laurasmith7499
laurasmith7499 :
learn to deal with your emotions. seek professional help not a coach
2024-01-13 08:11:56
1
ninemilestationmusic
NineMileStationMusic :
#4 They won’t be your partner for very long. 😐
2024-01-09 09:40:05
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bustajointnflex
bustajointnflex :
me
2024-01-07 04:49:59
1
pinkgal1974
PinkGal1974 :
This is so me ☹️☹️
2024-01-06 08:24:52
1
missunderstood.90
MISSunderstood90😼 :
😭😭 you just explained me in a nut
2023-12-13 18:12:25
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sloaniec7
Sloan S.R. :
Or by numbing out with drugs and alcohol
2023-12-12 21:32:35
1
hellnahkitty
NatureNoora :
@vikkelinkilauttaja It's not u and I'm trying
2023-12-12 07:17:35
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saltydognft2
salty dog nft :
Thank you
2023-12-12 06:44:20
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dorubarlukudu
dorubarlukudu :
it's me😞😞
2024-02-22 00:22:46
0
livingmygoodlifenow
Mary :
Perfect explanation of this personality trait
2024-02-20 14:53:55
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keithmccullough54
keithmcc0709 :
THEN DONT GET IN RELATIONSHIPS!! Ah cool. My partner loves me by avoiding me. What???? Just stay alone please and don’t do this horrid behavior to anyone
2024-02-20 12:04:58
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nothingnew613
Nononesence :
Safety, love and protection
2024-02-15 20:54:17
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nothingnew613
Nononesence :
They want to soothe themselves if they’re banded
2024-02-15 20:53:37
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nothingnew613
Nononesence :
They hate conflict
2024-02-15 20:53:06
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ziggy.the.leopard1
user2199317906374 :
I had a relatively good childhood, why am I like this??? 😔
2024-02-06 07:58:22
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