@awakeningwithbrian: Dating or married to an avoidant? This is how they heal! 👉 They're going to have to learn to do the very things you’re scared to do. Share how you really feel even though others may not like it, even though it may risk rejection or provoke a negative reaction 👉 They're going to have to build a relationship with the nervous system, because it will freak out and tell you to keep withdrawing, keep avoiding conflict and keep running away when things get too serious. 👉 Most of all they're going to have to free the little child inside who still feels trapped. Who still is on that hamster wheel, running away from the phantom pain of childhood, for all the times he or she was criticized, controlled, or shamed 👉 You are not responsible for their healing! This is a journey they need to and want to do for themselves. Just like your journey is all YOURS to take. Interested in a transformational journey of deep healing? ✳️ Visit my profile link ✳️ #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #awakeningwithbrian
Brian - Transformational Coach
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Saturday 09 December 2023 13:40:00 GMT
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Catia :
Is a month of space normal for an avoidant after an argument…?🥲
2024-01-31 21:17:28
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Nononesence :
They’re scared and they don’t wanna break your trust
2024-02-15 20:54:01
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Deborah Louise :
Wasted 8 years with an avoidant. Always two steps forward and three steps back. Real shame as deep down he’s a great guy.
2023-12-26 11:37:50
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MyCakeJourney :
Gave PLENTY of space and they emotionally cheated. Adios avoindant 👋🏻
2023-12-10 04:24:18
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Chickie32482 :
@Harry , this is you.
2024-01-19 01:20:09
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itiswhatitis :
Hey brian, I follow you on this account and there are 2 bots that followed me. You might want to let people know that its not you following them.
2023-12-09 17:40:00
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Ebonee Kouture Fashions :
They play too many mind games
2023-12-09 14:42:35
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user7849450136689 :
Avoidants are cowards. Leave them alone. They need to learn to communicate and you’re not the one to fix them
2023-12-09 14:03:58
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mimfy :
nice generalizing bro
2024-02-02 18:53:56
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giovanni :
So what can I do to help them feel safe and validated, this way they’re okay with opening up
2024-03-14 12:06:55
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RJ :
My avoidant ex pulled away lied and cheated consistently!!!!! Beware of these people
2023-12-09 15:23:39
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meg :
my #1 coping, is definitely dissociating…
2024-01-24 16:44:28
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Helimechcolo74 :
Sadly this is me
2023-12-17 17:43:44
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Edina Mauvana :
It’s so important to recognize the work we and our partners need to do on sharing feelings, understanding the nervous system, and healing
2023-12-11 05:23:09
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Ebonee Kouture Fashions :
So why do people act like Anxious attachment people are the worst.
2023-12-09 14:41:41
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User103947482 :
It’s the worst to be married to
2024-03-05 07:32:13
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Hair By Jenniffer :
So we should just be friends , until we work on ourselves and learn to trust each other.
2024-01-05 05:17:11
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30 :
What if they pull away from you but talk to everyone else you have as mutual friends in your friends group
2023-12-15 20:12:09
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Effing_Ray_of_Sunshine :
Thank you for trying to help the world understand Avoidants. We will never be understood. The comments are so rude and unhelpful. 🥺
2024-01-09 21:20:34
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amora 𖣂 :
you explained my man and he is in phase 3 where he is pulled away and silent. 😭I realize give him space until he's ready.
2024-02-26 18:31:49
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HL :
Yeah but by doing so he triggers m’y abonnement issues and destroys me
2024-01-28 08:55:31
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Cult of Critical Thinkers :
Don’t encourage codependency! Empower people to detach. They are avoiding authentic commitment for safety.. you!
2024-01-18 03:41:50
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Sophia :
Wish I saw those videos before getting broken up with 😭
2024-01-15 21:07:57
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Polin Azaradibi :
I heard they cheat is it true ?😳
2024-01-11 08:33:47
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user3348820929885 :
what if I am like this but also have the anxious behaviour 😬
2023-12-30 15:44:04
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MyMyelel :
I need not to know them to begin with
2024-03-06 22:08:44
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Nononesence :
They are not trying to abandon you they just wanna get space
2024-02-15 20:57:51
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Nononesence :
When they are overwhelmed, they’re trying to soothe themselves not trying to abandon me
2024-02-15 20:55:57
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Nononesence :
Give them space
2024-02-15 20:52:26
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Rosa Hernandez-Rojas :
Ugh
2024-02-03 16:20:32
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The_Overlord :
How do I reach an avoidance partner? help them?
2024-01-23 16:32:16
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Robin Jarrett_18 :
@𝓳𝓸𝓻𝓭𝓪𝓷 𝓪𝓭𝓪𝓶𝓼
2024-01-22 09:27:16
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mj :
@Fruity
2024-01-22 05:53:47
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laurasmith7499 :
learn to deal with your emotions. seek professional help not a coach
2024-01-13 08:11:56
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NineMileStationMusic :
#4 They won’t be your partner for very long. 😐
2024-01-09 09:40:05
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bustajointnflex :
me
2024-01-07 04:49:59
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PinkGal1974 :
This is so me ☹️☹️
2024-01-06 08:24:52
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MISSunderstood90😼 :
😭😭 you just explained me in a nut
2023-12-13 18:12:25
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Sloan S.R. :
Or by numbing out with drugs and alcohol
2023-12-12 21:32:35
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NatureNoora :
@vikkelinkilauttaja It's not u and I'm trying
2023-12-12 07:17:35
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salty dog nft :
Thank you
2023-12-12 06:44:20
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dorubarlukudu :
it's me😞😞
2024-02-22 00:22:46
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Mary :
Perfect explanation of this personality trait
2024-02-20 14:53:55
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keithmcc0709 :
THEN DONT GET IN RELATIONSHIPS!! Ah cool. My partner loves me by avoiding me. What???? Just stay alone please and don’t do this horrid behavior to anyone
2024-02-20 12:04:58
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Nononesence :
Safety, love and protection
2024-02-15 20:54:17
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Nononesence :
They want to soothe themselves if they’re banded
2024-02-15 20:53:37
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Nononesence :
They hate conflict
2024-02-15 20:53:06
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user2199317906374 :
I had a relatively good childhood, why am I like this??? 😔
2024-02-06 07:58:22
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