@dainwellness: I will sometimes still catch myself wanting to he controlling or micromanaging and the questions that help me as i regulate (take deep breaths, create physical space) are: what am i trying to do by controlling? In what aspects do i feel unsafe? How is my capacity within my nervous system before this instant? Learn to compassionately ask yourself questions and inquire- because how else are you going to get to know yourself? 😜 Want me to go theough this process with you in real time so you can integrate and heal wounds, patterns, and unresolved emotions? Book a 1:1 session 🤍