@natashavctoria: If you tend to attract avoidant partners, you’re gunna wanna listen to this #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #attachmentstyle #relationshipadvice #attachmenttheory #avoidant #anxiousattachmentstyle #datingadvice #emotionalavailability
its giving: “why am i crying over someone who wanted me first?”✨energy
2023-12-11 14:56:23
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Em 🥑 :
tips for dating an AVOIDANT .. don’t
2023-12-12 05:01:19
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Skye :
Except they aren’t babies they are grown adults…
2023-12-11 05:19:53
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Emm🌸🧚🏼♀️✨💫💕 :
I have disorganized attachment. Avoidants trigger my anxious, and anxious people trigger my avoidance. So long story short I’m in ✨therapy✨
2023-12-13 03:01:30
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girlinpieces :
He wanted the relationship, pursued me hard, wanted to move in together, buy a house. Then 1 day says I can't do this anymore and left
2023-12-10 00:38:40
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Sienna Belic :
I just don’t understand how someone can be afraid of something good
2023-12-11 11:43:08
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K!P :
this is everything i needed to hear right now. i broke things off yesterday because i was having trouble understanding her avoidant attachment style
2023-12-10 05:12:39
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PurpleShampoo :
I think they just want the ego boost of getting your attention
2023-12-12 03:32:46
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Kreyz McKormik 🥓 :
from what I understand, the avoidant doesn't just stop loving you. they still love you, but are terrified of feeling that way cuz of insecurities
2023-12-10 00:45:45
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Danilo Jarquin :
dont date avoidants especially if you are anxious, it's a cycle that will never change, get a responsable mature and loving person. if you are anxious you want someone who reassure the love you feel
2023-12-22 01:11:07
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naomy :
idk i feel like eventually there’s only so much effort you can put in and it doesn’t seem fair to have to constantly cater to their attachment style
2023-12-11 14:43:57
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ddslump_2 :
I’m the avoidant. I’m doing therapy. I really want to change for her.
2023-12-14 17:18:56
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AJ :
As someone with anxious attachment, avoidants are my worst nightmares. It gives me major trust issues. I'm just traumatized atp
2023-12-22 00:52:00
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raeofkelso :
They friendzone like crazy and are so hot and cold with their true feelings. It’s so frustrating
2023-12-12 07:59:44
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Valou | New Earth Ambassador :
Too much work. I'd rather deal with someone who is healed.
2023-12-11 20:03:11
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Kellykdub :
Always others that have to accommodate the avoidant when they just take and take. Nah I’m out.
2023-12-14 07:00:04
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PurpleShampoo :
Why does the anxious or secure part have to adapt to the avoidant? Bye
2023-12-12 03:34:58
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𝐁 𝐈 𝐋 𝐀 𝐋 :
Mit avoidants klar zu kommen als einer der immer alles lösen will ist eines der anstrengendsten Dinge der Welt…
2023-12-13 10:42:36
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lavendertattoo :
do not engage with an avoidant. in fact run, run fast and far. avoidants are pretty much narcissists. run and don't look back.
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cristina :
I’d rather be single for the rest of my life
2023-12-11 19:46:54
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Shannon Jade :
Okay but how long do you let this go on for before it completely destroys tou
2023-12-11 14:59:36
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Susanna Peiris :
how is it always the avoidant getting away with their attatchment and the anxious having to make all the work? Aren’t they accountable, also?
2023-12-12 10:06:32
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camilla_kg :
I’m already bored just listening about it
2023-12-10 19:52:22
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Daiya :
It’s the best to leave this kind of relationship and find someone who did the inner work and has a healthy attachment 🥰
2023-12-11 19:03:38
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