everybody has a secret
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nicole :
as someone w chronic health & long undiagnosed (now dx’d) issues, this message is heart breaking & a reminder of how ppl often view me 💔
2023-12-12 03:12:41
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SilverEyed_Girl :
I have celiac disease, it took so long to figure out.. and I was exhausted very suddenly and fatigued.. it wasn’t until my current doctor asked me -
2023-12-12 02:42:46
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fallendaysoflove :
I have fibro and it took me 9 years to get a diagnosis. With nearly all the problems she listed about her sister.
2023-12-12 11:36:48
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Chels :
Maybe she has server anxiety about college if it’s always on that day. She also could be partying even though still unwell, just to see friends
2023-12-12 07:03:52
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📚Humna📚 :
As someone who has been sick since I was twelve and didn’t get a diagnosis till I was 25 and then again at 34. This infuriates me!
2023-12-28 13:31:48
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Blamblam79 :
Do not say a thing, you may be right and you may be way off, and you might never know. If you are fine yourself and happy then be supportive.
2023-12-12 16:53:47
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Sophie :
I had all of these symptoms and had celiac disease.
2023-12-12 13:21:35
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TeeTeeAutism :
I have had chronic illness like this for the past 20 years. it's easier for people to see you lose a leg rather than invisible Illness. it's pure hell
2023-12-13 21:29:41
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Coco-Luxx :
I went 10 years undiagnosed/misdiagnosed by doctors before I finally got my answer. It was almost too late & I needed immediate life saving surgery.
2023-12-12 02:39:07
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Rose young :
sounds like she has fibromyalgia. never tell somone it's all in their head! you'll burn a bridge
2023-12-12 00:26:07
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Prettyskinplease :
The sister is an ableist jerk. There are tons of chronic, serious health problems that are not easily diagnosable on standard testing.
2023-12-12 01:46:35
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Madelaine Grace192 :
The ableism undertones of this are really disappointing. Going to an extreme and rare MH diagnosis to dismiss someone's health issues is terrible.
2023-12-12 00:32:21
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user2149296156818 :
What a riveting story, told soooo slowly 😳
2023-12-12 17:00:46
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Peace 🇦🇺 :
There are SO many chronic health issues that doctors struggle to diagnose. Some people take 10-20 years to actually get diagnosed. If you question the
2023-12-12 00:30:37
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Josh :
Every Tuesday, you say? 👀
2023-12-12 09:50:29
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Yvette Hutchinson :
I had all those symptoms and accusations turned out I had hypokalemic periodic paralysis and no one believed me until a death diagnoses
2023-12-12 10:44:28
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priswan1 :
Mind your business. If it bothers you, it’s your problem, not hers. You’ll feel like such a jerk if a diagnosis is eventually discovered.
2023-12-12 00:35:36
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clairecraft :
No keep your mouth shut just because someone can’t get a diagnosis doesn’t mean they are fake it. I have health issues for no reason doctors can tell
2023-12-12 00:26:02
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Ali Co :
This is me. I have extreme anxiety at school and then I am fine when I go to teach in the afternoons.
2023-12-12 00:49:06
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Kie🌈 :
She sounds a bit like me because I went undiagnosed for almost 10 years cos no one believed me but I got FND and severe anxiety I think there’s
2023-12-12 16:24:46
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Conversensational :
No. Don‘t call her out. Don‘t raise the issue. Don‘t throw around laymen psychology like „narcissism“. Just live your life. Plus, maybe analyse yourse
2023-12-12 07:55:35
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Emily Upfold ✨🌸 :
Tell me you don’t understand chronic illness without telling me… 🤦🏼♀️
2023-12-12 13:14:01
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Aggy :
It took me 15 years or so to get my endometriosis diagnosis. I have two other conditions that took years to diagnose. I feel terrible for Asher, her
2023-12-12 07:33:42
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Luba Dube :
I have had debilitating headaches since I was 16 almost daily and no one knows what’s wrong. I feel bad for her
2023-12-13 07:00:32
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Jen :
Anxiety manifests into physical symptoms
2023-12-12 01:49:12
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A.J. :
This feels so ableist. I agree that the desperation some feel in unmet health needs can lead them to be exploited, but instead of being judgey…
2023-12-12 00:50:38
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Chloe Singleton :
Nope, stay out of it. You have no definitive proof that she’s faking it, only your own opinions on her behaviour, which come off as kind of ableist…
2023-12-12 01:23:46
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(AJAX) TaraGWW :
I think the thing is - Munchhausen is so much less common than being sick with something, the doctors can’t diagnose. It’s such a harm to a sick
2023-12-12 21:35:43
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ChronicallyThrILLedX :
Fibromyalgia and M.E are real. A lot of drs won’t even discuss/diagnose M.E as they don’t understand & aren’t taught it in med school! I Suffer daily
2023-12-12 04:11:27
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Jillian Blowers :
Talk to the father first and go from there. Gauge his reaction.
2023-12-12 18:53:30
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user5793549452742 :
I would talk to the father first to see if he is really "on my side" and if then gently tell the truth
2023-12-12 05:00:51
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mal :
Sounds just like my MS. This is a hard story for me to hear being a multiple. My triplet sisters are so unbelievably supportive.
2024-02-07 21:07:50
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JumpingJellyfish :
Munchausen is a BIG accusation for what sounds like a serious chronic illness
2023-12-12 13:58:10
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Bonnie :
I had so much health anxiety like this before I was finally diagnosed with fibromyalgia. Everything seeming wrong and no tests showing it, is scary.
2023-12-15 18:57:10
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Crawford :
Could easily be anxiety or depression .
2023-12-13 11:14:39
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Tiktok92 :
Sounds like she’s got health anxiety/GAD. Maybe you should have some empathy for your sister. You sound like a spoilt brat.
2023-12-12 10:02:25
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kat :
I have fibromyalgia and some days I'm fine and some days I struggle to walk without assistance. Letter writer is vile.
2023-12-12 09:53:31
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samcam.3333 :
maybe less Munchausen more hypochondria 😬
2023-12-28 05:13:49
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grounded_plantopia :
sounds like ADHD
2023-12-14 15:40:04
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rock paper scissors :
Totally ableist. BUT I can understand the suspicion when she doesn't see the sister make a decent attempt at resting to see if it helps. Literally had
2023-12-12 09:32:40
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Aly Bitter :
Kindly suggest mental health therapy.
2023-12-31 17:27:36
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Nina🇮🇪 :
Doctors are misogynistic and ageist, women's symptoms are regularly ignored, especially young women. Her symptoms sound like Ms or something similar
2023-12-12 19:47:14
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✨🌸🪼 :
I've got fibromyalgia although I can have fun on a good day for days after im in agony
2023-12-12 15:36:31
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LH :
I've seen Munchausens - it's more them claiming specific illnesses amd lying about appointments, surgeries, and medication etc, rather than just...
2023-12-12 09:07:19
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Leo :
I'm pretty sure she's had access to many very good doctors... This all sounds bizarre to me
2023-12-12 03:13:00
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user :
long covid wit a stress trigger
2023-12-12 00:42:31
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Jessy :
ADHD and burnout are a possibility, to assume it's someone making it all up is so cruel
2023-12-15 14:08:53
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Rhiannon Parkinson :
Man I can land on both sides of this. Took me years to be diagnosed PCOS. So even i felt it was in my head for ages
2023-12-16 08:24:55
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Roisin :
the irony that she thinks her sister is narcissistic when she sounds narcissistic. it sounds like her sister is suffering with undiagnosed ADHD
2023-12-12 11:50:31
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Liz :
sounds like me. I have pernicious anaemia and MS. some days you wouldn't even know. other days it wipes me out. help her xx
2023-12-18 17:36:14
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