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katmai bearcam connoisseur :
the thing that gets me is that a lot of us were raised by grandparents too
2023-12-14 18:31:36
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Squishy slimy :
They have every right to live the rest of their lives the way they want
2023-12-14 20:29:55
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Deenice 𝑅☮️𝒹𝓏 :
Not necessarily. Some of these grandparents are gen x & still working. I know quite a few who can’t afford to retire therefore they can’t help
2023-12-14 17:39:30
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cychiefs87 :
Not their responsibility!!!
2023-12-14 17:31:12
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joannlopez_1111 :
I remember my mom hounding me to have a child. I straight up asked her, are you gonna help me? She said no...lol... I said well there you go!
2023-12-15 00:36:24
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swampwitchinga :
I wouldn't have kids for anyone else
2023-12-14 18:10:56
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Will Etchezuria :
Unpopular opinion is not grandparents duty to help with kids. if you don’t have the means to raise a kid don’t have them.
2023-12-14 18:05:41
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theycallmeDundee :
Or, they are still working since the majority of Americans don't have enough saved for retirement.
2023-12-14 23:49:02
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Catherine Lowry :
We are working!
2023-12-14 18:24:22
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Blanca S :
Why I highly advise my kids NOT to have children unless they're ready to sacrifice themselves for life
2023-12-14 19:31:50
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helloisitthere :
I don’t think we’re recognizing that Gen Xers are still working and having a hard time surviving these days.
2023-12-15 21:12:37
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BigLeonDog :
it's everyone responsibility to raise kids. idk where this mentality came from but Literally takes a village!
2023-12-15 00:52:34
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lovelyXastro :
They can’t afford to stay home like our grandparents did. They working too
2023-12-14 18:34:42
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user5511728732337 :
I’m a boomer, my mom raised 7 kids without help from grandparents.
2023-12-14 21:11:21
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seasonedmommy :
we are working .... full time jobs
2023-12-17 18:15:10
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Melissa Mel :
Not their job !
2023-12-14 17:55:14
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Heidi Tenk :
It depends when born in boomer yrs. I’m at the very end and told both my kids, don’t need grandkids, I only loved taking care of them.
2023-12-14 19:30:39
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Gaia's Crystal Gifts :
Not to mention many grandparents will ask for grandchildren.
2023-12-15 12:08:32
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Kjersti :
If you spent after school and breaks with your grand parents...your parents will have little interest. At least that's been my experience.
2023-12-15 05:12:24
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EvÅn :
Not only this, but our grandparents were watching and taking care of us as kids.
2023-12-16 19:45:02
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Westfall25 :
I’m gen x and my kids are a mixture of generations. I work full time plus overtime. I can’t watch them much.
2023-12-14 18:26:16
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Carey B :
I’m gen x and I can’t wait to have grandkids. But I will still live my life.
2023-12-14 17:28:50
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Ralph Kreutzberger-Blumenfeld :
My great grandparents and grandparents helped my parents raise us but my parents won’t do it for me or my siblings
2023-12-15 10:14:18
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TheTaoofElo :
In typical Boomer fashion, they benefited from the village & refuse to send the elevator back down. Remember they were the entitled “Me Generation”
2023-12-14 21:41:39
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OscarExplosion :
The same parents that took you to your grandparents every weekend? Who would have guessed
2023-12-14 18:49:33
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Anna :
American culture = alienation
2023-12-15 17:25:12
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Jude :
HOLD ON! Us boomers are constantly attacked for everything and now you want us to take care of your children. You can’t have it both ways. 🙄
2023-12-15 21:24:02
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hiropoint :
My mom tried , but ended up hurting her back watching my toddler . I never asked again .
2023-12-14 18:18:42
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Melissa Mel :
Boomer 57-75 now a days most of them still have kids of their own. All these women having babies in late 40s what do you think is going to happen
2023-12-14 18:13:49
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tiktokarndtheclock :
My boomer mom just took a same day flight because I asked her to watch my son for the weekend.
2023-12-18 17:35:53
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moremobileyoga :
My parents had backup relatives to help. it's all gone now......
2023-12-18 00:37:20
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Ramona Rice :
They also didn’t raise their gen x kids. We were given keys and told come home when the lights come on. Good luck
2023-12-14 20:16:03
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Frenchyyyy06 :
Why I don’t have kids lol I Cannot do it on my own 😭
2023-12-14 18:35:14
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movin12006 :
it's also because of all the boundaries they set - the crazy rules - the oh toxic stuff etc
2023-12-14 18:50:31
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cbazz75 :
my mom said she would help me even though I could afford daycare. she half helped so I just paid daycare. no stress
2023-12-14 18:12:13
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krink55 :
You should never have kids if you are hoping someone else will supplement with deee child care. Bc it does not exist
2023-12-14 18:25:43
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OfCourseJazz :
I have been working since I was 13, I also have 3 kids, when my kids have kids, I am happy to help but damn I would like to enjoy my retirement also🙄
2023-12-15 21:19:19
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mrs_zella :
Don’t agree. I am 100% here for my future grandchild. Praying I get to be the babysitter instead of an overpriced daycare.
2023-12-15 17:17:30
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Amanda :
I'm a Millennial and old enough to be a grandparent myself, Boomers are in nursing homes
2023-12-17 20:14:45
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Kate/קשת שירי :
I think we need to find a way to rebuild community, build a care infrastructure, AND acknowledge that women aren’t required to be caregivers till
2023-12-19 01:24:08
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The Irish Traveler :
Too bad, I told my wife when the last kid is out we’re done. Nope not going to help grand children either, I’m moving abroad to have more experiences
2023-12-18 17:39:14
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movin12006 :
I see so many posts bashing grandparents - making all these rules- my grandparents were super involved but my mom didn't have a ton of boundaries/rule
2023-12-14 18:51:09
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Happy_feet :
GenX here. We finished raising our kids for 18-plus years, including college costs. Don’t have kids if you can’t afford daycare and sacrifices.
2023-12-15 00:15:20
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redrocksjunkie67 :
gen x are the parents of millenials, more so than boomers. I am Gen x age 56 and I have no grandkids, but I work 3 jobs and a side gig.
2023-12-18 22:58:29
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K-FitnessCEO :
AND this is why at almost 33 years old, my answer is still: I don't want any! 🙌🏽🤍
2023-12-18 00:26:40
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Kelsey :
A lot of us don’t expect them to help raise the kids but they are absolutely strangers to our kids. They have no relationship w the kids at all and
2023-12-14 22:14:55
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C :
this! my mom literally watches my daughter once a year for a couple hours. while I used to spend a week at my grandparents a lot.
2023-12-19 22:19:08
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