Steph | Attachment Specialist
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Tuesday 19 December 2023 03:05:24 GMT
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ChrisTheHumanist :
My mom hated my dad. It was particularly painful when she would compare me to him if she was mad at me.
2023-12-19 03:37:08
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Chava :
as a dv victim who has been ordered to "coparent" its SO hard to find the line of not lying to them (letting them observe the behaviors) but not tlking badly either
2023-12-19 14:29:47
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LnzD :
I did this with my daughter. When she got older she saw the bad parts of his character for herself and mourned who she thought he was.
2023-12-19 03:23:03
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Leika Hillebrand :
Yesss my dad would talk bad about my mom and my mom and I are VERY similar people. It felt like he was talking about me.
2023-12-19 04:08:37
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Wys :
my mom talked 💩 about my dad constantly and he deserved like 99% of it. it never changed my self image. genuinely i don’t understand how this works
2023-12-19 08:15:22
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Evan :
my mom directly told me I'd sometimes make the same faces as my bio dad and she hated it. even if i don't love him, it was internalized.
2023-12-30 04:40:25
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😳 :
My mom dragged my dads name thru the mud when I was younger. Guess which one went to therapy & still has a relationship w me.
2023-12-19 04:50:43
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ValhallaReindeerRanch :
I have the opposite story: one set of parents made it VERY clear that negative talk about the other wasn't allowed which ended up with me not being able to express abuse.
2023-12-19 18:19:51
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Ddoopadoop☘️🐀 :
I want to hear everything you have to say!
2023-12-19 03:18:10
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Caín :
Idk about this one... my ma was honest about what my bio dad did to her as soon as I understood hitting was wrong.
2023-12-20 00:26:17
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Chelsz :
No they’re deff trying to hurt you when it’s followed “and you look just like him”
2023-12-19 04:30:33
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yoshipayne :
you broke this down beautifully! saving this to take notes later!
2023-12-19 03:30:01
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pinklasagna03 :
Love the role play. For some reason it hits different and more relatable.
2023-12-19 04:47:02
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Abi 🇺🇸=🔥🗑️🆘😭 :
Do you have advice for if the ex is due to genuine danger? How to protect without crushing?
2023-12-19 03:30:09
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katherine :
I felt very angry when my parents shared details of their complicated relationship. I knew as a kid it was too big and there was nothing I could do
2023-12-20 18:04:00
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ko :
This makes me want to cry bc you’re so validating and understanding
2023-12-19 14:36:34
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Deluleah in Seattle 🌈🏀🧶 🏒 :
I love this. My dad talked so badly about my mom and my mom never did. Now all kids are no contact with our dad and besties with mom.
2023-12-19 15:45:05
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elly :
my mom used to tell my brother that he was just like my alcoholic physically abusive and absent father, when he was just a teenager being a teenager
2023-12-19 18:15:16
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jenny8dhd🍉 :
Idk my dad would vent about my mom and I never internalized it lol
2023-12-19 17:48:27
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Threecordlife :
100% my ex did this. Kept my thoughts to myself. Now our son is very LC with dad bc of all the manipulation. Glad he saw thru it but sad for my son.
2023-12-19 05:10:09
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poppy :
i wish my moms therapist did her job and would tell her these things
2023-12-19 14:47:25
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💖 :
I can’t say it injured my view of myself, but it was a lot of added stress to my life. Both my parents talked badly about the other to me.
2023-12-19 23:05:29
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Kels Schuckman :
For cheaters, I also think there is an element of the one who got cheated on to want people to know it wasn’t their fault. Like “I didn’t fail. He did”
2023-12-22 14:35:03
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Soumaya :
hmmmmm. idk about this. I kind of wished my mom protected me from my dad. she just let us live with him and he abused us like he did to her.
2024-01-05 20:51:34
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Victoria Evano :
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2023-12-19 05:22:46
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