not enough people talk about how bad it feels to have an anxious attachment, our minds go through hell and back for things that other people don’t +
2024-01-16 01:28:43
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User220456B :
I’m an anxious attachment girly who learned to communicate and he still never cared lol. Made it feel pointless to communicate when I know it wasn’t
2023-12-29 00:05:20
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𝓭 :
Having this plus overthinking everything
2023-12-29 12:41:57
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nnnniela :
i have anxious attachment and I decide to leave him
cause everytime I telling him about what I felt
he just blame me
this not fair for me
2023-12-29 08:43:23
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tasha (maysilee’s version) :
anxious attachment is truly hell 😭
2024-02-01 08:14:21
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Rags :
Nah ur so right, but i feel if they dont get it after u communicate its best to just leave it tbh
2023-12-20 18:26:12
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Missy :
It’s the men who pretend they want a relationship then get distant and ghost for me. This video helps but the also have to trust your gut
2023-12-20 12:37:45
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CHARLIE♡︎ :
THANK YOUUUU🥹
2025-06-21 14:03:53
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rocky :
from "if they wanted they would" to "If I communicate my needs to him and he wants to, then he would"🥺🥺
2023-12-31 00:11:36
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clrdjames :
And they said “this is who i am” after communicating 🙈🤣😭
2023-12-29 00:34:39
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Megan :
i’m the same when it comes to texting!! do u have any tips on how to communicate the lil extra reassurance w/ out being demanding??? like a prompt or something ???hahahah
2023-12-28 22:22:53
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:0 :
But also remember with your wholeee heart. That if it was meant to be, would it feel so hard?
2023-12-20 03:23:56
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Isillaaa :
Jeez, seeing this, makes me realize that I am too... I've only had a crush time ago ( I've never confessed to him. Crazy right?)but the way I acted, are the same things you've said.... guess I am too.
2025-04-17 14:53:50
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Jelly.Ash🪼 :
A way to change the meaning for “if they wanted to they would” thing to be more reassuring is “if they wanted to leave, they would have but havent” thats how i think of that saying at least
2024-01-02 09:47:03
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Terry 🇨🇦🏳️🌈 :
Not a girl but definitely anxious attachment. I’m au-dhd and he’s autistic. I’ve learned that’s he’s “no thoughts, head empty” most of the time.
2023-12-30 04:55:54
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ZOZI :
I don’t think I totally agree here. For us anxious attachment style ppl, communicating our needs can quickly turn into begging.
2024-01-12 16:44:51
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trin :
THE MORE YOUR NEEDS AREN’T GETTING MET… THE FURTHER YOU WILL REPEAT INTO ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT….
2025-04-10 16:22:29
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mahnwacheband :
My boyfriend has autism and giving reassurance out of nowhere he finds very difficult but i need 🫠 that but don’t want to need it (deep inside i know how much he loves me (
2024-10-17 22:51:09
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m0rinskiMD :
The problem if you have AA, youre hypersensitive to feelings of others. And most of often than not, its true. I tried to be cool on my last relationship, but when i tried to communicate
2024-01-03 11:38:11
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Marjorie Torres :
The same happened to me, my friends were telling me to forget about them and not to text them or call them because if they wanted they would and then
2023-12-29 02:12:42
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Sophie Vieytes :
I had anxious attachment and work it through to a secure attachment, it’s possible I worked on my self esteem ✨
2023-12-30 03:44:47
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bence de öyle :
FINALLY someone is talking about that. because of what i've seen, i was going nuts lol
2024-01-06 18:03:32
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AK BABY🇲🇽❤️😘🔥 :
Omggg me with the texting
2023-12-20 22:51:46
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neneri.0 :
The point is, if they would be thinking about you, why shouldn't they let you know spontaneously?
2024-01-08 10:23:26
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