The theme of my therapy lately has been ✨both✨. You are allowed to he grateful he is home, and worried about him at the same time. ✨both✨
2023-12-25 06:42:45
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No Rads 🩵🩵 :
The trauma response hits like a ton of bricks. Your feelings are totally valid. Glad your dad is home. ❤️Merry Christmas 🎄
2023-12-25 16:21:24
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TheDoorstepWitch :
People don't get it untill they GET it. I'm happy he's home and you can focus on long term healing for all of you. 🥰
2023-12-25 18:54:59
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Eirryn Linden :
This is one of the reasons I think everyone should read at least the first few chapters of “Come as you are” Dr. nagoski talks about how our culture1/
2023-12-25 20:31:12
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BJ_RN :
Hospice nurse here. Also my dad had a year of touch and go and it is the WORST emotional roller coaster and so stressful.
2023-12-25 12:51:40
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JessMarie :
Totally understand how you’re feeling. It’s so frustrating to deal with. Sometimes being quiet might be better. Sending healing vibes to him!
2023-12-25 06:05:46
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ButterflyAces :
*hugs* First Merry Christmas, Second that really is the hardest unspoken part of crisis. Just keep taking it day by day and care for yourself 💙💜🖤
2023-12-25 05:49:16
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Zaiande :
it's such a strange feeling to be where you are and realizing that the other people in your life and the world are not affected the same way...
2023-12-25 05:47:53
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B.J. Murphy-Higgins :
it’s not ok. you have new normal to adjust too.
2023-12-25 05:46:46
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Arroline :
Emotion crash is honestly one of the hardest parts of a crisis for me. you are so focused on just making it to the next minute, hour, day, that you
2023-12-25 23:15:40
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Jane Hunt :
Feel your feelings, my mom died June of 22 and dad was brought back from dead September of 22, I am still on edge about his health now.
2023-12-25 17:38:31
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Robin :
everything you feel is valid. everything💜💜
2023-12-25 14:22:48
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Katie :
I think it's hard for people outside of the inner care circle have no idea how much goes into caring for a person with complicated conditions. I feel for you. It's a hard journey.
2023-12-25 13:52:32
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AgentCarter :
The immediate emergency is over. There is still so much healing that needs to happen. Take care of yourself. Sending hugs!
2023-12-25 12:57:12
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Desiree Henley :
❤️❤️❤️sending lots of love ❤️❤️❤️
2023-12-25 07:17:09
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elegantlywasted :
My FIL had congestive heart failure and it was touch and go. He came home, but there is so much that followed too. Thoughts with you & your family.
2023-12-25 06:03:08
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Annora Brady :
my mom died last year and I got a lot of "well I'm ready for you to move on" comments over the last year. It's such bullshit. I'm sorry you're dealing with it.
2023-12-25 05:41:10
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Melody_Pond :
I’m glad he’s home! It’s not ok, and it’s ok that you know it’s not ok. Health issues at the holidays change your holidays. And not everyone gets that
2023-12-26 00:19:18
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JessTheHotMess :
My dad was constantly sick & going in & out of the hospital my whole life due to heart problems. So I get you, friends & outside family doing see -1
2023-12-25 19:07:22
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LizzyV :
100%. I endured my dad having a heart attack, stroke, and cancer just this year. we're happy he's still living, but mental toll of going through it can outweigh that relief.
2023-12-25 18:53:35
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Corin Dively :
I know exactly how that feels. the people commenting that it's fine have never been through something like that and don't know how to respond
2023-12-25 17:37:12
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Mis 🇵🇦 :
Your thoughts are totally normal. 💚
2023-12-25 14:29:02
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Kalyne :
No nothing is okay. And your feelings are valid. I am so sorry that you are going through this. I am happy he's home, but you're right.
2023-12-25 13:32:37
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Whojay :
Girl, feel what you feel. Process. I get it. Just because he is home doesn't take away the fear, anxiety and trauma of everything that has happened.
2023-12-25 11:50:46
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amandawagner867 :
it's never okay when your parent is chronically ill I was my dad's caretaker until he died and it never stops not even when their home with you *hugs*
2023-12-25 09:15:17
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