Amy Chan / Author, UNSINGLE
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Tuesday 26 December 2023 22:17:11 GMT
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Leona | founder @vandaïre :
There’s always so much defence & excuses for avoidant attachment styles, very little grace for anxious LOL
2023-12-27 04:13:50
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DamnDiaz :
I'm avoidant for that very reason...it's safer that way.
2024-01-21 04:52:04
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Lee :
I don’t understand why avoidants are getting hate in the comments but not anxious?? 😭😭 they both bad
2023-12-29 23:34:21
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FREE PALESTINE 🇵🇸 :
to all the avoidants here, I love you, I see you, I'm sorry that life made us feel intimacy this way. you're not a bad person 💗
2024-01-25 02:50:58
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Jeff :
I am 80% secure but being with an avoidant makes me immediately switch to anxious. I now avoid anyone who exhibits avoidant signs like the plague.
2023-12-27 19:27:57
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John Dylan :
AVOIDANTS UNITE ⚔️
2024-01-10 21:34:39
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Scotty :
The demonization of avoidants while completely ignoring that the ONLY healthy/non harmful style is secure
2023-12-28 06:52:16
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abdullah :
it's sad how little understanding of attachment styles there is in the comments… people are not generally villainous, their behaviours are often result of life events/trauma & everyone deserves grace.
2024-03-17 17:38:04
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John :
some of y’all are assigning avoidant to your exes that just didn’t love you 😭
2024-05-21 12:52:48
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Mure ⋆⭒˚.⋆ :
being an avoidant is so difficult
2023-12-29 01:00:06
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Omen :
As an avoidant, I do my best to communicate and I'm also a people pleaser, making myself uncomfortable for my partner, it feels suffocating
2023-12-27 21:01:32
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Lunars Life :
I have this problem, and it’s so sad. I hurt people I don’t mean to hurt.
2023-12-30 16:24:55
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rainonher :
So this is whats wrong wit me an ian knownit😭
2024-05-27 09:19:16
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Toned99 :
Very interesting take…useful too …thank you for the insight
2024-02-09 13:45:38
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The Doughertys :
Love this 👏
2024-01-11 02:28:02
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Adelaaa14 :
My Fiancé thinks he is avoidant. and i'm anxious. i think it is sad beacausr I feel i'm becoming an avoidant too. which I don't really want
2024-03-15 13:26:39
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AC :
So when they distance themselves is the best response to leave them along until they reach out again?
2024-01-15 00:38:18
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Maria :
Oh
2024-04-04 07:12:43
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stevens world :
damn
2024-04-06 13:54:29
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Sophia :
Avoidants are worse than anxious
2023-12-27 08:18:45
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notpriscilla :
Anxious and avoidants…we are just as bad as each other.
2023-12-27 10:40:58
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Rare polar bear :
Yeah but they also don’t verbally indicate anything to you about what’s going on either
2023-12-27 09:51:22
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Girl_on_Film :
Been w/ an avoidant and I kinda wanna say that if you fear intimacy, just don't get into serious relationships then until you are healed.
2023-12-27 21:25:57
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Chellee Smith :
Yep 💔 Gosh I wish I had known about this stuff before I pushed him away
2024-01-13 09:19:18
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Neal Miyabi :
welp
2024-01-15 06:01:46
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