Two Hot Takes
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Sunday 31 December 2023 23:35:17 GMT
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shannie2007 :
My mother-in-law posted on Facebook when I had my first miscarriage, telling everyone about it. Before we were ready to talk about it.
2023-12-31 23:42:47
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Leo :
Never their news to share. NTA
2023-12-31 23:48:27
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direwolf215 :
My dad posted a picture of my newborn while I was still in c section surgery. Didn’t see it til the next day. Immediately made him take it down
2024-01-01 00:01:19
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Stephanie Parrish :
As a mom of an adult daughter, I NEVER share her news before her and steal her thunder. NEVER.
2024-01-01 04:57:49
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Vee 🍉 :
my FIL told my partners entire family, ruining the announcement, and also bad mouthed me the whole time.
2024-01-01 00:05:26
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Michelle LeAnn :
As a mom of 4 & Gma of 2 I have never & won’t ever announce my kids’ news. It’s their’s to share 1st. I always wait a day 2 not steal their thunder.
2024-01-01 06:13:59
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Crystal Roberts :
My fiancés mom and husband told everyone in there family here even though we asked her not to tell anyone, we just told her not him. Your Nta that’s
2024-01-01 23:19:37
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Łola <3 :
How is she upset at THEM for not telling her??? That’s their business! And they’re grieving.
2024-01-16 03:59:59
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DJ Cannon :
Unfortunately my mom is one to go straight to Facebook as well, but gets mad when’s she’s the last to know things 😬
2024-01-07 14:57:35
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Taylor :
My MIL did the same thing 🙄 We didn’t want people knowing bc I didn’t want my job knowing and it’s a small town but she posted it on fb immediately
2024-01-13 17:36:17
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tanyvp90 :
you set a boundary with your mom and it wasn’t respected. You did nothing wrong
2024-01-02 16:54:55
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Bëllë :
NTA. Boundaries were set & mom broke them so her daughter had every right to be upset.
2024-01-18 18:33:35
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Kasandra 💚 :
Grandma should’ve known that is the exact reason they make you wait three months before announcing it.
2024-01-16 22:37:45
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🍄Natural Curiosity🍄 :
So my cousin passed away, and his friend posted about it on facebook before my aunt had time to tell the close relatives. I learned about it through fb.
2024-04-22 14:19:54
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No thanks :
The mom didn’t respect their boundaries. She’s the asshole
2024-01-01 20:35:01
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Ciaraaaa :
I cant with the “lost her grandchild” like yea okay, they lost their baby, their child stop making everything about yourself!!!!! Definitely NTA!
2024-01-01 00:13:45
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Dee :
“Lost her grandchild” phrasing tells me all I need to know
2024-01-04 23:27:03
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Endless Pawibilities :
Recently had a miscarriage & I feel for the family. NTA. Give yourself time & just spend time with your wife. Ignore the rest til you are ready.
2024-01-01 01:36:35
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LINDA GW :
The way she said MY grandchild not theirs but hers. Says everything I need to know about that mom and I know it all to well.
2024-01-25 21:59:14
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Canuck Canuckland :
👀 Definitely NTA that’s precisely why people wait until after the first trimester and later, particularly for the 1st kid. Beyond that, how’s mom mad about her own messiness. 🙄 This is all so hard.
2024-10-08 06:25:55
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user9286908804004 :
NTA…that mother is the A!!!
2024-01-01 01:47:05
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morganbaggett2020 :
NTA she needs to learn boundaries
2024-01-01 16:20:36
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Peace Froggy :
So they miscarried and mom made it about her…. Yeah NTA
2023-12-31 23:42:35
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Emma :
my daughter died while I was pregnant (stillborn) we had told my parents we wanted to be the one to tell people....my mom told EVERYONE
2024-01-03 02:52:24
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RaeAnn Whitmer :
Not the same but husbands aunt announced our childs birth before we did. She was a premee in the nicu but healthy and this woman I've never met asked for prayers on her Facebook before we told my fam
2024-01-02 01:06:25
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charell27x :
Teaches her a big lesson for sharing personal info when she has been asked not too! NTA
2023-12-31 23:44:23
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Lizzy :
Could he have been nicer? Yes. Is that his responsibility? No. She messed up and deserves the pain she’s feeling.
2023-12-31 23:58:49
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kristinaB969 :
NTA… she was told not to say anything and look what happened… now everyone knows she can’t keep a secret 🤫
2024-01-01 00:19:12
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Inked.Chef.Ash :
never been this early Nta
2023-12-31 23:43:08
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✨Brooklynn✨ thatsurrostepmom :
Not mom’s news to share but damn I would be pissed if my husband commented that. Like, call her immediately and have her delete it🫣
2024-01-01 01:01:56
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Kathleen :
NTA, I get being excited but that’s not her news to share.
2024-01-03 15:28:48
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Becks :
This is not your news to share 👏👏👏
2023-12-31 23:39:21
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Amanda :
No, you guys didn’t owe her anything. She should’ve respected what was asked of her to begin with
2024-01-06 09:26:11
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DesertAngel27 :
I will never understand parents that do this. It's never MY news to share. It's THEIRS!
2024-01-01 08:38:59
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LoreleyL :
my ex's sister posted my new baby on Facebook before I even made it out of recovery after c-section 😳
2024-01-07 11:42:31
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Mari 🥀 :
It was THEIR news to share not the mothers!
2024-01-01 06:42:38
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jacq_lynn_ :
Amen! I don’t understand how so many people feel that it’s THEIR RESPONSIBILITY to share other peoples news. He’s not the a**hole.
2024-01-01 00:13:19
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Abby :
Just because u know, doesn’t mean it’s your right to share
2024-01-01 00:08:14
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Lisa Bender :
I think instead of commenting on the FB post (passive aggressive), a phone call would have been in order to tell her to remove the post and why.
2023-12-31 23:49:24
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Nae :
Next time she’s pregnant I’d straight up lie. Op obviously can’t trust her to keep it and it would be awful to have to go through that all over again without the privacy they would have had to grieve.
2024-01-01 04:05:06
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JZDaisy :
I think it's fair. it wasn't her news to share. She should have checked 1st.It just also would have been nice to been given the miscarriage news too.
2024-01-04 14:18:16
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Sierra Lynn :
My fam knew I was🤰 for a month and the only reason it was known publicly was bc of a FB post I made breaking down in the OB waiting room. 1/2
2024-01-01 08:56:24
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steffied3 :
Absolutely NTA!
2023-12-31 23:40:31
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Rachael’s organized chaos :
Dad is right. He is more upset about the loss & dishing the frustration onto Mom. She was absolutely wrong for posting anything. Not her place 1/2
2024-01-10 14:57:21
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Stephanie :
I love these stories! As a mom probably going to be excited just as this mom. I pray that I respect my son and his wife’s boundaries. 🙏 I wouldn’t want
2024-01-04 20:26:25
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Kirstin Rivera :
My sister in law posted on FB about my pregnancy and I was so upset because it wasn’t her news to share.
2024-01-04 06:07:52
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OSP 🌶️ :
ESH…she shouldn’t have shared but he only replied publicly to embarrass her
2024-01-01 20:46:24
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Casandra :
NTA. The mom is the AH. She shouldn’t have shared news that wasn’t hers to share. Fk her feelings
2024-01-01 08:42:51
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cryptid.coffee :
I think that some people feel like they get a pass because they are family but they 100% do not.
2024-01-01 00:45:57
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Grace&peace :
Not ur fault she overstepped I would have been worse than that
2024-01-01 00:38:34
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Janie :
This is a tough one. She's excited and happy emotions can be tough to contain. Maybe he shouldn't have put that on FB and just called/texted her.
2024-01-07 19:20:03
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Lililla :
no
2024-01-04 21:14:50
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