zavbruh
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Tuesday 02 January 2024 21:55:24 GMT
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Musubi :
Its not your responsibility to fix her especially if she doesnt want your help. Best thing to do is live your happiest life and show her.
2024-01-02 23:31:23
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Ekaterina :
sadly our parents generation will never understand the concept of mental health so might as well let them be, and chase our own happiness
2024-01-04 11:40:17
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S :
This is such a hard thing to navigate- you understand your mums trauma but her actions towards you are not justified regardless 😢
2024-01-02 22:02:50
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Mr. Vương :
Generational trauma is real. I relate with your stories. After years of pushing, my family finally starting to understand mental health a bit more now
2024-01-04 17:51:14
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テカルモト :
Space helps. I feel like I have a better connection with my mom after not seeing her everyday.
2024-01-02 22:39:48
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worm198 :
When your mom yells at you, it's the little girl inside screaming for help.
2024-01-04 17:14:08
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tired :
I can relate with your posts bc of my difficult vietnamese background, my home situation is too difficult and draining and I’ve reached my pain
2024-01-03 00:40:37
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Lily :
Make sure to take care of yourself and go to therapy. Generational trauma can leak through even if you try your hardest sometimes!! That will help though
2024-01-04 05:53:16
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dotdot :
as someone with bipolar, it is not your responsibility to take care of deal with her. I am so so so sorry
2024-01-09 03:23:00
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Jada :
I feel it. It’s tough having parents who haven’t dealt with their trauma and then let it unto u. I’ve been reading a book about boundaries and it’s
2024-01-02 22:03:39
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EMILY ʚ♡⃛ɞ :
Our moms have the same story, my uncle was the cherished one and grandparents even named my mom a boy name
2024-01-03 03:39:49
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shawp503 :
You’re such a good son. It must be like trying to hug a cactus- wish she would want more peace in her life. She must be so tired.
2024-01-04 08:32:13
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Kristia (kris-tee-auh) :
Does she live in the past? Like brings it up often? Always bringing up grudges? That’s what my dad does and it makes him get in his mood.
2024-01-08 23:19:34
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Sedona 🇭🇹 :
Yup the abuse become the abuser at times.
2024-01-02 22:11:06
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beepboop :
1st gen Asian Canadian here. Have felt the same. I think generational trauma has been broken, but my relationship with my family won’t ever be close
2024-01-04 16:27:58
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binauralbunny :
I’m so glad for Tik Tok. Honestly I thought I was the only one with a mother like yours. Thank you for sharing. I know I’m not alone 🙏
2024-01-04 20:16:44
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weary_ghoul :
My mother was never able to move past her trauma either. I ended up going no contact & getting therapy. You don't deserve to have to be her scapegoat.
2024-01-02 22:13:08
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👸farzana :
Not even a theory, you’re 1000000% right! I hope she Can gain some self awareness and even if she doesn’t just know that you tried you’re best and that’s it. Work on yourself and do whatever you have
2024-01-04 05:35:27
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💘~no caller id ~💘 :
I can relate a lot to you- my parents were the same way, eventually you’ll find your own path and get out. Mentally hard rn but you’ll pull through
2024-01-03 04:55:56
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ꨄ︎ :
we have to break the generational curses
2024-01-02 23:32:05
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Lindsey Marie :
I’ve binged your whole page, and I’m so sorry you’re struggling with this. You have an amazing heart
2024-01-10 13:05:36
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Moke :
Watching your content and all I can think about is ‘epigenetics’. Your life makes sense to me even though we come from different worlds and cultures
2024-01-04 10:18:12
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scotcherdoodle :
that's a lot of generational trauma ❤️
2024-01-08 23:17:12
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cry⚡️cheeseburger :
The way immigrant Asian moms in particular are in such denial of literal science and psych 101 is wild. Like WILD
2024-01-02 23:32:34
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Jeri Christa 🦋✨ :
Generation trauma is so common in Asian-American households and I relate a lot to your stories with my own family. You’re so strong for sharing ❤️
2024-01-09 02:35:22
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不太甜 :
Generational trauma is hard with Chinese boomers. They were taught differently.
2024-01-04 01:03:12
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B :
Do your aunts have the same behaviors ?
2024-01-05 06:58:54
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W :
if your mum doesnt want to get help there is nothing you can do. im in the same situation, and it hurts
2024-01-09 00:31:02
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εїз :
I can tell u still have Hope in ur mom. I stopped after realising that she would cry nd tell me bout her trauma yet she couldn’t understand how she t
2024-01-04 08:06:42
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Melina :
I’ll deff be praying for you and your mom. Like Jesus forreals help
2024-01-04 08:28:16
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Juju 💕 :
Off topic when your not with your gf you look so sad I didn’t even recognize you🥺 she like the light to your dark 💞
2024-01-03 03:51:54
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Shannon :
From what I can imagine she lacks coping skills & her way to have power & control is with her OCD & displacing all of her anger & issues on u.
2024-01-08 22:11:31
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y0y0h3llo :
Unfortunately everyone in that family has to distance themselves from one another. There is really no hope.
2024-01-04 15:52:37
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misha :
im south asian and relate a lot with your family story/gen. trauma 😭 its just hard building that connection with them when you feel like you're constantly walking on eggshells around them
2024-01-03 05:23:07
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betsieoberholster🇿🇦 :
Love your emotional maturity you got. I was also raised strict. And girls have no say. You go my son. Break the cycle
2024-01-09 11:24:40
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ZIZI :
She projects on you the problems she had with her parents giving preferences to her brother. My ex mother inlaw was the same, male preferences traumas
2024-01-08 19:40:50
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Hidden_survivor :
A lot of people in my family have a similar form of learned helplessness the only difference is its with Housing.
2024-01-04 17:12:12
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ㅋㅋㅋ :
I like your ring
2024-01-03 02:06:22
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Niii :
Im just curious if there’s any happy memory with your mom 🥺
2024-01-09 06:16:46
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Just Josh :
Growing up west indian the generational trauma seriously undiagnosed down here.
2024-01-09 02:23:01
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☽ a l i c e :
I can relate to everything you said. I deal with the same thing. Trying to help
2024-01-09 01:09:46
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xyckriz :
just leave. go to another place. just send letters/emails of how much you still love and support her. but never go back
2024-01-07 08:50:34
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MaiMai :
Just slip her a xanax bro or an edible, she just needs a trigger. talking wont do shit
2024-01-04 01:40:58
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751bklyn :
😭oh how our parents stories are same. Side note your handsome
2024-01-09 00:15:21
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Kh :
My mom was like this - huge childhood trauma. Does not make it easier though
2024-01-08 22:56:16
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Celest :
Her obsession with cleanliness makes sense. Raising pigs is a filthy and degrading job for a child.
2024-01-10 00:38:08
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wh0rewood :
I’m crying for your mom 🥺
2024-01-03 14:00:48
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