@healingwithcharlie: Dating a fearful avoidant can be exhausting but it doesn’t have to be. For these types, disconnection can actually be the very thing that helps them realize their flaws and possibly even begin healing them. They have to be ready and willing to put in the work though. #disorganizedattachment #disorganizedattachmentstyle #fearfulavoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachmentstyle
I’m a FA. I broke up with him and a month later after realizing attachment- I came back to work things out and he said no 💔
2024-01-05 00:18:27
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nikkimarie :
I’ll never understand that they “aren’t emotionally available” yet have time for work, friends, pets, parents and so forth..
2025-04-05 23:00:30
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Amanda Ashley Jones :
What do you mean by “it takes a big disconnection for them to get their act together?”
2024-01-07 19:09:48
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ǝlʎʞ :
I can absolutely vouch for this, my FA after a year significantly improved and I felt welcome back with arms wide open. We agreed that time apart was necessary to get the anger resolved from the ending
2024-02-06 20:48:04
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Dianna :
My person is FA and it takes so much love and patience to hold space for the healing 🙏🏼💚
2024-01-04 22:00:25
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Shaquele Oatmeal :
She came back after 2 months but was breadcrumming me . She didn’t want anything . So I put my boundaries and we never talked again.
2024-01-04 20:54:43
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iykyk👀 :
when they are a FA ..AND an Aquarius is quite the adventure of emotions and patience for me
2024-01-07 07:16:30
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Sabrina Sadaf :
As an FA: yesss. Working on it!
2024-01-06 10:54:57
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emily 🌺 :
my partner was a FA. he tried to end things with me twice and changed his mind both times, but then went back to being cold. after asking him to put
2024-01-05 04:04:01
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Anna :
Pack your bag and run everyone! They will leave as soon as you fall for them
2024-01-08 09:13:10
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g♡ :
I just don’t date anymore I’m literally so sick of myself, I want to love but I just can’t :(
2024-01-08 04:53:41
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Michelle ✨🌙 :
It’s frustrating for me bc we both have childhood trauma but I don’t do this to him bc I think of his trauma. I’ve known him 8 yrs he says he loves me
2024-01-08 18:54:16
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Tee :
Any advice for those trying to heal
2024-01-07 17:08:13
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Shay :
I’m an FA and this is me. I have been putting in the work and I can say that it’s becoming more secure
2024-01-08 18:52:52
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Anastasia :
Honestly we weren’t even dating yet but i did end it first but then came back. Then left again just to come back and I didn’t realize my attachment until a few weeks ago. I know he wants nothing (1)
2024-08-31 22:14:30
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laaaaa..laaaaa :
Yes, I feel like I can’t think straight and need to be alone to step back and see clearly again and then assess. I understand that’s not easy.
2024-01-04 23:15:19
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Thea Loveridge :
Mine came back, started ghosting me every time we saw each other/got close, told me he had feelings/was confused, then ended it 3 days after I came to his house and looked after him. 3 excuses lol
2024-07-21 04:18:13
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yourboychay :
i said no when they asked if we can be friends. good or bad thing? how should i go abt it?
2024-01-04 23:53:06
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User162916163027 :
I’m struggling because I want to walk away because it’s getting too real. But I don’t want to hurt him. So I’ll suffer for his happiness.
2024-02-04 08:02:11
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Paul Post :
Is a missed late night call without a text from my FA ex after 2.5 weeks in NC a breadcrum?
2024-01-09 11:58:30
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Stand Up 8🇺🇸 :
Mine pulled away but didn't tell me he moved on to another relationship. I found out in a traumatic way 18 months later. 💔
2024-03-28 18:11:03
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Steph :
So he left, when he comes back trying to “reconnect” what would be best to do? Bc I can’t keep doing this cycle
2024-01-05 07:40:50
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Couply Relationship App :
This is such a great breakdown Charlie!
2024-01-04 22:38:29
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Peppermint Butler :
this runs DEEP cuz of ADHD, my mom's ADHD, familial autism, RSD and just regular ole rejection
2024-01-04 21:13:37
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