@coach.ryan0: Avoidant “deactivation” mode #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dating #Relationship #insecureattachment #deactivation #relationshipcoach

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drewshore12
Drew :
It’s crazy, you’re the love of their life one day and the next it’s as if you don’t exist
2024-01-06 19:23:19
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0lilahoney0
0lilahoney0 :
I disagree, They do often care about your feelings too. But their trauma response and need to protect themselves is greater.
2024-01-11 17:06:05
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bivens85
Lauren Mills :
Yes. My avoidant ex said “you’re everything I’ve ever wanted. I don’t know why I can’t do this. “
2024-01-07 14:59:41
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smoochmekennedy
smoochmekennedy :
Im an avoidant and its SO hard but I’m communicating more and I’m proud of that.
2024-01-08 10:02:54
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roflsauce22
Roflsauce :
When they ghost you after a blissful weekend and go chase their other supply 😭😩
2024-01-06 05:28:09
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snowpiker5414
snowpiker5414 :
Anybody else had an avoidant partner who was bubbly, glass half full on the outside? To find out it's a mask to cover up the skeptic/fear inside?
2024-02-05 00:18:38
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zaminalara
zaminalara :
Avoidants need therapy but I feel like most of them don’t even consider it
2024-01-09 23:03:01
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nouraahmed389
Noura Ahmed :
So if abandonment is what they fear the most..why should I go into no contact when they pull away ?
2024-01-07 13:57:45
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high_priestess18
high_priestess18 :
I’m an FA it’s a primal fear and there is nothing you can do at all. All you can do is give space but not too much and let them know you are there and
2024-03-02 04:14:42
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sizzle729
Weezy :
When he goes silent, I have to remind myself “he just needs space, he ALWAYS comes back” and try to remember the times where he’s a chatterbox.
2024-02-10 04:37:19
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redrebelgypsy
redrebelgypsy :
Currently on his deactivation mode after a perfect week together. 🙁🤍
2024-01-24 04:56:28
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bucgirl00
bucgirl00 :
How do you reassure an avoidant that they are safe?
2024-01-07 01:30:10
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kitkathyb
coolgirl1234 :
I am sick of his behavior regardless of why he is doing it. I am so exhausted with it after all these years
2024-01-07 05:21:07
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wendy.lcs
wendylcs :
This makes so much sense. But how do they just turn off their feelings ??? I can’t wrap my head around that.
2024-01-18 20:49:17
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biketexas
Sheera💙 :
It’s not always that they don’t think they’re lovable. It’s that others haven’t loved them like they should have and they’re scared it’ll happen again
2024-02-18 18:42:52
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matthewdoll4
Matthew Doll :
This is exactly what happened to me. This hits so hard…it’s all true. 100% true. Hardest thing I’ve ever had to endure. 😔
2024-01-11 17:24:40
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mtbmom75
mtbmom75 :
This has been my life for 5 years. I didn’t know that’s what was going on. Anyone with an avoidant needs to ruuuuuuun while they’re ahead.
2024-01-06 05:44:52
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tourniquet2019
꧁༺ɮɛֆȶռօȶʍɨֆֆ༻꧂ :
It's so sad how our childhood and teenage years shape our adulthood. It takes a lot of hard work to grieve the child, teenager, and young adult!❤️
2024-01-07 15:37:21
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nicrae406
Nicole Cleveland :
Some of you are getting a narcissist and a avoidant confused. Know the difference.
2024-01-06 17:29:05
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shipofdreams77
Tiki-in-24 :
Thank you Universe & you for giving me the answer to a bewildering situation
2024-01-06 01:52:43
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kickasked
Queen of Swords :
then they come back with zero accountability... like it never happened
2024-01-06 16:58:26
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tmadi77
Tmadi77 :
Wow…the level of clarity I just received about my “avoidant”
2024-01-07 09:28:43
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mariet950
mariet950 :
I dont know if they were triggered or if they found someone else 🥺
2024-01-07 17:09:26
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blahsebkahbkhh
Laura :
Yep, after 1 1/2 years he promised to propose to me, took me shopping for a ring, then a week later he told me he saw no future & went no contact 🫠
2024-01-07 00:40:11
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mazaltalmor
mazaltalmor :
It’s so on point. My heart is broken to pieces 💔💔💔💔
2024-01-07 04:21:48
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