@zavbruh: Obviously as usual, there’s way more layers into this issue but I hope my non Asians can better understand now #asian #toxic #toxicasians #MentalHealth
I don’t know how you’ve made it this far with that household you are so strong and brave
2024-01-09 21:28:06
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Ayden :
it took me 21 years before I figured that I got adhd cause my mom refused to believe in therapy too like omg💀
2024-01-09 23:07:40
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sarakahana :
My parents are Russian and they DO NOT believe in therapy although they have ALOT of PTSD and trauma.
2024-01-10 02:57:01
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Becky Sue :
I get that they don't divorce but what about separation?
2024-01-09 22:31:38
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Soph :
I would say you’re pretty spot on for OCD, but I would also look into psychosis. (Psych student here) my grandma started how it seems your mom did, super clean with OCD tendencies to ocd psychosis
2024-01-10 00:35:33
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zayla rae :
in the Mexican culture mental health is also not important. which I realized in my own family I want to make sure mental health is number 1 for my kid
2024-01-10 01:18:23
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Sana :
I can definitely see ocd and bpd but even professionals will misdiagnosed bpd as npd and bipolar I’m not saying she doesn’t have it but I think it’s -
2024-01-10 12:23:45
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asswipe :
unless your parents dont go to the therapist themselves, you or the therapist cannot come up with a definite diagnosis
2024-01-10 06:37:04
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Boba penguin 🧋🐧 :
I had this convo with my brother and we are so frustrated my mom refuses to go through any counseling when there is sm clearly something going on. 💀
2024-01-09 21:30:13
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Ember :
same in my family. Caribbeans do not believe in mental health. I had to figure it out myself to avoid going down hill like my mother. I'm treated now
2024-01-10 03:04:03
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farzana Haque :
South Asian here and yes yes yes yes yes!! Divorce mental health is a taboo in our culture
2024-01-10 03:18:02
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pooched3 :
Your smart and have a depth of understanding and compassion regarding your parents. Your right on. Don't let anyone tell you different.
2024-01-10 03:01:47
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unknown :
I’m south Asian. My mother would rather have my brother struggle in school endlessly than get him a diagnosis and help because it’s shameful
2024-01-09 23:19:19
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liana | homesteading mama :
I am Filipino and I relate to a lot of this to a less extreme degree! My mom is very narcissistic but does not believe in mental health care at all
2024-01-09 23:12:48
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Blind.Reality :
With out these therapists seeing your mom they can't make a diagnosis. it's unethical to do so. they can say oh well maybe your mom has ocd but I can't say for sure with out seeing her.
2024-01-10 18:50:55
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user7767145127059 :
Can I just say considering your life/background you are such a lovely very intelligent young man and come across as very logical. I genuinely wish you well. Take care 🙏🙏
2024-01-10 00:23:21
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Bosanka :
Balkan also
2024-01-10 17:29:03
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xspacerose :
My mom definitely has ocd and narcissism but won’t see a doctor either.
2024-01-09 23:39:35
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MindyKay :
I'm American and this can happen in ANY family. Especially religious families. My parents "scoffed" at me having OCD or Anxiety and me NEEDING help!
2024-03-03 15:18:38
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Vertigrow :
Sending lots of love to you and your family. I hope by speaking up you can get the help needed for your mum.
2024-01-10 19:07:48
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Sarah Bee :
My family didn’t believe mental illness was real, nor did they believe in seeing physiologists until my mom and sister experienced depression and panic attacks. I had depression my entire childhood1/2
2024-01-10 06:02:27
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mar :
My mom has several issues and would never ever see a therapist ex issues with instant gratification - gambling/shopping. Just because she’s never been
2024-01-10 05:59:42
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Nat :
I think in latin america is pretty much the same. My mom and dad had issues for like ever but only divorced after 20 years because of how badly viewed it is over here.
2024-01-10 21:22:03
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karoliinatheikkinen :
i lived part of my childhood in a Chinese-finnish family, and Ive seen so much of this behaviour since childhood. and even with that, I have no-idea
2024-01-10 11:44:37
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justsaiditloud :
I’m not Asian but in my household we couldn’t do anything, last time I cleaned and move some stuff in order I was verbally abused, emotionally…
2024-01-10 14:16:02
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