@genericartdad: Replying to @dantle Religious Trauma is such a big topic, thats different for everyone. Its hard to really touch on everything. Especially when the consider the nuances of where people recovering from this are at with their current faith or deconstruction. Theres a lot more to how high control belief systems rob children of life experiences and life skills.

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kissmysass2000
Kori :
My siblings & I all married people with some sort of personality disorder & I have always wondered if it was because we lived in a strict home & were taught to do whatever it takes to "keep the peace"
2024-01-13 14:45:38
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_contrapasta_
_contrapasta_ :
I'm a chronic people pleaser, which is inherently manipulative & selfish & it took me years not to victimize myself bc of it
2024-01-13 05:36:55
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shelley_illustration
Book Moth Press :
Grew up evangelical and homeschooled. Sneaky kid here! Still working on showing myself and not caring if they like me or not.
2024-01-16 15:09:38
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bootsmacgregor
Boots MacGregor :
I was often praised for being "selfless" a.k.a doing stuff for other people and rarely sticking up for myself if there was something I wanted. I'm
2024-01-13 13:13:01
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greenwitchgoddess
GreenWitchGoddess :
In my 30s now & just trying to figure out my sexuality, personality, identity, & my needs. I feel sexually, emotionally, and mentally stunted, & only now experiencing things I should have as a teen.
2024-01-14 08:07:10
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edensingsofficial
Eden :
One of my biggest achievements in deconstruction was moving past the crippling fear of doing something outside of god’s will and trusting my ability to choose wisely.
2024-01-13 18:22:24
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daviddub01
Davidduboi :
Can confirm, went from a cult like childhood straight into the arms of an abusive partner as an adult. I’m still building adult skills a decade later.
2024-01-13 02:11:23
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marykbollero
Mary Katherine Bollero :
Can confirm. Signed, an ExMormon.
2024-01-13 16:58:57
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grateful_heathen
grateful-heathen :
can you recommend Good book on this topic of how the church inflicts trauma on children?
2024-01-16 05:43:19
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shebdeeb
Sheb :
I'm still learning how to have a productive disagreement. Apologetics really ruins your sense of "agree to disagree"
2024-01-13 17:01:29
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vza24
VZA :
This was so well-said! Wish I could like and post it more! Raise kids in love and support rather than with an agenda and checklist
2024-02-25 14:36:45
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skye_jay2024
Skye ♡ :
As an exJW & Moved out at 26. I found myself not understanding ALOT of real world concepts. I STILL struggle at 31. Its insane.
2024-01-16 13:27:18
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anadhdwitch
Adhdwitch :
thank you for speaking up and speaking about your experiences and others
2024-01-16 14:37:58
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steverussell6
Atheist101 :
when new people come up to me & just say hi I'm wondering what they want, I catch myself being sneaky even with the most mundane things
2024-01-26 16:09:25
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austinthegrappler
Austin TheGrappler :
100%
2024-01-15 21:34:32
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iamtoooldforthis1984
iamtoooldforthis1984 :
Your endings are so real! I love it! Saying bye is AWKWARD AF.
2024-01-14 01:48:34
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angiepoo5503
angiepoo5503 :
Thank you for this! I am healing and this helps me so much right now.
2024-01-16 20:22:23
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zscott101
Scott Zittritsch :
Raised in a super strict home, only to escape into evangelicalism… yeah, I relate to this way to much…
2024-01-17 03:14:13
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craftycapybara
CraftyCapybara :
Spot on! I went to a Christian college and even the profs were dumb enough to believe the funniest things😂
2024-01-13 22:09:43
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mmzastawny
mmzastawny :
Commenting to boost this in the algorithm. I think sooo many more people need to hear and understand this.
2024-01-19 01:56:28
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josephbfitness
Joseph Bernard :
You are speaking about me!!!! omg it took me 15 yrs to get this healed and for me to leave my church
2024-01-19 05:22:37
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laurelinium
L :
truth. I've noticed these things in my undoing brain washing
2024-01-16 22:11:45
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mamajinxxy
🔅🍉ᗰᗩᖇᗩᑎᗪI🍉🔅 :
my mom told me I was going to go to hell so much I went mute at about 6. I only felt comfortable speaking if I was answering a direct question.
2024-01-16 21:50:43
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lauraanneballew
Srianna :
Would you ever consider a video breaking down how to break loved ones out of cultlike thinking? Religious and political and otherwise 💚
2024-09-22 18:18:07
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chuckp93
chuckp93 :
I’ve been out of the church for 38 years and I cannot forget the trauma which causes anger.
2024-08-27 14:00:48
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