@chris_hatfield: How to communicate with an Avoidant: Anxious Attachment #anxiouslyattached #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #anxiousattachmentanddating #avoidantattachment #datingandrelationships
You say all the right things, they agree, then they break their word again. I'm on night 3 of no good night, no I love you and ignored completely 😭
2024-01-24 13:18:02
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BumbleBeeee 🍒 :
Chris, I think I need you. I’m with an avoidant & I feel this would really help to save the relationship 🥺🥺🥺!!!
2024-01-15 16:03:05
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Kimi :
It’s like talking to a wall no matter how you approach them 😮💨
2024-01-24 14:41:14
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Ky💋 :
Can we get more avoidant videos to better understand their point of view?
2024-01-16 20:41:31
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Joanie :
These TikTok’s truly are helping me
2024-01-13 21:01:53
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Moira Jo :
Texting for an avoidant is like walking a tightrope.. too much feels suffocating, too little feels risky.
2025-04-03 04:50:21
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Amaia 🍉 :
thank you from an anxiously attached partner with an avoidant partner
2024-02-07 21:00:13
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jupiteer2009 :
I talk like this. Doesn’t help, because they simply do not like to talk about this stuff, or feel like they are being controlled.
2024-03-08 13:19:44
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Bernell :
Yes! More please 😊
2024-01-13 20:45:51
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chlochloxxxxxxxx :
I’ve tried to set boundaries and approach them in a positive way but I don’t seem to get a straight forward answer which leaves me wondering
2024-01-23 22:18:06
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「ℳ𝒶𝓍」🌙 :
I always say the wrong thing but with good intentions and mess up
2024-02-01 03:16:37
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good.feelings2001 :
That is exhausting
2024-01-28 13:47:57
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dayana :
these are so helpful to me! cause I this is so me 😭
2024-01-14 15:42:56
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BRflint :
i tend to have abit of an avoidance attachment style as i feel comfortable in isolation and it affects the way i handle stress as i tend to be more closed off as it build. pt.1
2024-01-17 09:53:43
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Mia M :
But he doesnt listen
2024-01-28 16:17:00
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Mother of Cats 💟 :
I tried this & it was not reciprocated. Communication was such a huge issue 😔 I had to leave in the end because it qas never going to change. 💔
2024-01-27 21:58:22
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Elsie76 :
I really wish I could follow you. I would love to implement this in my own relationship. Learn how to communicate the correct way.
2024-01-23 14:42:06
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Corinniebabe :
Please do more!! I’m an anxious and he’s avoidant
2024-04-08 05:22:08
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1nimft :
nah i tried both ways it doesn't work on me...he still just being him ..
2024-01-25 12:23:01
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Shellybums48 :
Sugarooney I could of done with seeing this yesterday 😳
2024-02-01 12:13:44
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.Jovana. :
Your videos are always so helpful. Especially when I feel impulsive about blurting out silly things
2024-02-02 09:33:21
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Tiarasshow :
Is there a book on how to communicate as an anxious attacher?
2024-02-10 03:39:55
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ree :
YEAH AND THEY STILL GET PRESSURED. They see these as demands and not needs
2024-01-22 14:06:57
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🌙Nevermore🐦⬛Aries♈️ :
This is helpful! More of this.
2024-02-09 12:52:39
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