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dani.nicole1
Dani Nicole :
What about “I’m sorry I made you feel that way.” Is that not a good response either? Genuinely learning.
2024-01-16 22:36:47
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spicykittenfostermom
Hannah :
I told my Mom all the trauma that she caused. Her answer? "I'm sorry that happened to you." 🤦🏻‍♀️
2024-01-16 21:10:51
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gingersnap481
Brittany Woods :
I grew up with this 🙄
2024-01-16 15:47:02
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2065ismyyear
🧛‍♀️ :
This is my mom. I wish she would try to be better but she says “it’s too late”, or “I’m too old”.
2024-01-16 15:36:46
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amybentz12
WV2NCgirl81 :
“I’m sorry you pushed me to the point that I needed to behave like that” - my alcoholic narcissistic FIL to my husband 🙄
2024-01-16 15:54:06
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omfgmelissa
omfgmelissa :
What if you have a partner who is victim postured and is always making you out to be some kind of villain- it’s exhausting 😩
2024-01-16 16:18:54
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cynthiaperry7
Cynthia Perry :
just curiousbut what if they are wrong? what would be the proper response?
2024-01-16 21:43:07
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piggypyro
Piggy Pyro :
only problem is trying to explain this to a narcissist is impossible because they are weaponizing ignorance to continue the conversation.
2024-01-18 18:52:55
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massage_rebel
Magic fingers✨✨✨ :
I would tell him, “ I am sorry you feel that way”when he would belittle me and call me names when I would hold my boundaries.
2024-01-16 16:01:30
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green_eggs
oh boy oooh dear :
there really isn't a video of yours that doesn't resonate with me
2024-01-16 19:45:09
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play_pharah
Play_Pharah :
Exactly! And just when I have the courage to speak up to my mom, it turns into this vicious cycle. She thinks she’s always right and that I’m wrong 😔
2024-01-16 15:40:19
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bhaddwifeyy
bhaddwifeyy :
This . Exactly this . I knew I wasn’t crazy! Ur always so spot on appreciate you videos ❤️
2024-01-16 15:35:50
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kerrydorris
kerry :
I now get rid of those who do this......can't stand it. 💯😂🥰
2024-01-18 18:31:34
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putsomethingwittyhere
Donna :
Uhhh oops.. I have been saying that thinking that meant I was apologizing for making the person feel that way. Gonna correct that right quick
2024-01-20 19:34:16
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chrissylynn1981
Chrissy Swearengin :
the flashbacks 😳
2024-01-16 16:25:14
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mrs.retro
Mrs. Retro :
Or my mom's favorite apology, "I'm sorry, but..."
2024-01-16 21:36:59
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terra_the_corrupted
Terra_the-Corrupted💙🌈 :
fricken this. go in circles for years. I got off the carousel of denial/manipulation. others are trying to put me back on to "keep the peace" but what about my peace?
2024-01-16 18:07:19
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adalt14
Oceanside :
Cue argument ugh
2024-01-17 14:42:27
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tiffany09876543219
Tiffany💙🆘🇺🇸 :
What do I say when I REALLY am sorry they feel hurt by me?
2024-01-17 17:35:37
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savannah_gamblin
savannah gamblin :
I wish I saw this like 20 years ago
2024-02-01 20:51:35
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insomniac850515
Jessers LMT 💜 :
I need to practice these!
2024-01-25 11:22:42
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emma.soleil_emlightened
emma.soleil_emlightened :
Sometimes I feel challenged by this concept. I don’t know that we’re responsible for how others feel but I do know that we are responsible for what we do and what we say
2024-04-03 21:01:52
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luna_bi83
Luna-Bi83 :
yup. that's why I went no contact. there was no empathy from mom.
2024-01-16 21:51:40
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elizabethclanton0
eBeth Clanton :
'I want to be in a relationship where my feelings are valued.'
2024-07-22 09:09:28
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