@kar_enthegarage: This changed every conversation I’ve ever had… #theartofconversation #relationships #socialanxiety #howtoconnect

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mytinycompass
Mytinycompass :
#2 is how people with adhd relate and show they’re actively listening.
2024-01-17 21:29:56
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brenmace
Brenna :
Option 3 “that’s crazy”
2024-01-17 21:23:12
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stonefreegirl
stonefreegirl :
what do I do with a person who talks and talks. never asks me anything. I ask questions. listen. try to add. they redirect to them and keep going..
2024-01-17 14:16:18
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cliffslawson
CliffsLaw :
Damn. I’m option #2. I just want to relate 😂
2024-01-17 16:13:01
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maincharactergirlfinds
JEN | SAHM FASHION & FAITH ✝️ :
Is it bad that I automatically do number two without hesitation 😂
2024-01-17 15:14:50
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itsintuition
Intuition :
option 1 = “if you let someone talk about themselves they will listen for hours”
2024-01-17 16:11:43
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onlyhustlersinohio
OnlyHustlersinOhio :
Comment section full of people being #2. 🤣
2024-01-17 14:47:45
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marcusmcdermett
Marcus McDermett :
Option 3, a combination of with a focus on option 1.
2024-01-17 14:06:28
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oglippster
oglippster :
I have a family member that chooses option 2 all the time. I know it’s not malicious but it drives me nuts.
2024-01-17 12:06:21
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shellranae
Michigander :
I always do option one, aking more questions. Always! But then it always backfires me because no one can get to know me.
2024-01-17 19:28:30
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el.paseo58
El Paseo :
gotta do both in same breath, "omg i went there too, how was your trip..." if u wait, they r embarrassed telling u stuff like u dont kno anything
2024-01-17 20:26:51
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amylmcc1
amylmcc1 :
Once I figured out that I genuinely DGAF, despise small talk, and just stopped trying…..game changer!
2024-01-17 19:42:47
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yoooooooitsmepaula
P :
Option 3 relate it to yourself (because ADHD) and then ask more about it. You can do both simultaneously
2024-01-18 21:32:20
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nina..valentina
Nina..Valentina :
Honestly, combining 1 and 2 makes the most sense… it’s weird for someone to “hide” they already know a lot about what they’re questioning someone on..
2024-01-17 14:04:03
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photosmashing
photosmashing :
This is especially important when having a conversation about grief.
2024-01-17 13:05:56
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jay.schmay43665
jay.schmay34665 :
Such an elegant way of describing something that few think about. Well done and thank you.
2024-01-17 12:30:45
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nibbles_mouse
Nibbles_mouse :
People love to talk about themselves
2024-01-17 13:57:10
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kayteross3
Kate :
Sis I have adhd the the extreme don't have control over skipping right to #2🤣
2024-01-17 15:15:58
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arasnostaw
Arasnostaw :
I have a bad habit of relating it to myself and I have no ill intentions whatsoever. It’s just how I connect with the story you’re telling me.
2024-01-19 02:33:34
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esteef13
Esteef 13 :
This is common sense.
2024-01-17 14:42:23
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lunaschtick
LunaSchtick :
It’s so frustrating when you’re div and simply trying to relate to their human experience.
2024-01-17 15:06:56
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jeannamarie6
Jeanna 🎄 :
I think one upping is when you don’t follow up with additional questions about them or their experience.
2024-01-17 14:42:34
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_min_a
mina 🇰🇷 :
If you choose Opt 2, it must be followed up with Opt 1
2024-01-18 05:38:16
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avocadoatrocity
Avocado Atrocity :
Option 3: "gotchya. Anything else?" 🤔
2024-01-21 04:04:52
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