I'm an avoidant and if I got that second message I'm ghosting
2024-03-14 20:30:32
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Ashley Ferrari :
I have an anxious attachment and I told him how I felt and I needed to let him go cause I was hurting and he let me go 🥴
2024-01-21 00:42:33
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lenaaa :
“Don’t play games” proceeds to explain 3 options that is the definition of playing games with someone
2024-01-21 05:30:15
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allison :
booo sounds stressful just date someone who likes u
2024-01-21 04:24:56
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John Prevel :
As an avoidant, this would work on me 100%
2024-01-21 06:41:18
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Robert Gonzalez :
“Don’t play any games” immediately plays games
2024-01-21 01:49:14
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Susana Libertad :
"I got a surprise for you" and the surprise is divorce.
2024-12-26 02:59:12
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Nails 💅🏻💅🏻 :
My psychologist says I’m the exact example of an avoidant and the second tip you said would make me run the f away, and all you said are actually mind games. To make an avoidant stay you should 1/2
2024-11-04 14:05:28
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Mark J Acosta :
There's no way to use any of these in any way other than psychological games. This sounds exhausting to have to think about
2024-01-21 02:08:29
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Ang Rose :
These are all literally games 😑🤨
2024-01-20 23:39:59
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chronicallyallie :
I’m the most avoidant person I know and if someone said that to me I’d just use it as proof that I should leave them
2024-04-01 21:27:28
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jessge0 :
Passssss, do you girlies. State your needs and standards and walk away if they can’t meet them. No need for games.
2024-01-21 07:40:42
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Shellsea42 :
it's best to just do number one. 2 is playing a game. 3, yes you'll see them maybe but after that, it's back to them being avoident again
2024-01-20 23:57:45
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Astrocat :
Yikes. I wouldn’t do this to a friend, why would I treat my beloved so horribly?
2024-01-21 00:27:15
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⋆𓆩✧𓆪⋆ :
can someone just summarize the 3 things here i dont wanna listen to all that lmao
2024-01-25 10:05:17
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lchildress904 :
In Curb your Enthusiasm Larry uses the “accidental text on purpose” it’s genius 😂
2024-01-22 05:26:46
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Fat Guy Golf :
If an avoidant dumps you. Just move on. Don’t take them back ever unless they’ve been super committed to recognizing their trauma and committing to their trauma
2024-05-31 17:56:46
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The_Mountain_Man_144 :
This is in no way a healthy relationship to be in. People need to heal and become secure. Games are childish
2024-01-21 01:58:08
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ZORIA :
My god I get exhausted just by listening to this… no thank you 😅🙈
2024-02-11 19:08:33
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Valerie 💕 :
Girlll put those Rosarita beans in a pan and warm them up lol 💀🤣
2024-01-21 03:11:28
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﹏𖤓﹏ Katyusha 🇺🇦 :
aside from the fact that these are all games- everyone in the comments saying just don’t bother, avoidants deserve love too (i’m anxious) some ppl are worth fighting for
2024-01-27 02:59:02
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lauren :
avoidant here! if you send me that second text, i’m seeing right through it and never speaking to you again!
2024-01-22 06:36:56
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tay :
Instead of #2 if u have iPhone share the ETA from map then be like oops sorry clicked the wrong suggested contact xxx
2024-01-22 05:48:31
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Jannine Navarro :
Avoidants are toooo problematic. Too many things running inside their mind. And can’t even describe their problem.
2024-09-30 16:11:19
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Snark_The_Beast :
That’s how ghosting and no one reply. Great advice, everyone is ghosting anyway..
2024-01-21 02:57:41
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