Ben Cole-Edwards
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Sunday 21 January 2024 17:28:14 GMT
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cyber_gal :
I'm so aware of othe conversations, i literally need to look at someones lips in order to actually hear what they're saying when I'm in a crowded area
2024-01-21 17:34:17
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Mrs C :
I’m so hyper vigilant to all energies, atmospheres, body language, facial expressions where ever I go. I scan for danger. It’s exhausting. Xx.
2024-01-21 18:23:41
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Lady Firebird 🐦🔥 🆘 🇺🇸 :
I always thought I was just hypersensitive to sound. Suddenly it’s all so clear. Ok so how do we STOP doing that!
2024-01-21 19:01:56
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James Holmes :
I just listen to music in public with headphones in tbf
2026-07-05 18:30:27
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Khalo :
Ben it’s only 9 am and you’ve already popped up 4xs. I get it I’m really messed up but it’s to early for me to be analyzing all this 😫😂😭
2024-01-21 17:42:24
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midnightfragments :
spot on
2026-01-26 18:22:10
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;) :
and if someone is being aggressive you focus in on that conversation the most to make sure you aren't the cause.
2024-01-21 23:22:28
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duras_eli :
OMG, finally I've learned why I hate crowded places and why I wanna be alone on streets or in my own home with 2 kids and husband.I always put the earphones to be left alone and not interact with anyone.
2025-08-02 19:43:50
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Johnna Bither :
I see all these childhood trauma videos, and a lot of them are very accurate to me.. but I feel like I had a good childhood growing up.. can these types of things be from anything else?
2024-01-21 19:53:24
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dfk0922 :
For me, it’s also of feeling overwhelmed but also that I can’t escape if I need to. Does that make sense?
2024-01-21 23:00:59
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lunagirl🩰 :
I thought that was just ADHD
2025-03-09 07:23:43
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Sas :
Vergesse oft die Hälfte beim einkaufen wenn zu viele Menschen dort sind, konzentration wer? 😅
2024-01-26 07:29:40
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Janet :
I wear my headphones at the grocery store 😩 now I know why 😭
2024-02-08 23:16:01
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Dusty Daisy :
yeah, I don't like being in a noisy environment. I don't have claustrophobia but it does make sense.
2024-02-09 08:03:31
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someonesmemaw :
I have to wear headphones when I shop.
2024-01-21 19:31:44
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🧿Meggie Moo🏳️🌈 :
And this is why I have panic attacks in crowded areas. the voices, the body heat, the inability to find a place to escape to
2024-01-21 21:10:44
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. :
Yes agree I would scream and say shut up if two people would talk at ones it would sound so loud like a million people when there’s only two and I
2024-02-16 04:10:47
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Anara Chamel :
🤯 I thought I’m just easily distracted
2025-03-04 17:15:12
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buntyy18 :
Headphones 24/7 in crowds
2024-12-18 16:54:51
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Nicoletta Stefani :
Good Lord. 😳
2026-07-22 13:40:30
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️Shypher⁷ :
Nah it’s also when people get too close. Like there’s no respect to personal space and I HATE that. That’s why I avoid going out or socializing
2024-10-05 01:18:16
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myamyamya 🕸️ :
having autism does not help with this either 😭😭
2024-02-06 07:43:16
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Chrys Gorman :
On today's episode of "Is it the ADHD or the CPTSD".
2024-01-21 18:32:23
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Sammie🌷 :
It's like tuning into 1000 radios all at the same time, it's overwhelming!
2024-01-21 17:34:54
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Pawparent :
The longer I’m in a crowd the less I hear the person I’m with. I can’t stand the noise that long.
2024-01-21 17:41:27
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SAM :) 🍉 :
creo que necesito seriamente terapia
2024-01-25 16:10:19
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Brynja :
As a hairstylist i can’t hear my cliënt because i hear ALL the clients. I can’t go to restaurants without listening to everyone.
2024-01-21 18:32:52
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carriebeth88 :
While I SOOO appreciate my FYP for showing me a few of your videos today, I WAS NOT PREPARED TO BE PSYCHOANALYZED TODAY. And that little “hmm” at the end? Nails in the coffin. Yep. You got me.
2024-01-21 23:31:19
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murmasaurus :
This is why I can’t grocery shop with my daughter, she talks to me the whole time and then I can’t focus. Shopping takes complete focus to drown out the noise. 🤦🏻♀️
2024-01-21 17:47:44
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Hapalum :
I do this. I also have ADHD which is also a trait.
2024-01-22 07:01:25
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Sharon C. :
yes every single time
2024-01-21 17:33:47
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ElleThisShell :
I’m constantly “eavesdropping”. I can’t help it. It feels intrusive and I don’t even notice I’m doing it. I know everyone’s business.
2024-01-22 02:34:49
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sabine Grief :
Das erste mal das ich es verstehe 😞
2024-01-23 22:02:31
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onusryan :
This also occurs in my own home during parties or if the kids are being chaotic
2024-01-21 18:42:38
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Gemma Clare Radford :
I have to wear headphones when I’m out, also I can’t hold a conversation with someone if I can hear another conversation going on 😳
2024-01-21 17:40:37
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Chad 88 :
you're videos truly make me feel better about myself and help me understand. God gave you a true talent. thank you sir!
2024-01-21 18:08:11
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lizgleesonhairdressing :
Omg I thought that was my super power, being able to listen to several conversations at once !🤦🏻♀️
2024-01-21 18:10:04
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404ashen :
I can't survive without noise cancelling earphones :')
2024-02-01 08:18:38
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в.л :
what's the max age of the child for it to be a childhood trauma? a lot of things happen in my house when i'm 15-17. it affects me so much until today
2024-02-06 12:08:05
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Wini🇨🇦 :
is this why I need to wear headphones when I'm out, I thought it was my ADHD sensory issues
2024-02-04 17:47:37
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imastarfish :
This is EXACTLY ALwhat I mean when I say I hear EVERYTHING!😱
2024-01-21 18:17:47
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AngieDHulley :
I used to be able to listen to multiple conversations just now I feel like it's a sensory overload and I can't even focus on one
2024-01-21 21:46:21
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ℋ𝒶𝓃𝓃𝒶ℋ :
I’m adhd & asd so for me it’s extra hard as I already have conversations with myself & then on top I have everyone else talking & the music in a shop
2024-02-11 08:09:59
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hbritto7 :
I'm not sure if claustrophobic is the correct word for me... Maybe overwhelmed by processing everything others are talking is more accurate?
2024-02-13 14:02:55
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jessicawalton572 :
At work I hear everyone and answer the questions of those conversations without being asked. Survival is no joke.
2024-01-21 17:43:02
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stacym462 :
I always make it a joke. at restaurants I can hear every conversation. well most places but it's most noticeable when others are looking at you.
2024-01-21 20:47:51
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KateTR_eire🇮🇪 :
100% Correct
2024-01-21 17:33:14
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Samm :
I just thought I was nosey loll
2024-02-06 06:14:33
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Sue Harris 🇨🇦 :
this would be why I have to identify every sound around me at home, especially at night
2024-01-22 00:39:29
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Leonardo Pucci :
sim eu não consigo não prestar atenção nas conversas ao redor
2024-02-04 13:31:03
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StoryTimeToriTime :
Same thing in my work office. It’s a hum of hell
2024-01-21 22:54:16
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Leona Chisolm :
damn. it. but yes, that makes sense
2024-01-21 17:45:55
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Poppy Leah :
This is me in any setting. I literally cannot tune out other sounds it’s so distracting especially if I have fixated on one. My partner….
2024-01-22 00:09:59
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Sara Cain :
I always thought it was just over stimulation…. It is, just on a deeper level
2024-01-22 01:29:24
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Kim Goodbear :
That makes sense. I thought it was my adhd
2024-01-21 20:36:58
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Sia :
merci de l'avoir traduit en mots 🙏
2024-01-22 20:00:20
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chelsea :
chill out... it's scary at this point.. I've never heard anyone say out loud what I do all the time..
2024-02-05 08:39:27
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