@theholisticpsychologist: My new book “HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK” dives deep into healthy relationships #attachmentstyle #healingtiktok #HealingJourney
This was me. Begged for years, I left and he was “shocked”
2024-01-23 01:57:12
65
Natasha Ostrem :
This was me. I cried for months grieving the marriage. I told him, gave him timelines and an ultimatum. When I left he said “I didn’t think you were serious.” 😂
2024-01-22 16:57:34
378
studio.artistica :
But the change will last a couple of weeks at the most a month and then goes back to being the same.
2024-01-22 19:38:14
51
X-tine :
How can you say that you love someone you can’t tell is dying? 😭
2024-01-22 15:06:29
295
KimMad🇺🇸🆘💙 :
I have cried all the tears. I’m in a waiting game now. We are not partners anymore
2024-01-22 20:07:12
67
Kim :
This is exactly what happened to me. When my divorce was finalized I did feel at peace. Thanks for the validation.
2024-01-22 17:12:32
41
Kiaya :
I just left a longterm relationship. and yeah, I grieved last year when he cheated. leaving now feels more like I'm being true to myself.
2024-01-22 15:33:04
32
Girly-pop Home Services✨ :
I mourned for YEARS
2024-01-22 18:37:17
32
Southern Honey 🍑 :
I cried so much while I was with him that I couldn’t cry too much after we broke up. I was done before it was over.
2024-01-24 20:27:40
15
Mama bear beast 🇨🇦 :
At some point you have to leave when they are ignoring and withholding love and affection..that goes for men and women
2024-01-23 11:19:08
13
kathrynjo0510 :
but before I left, he woke up and decided I was worth all the work, time and attention he had withheld. but I'm over it. what now?
2024-01-22 17:30:50
30
brandi_with_the_good_hair :
I BEGGED, tried to change who I was, pled, then I accepted...then he decided to change....too late. and now he's the man I wish he was all along..
2024-02-14 00:20:50
4
Juliana P :
Ohh I needed to hear this. Thank you as always, Dr Nicole ❤️
2024-01-22 14:24:22
31
merkabah :
I am here right now. I have to wait until I’m prepared to make the move but I’ve already grieved our marriage.
2024-01-24 20:03:21
4
Rose 🌹💗 :
Ok you’re two people right? How are you both related? I keep thinking you’re the same person doing different roles
2024-01-22 14:28:30
7
☆MARIE☆ིྀ :
I felt this in my soul!! I consistently worked on myself, he didn’t grow with me.. I grieved long before I left 💜
2024-01-24 16:03:42
4
Omega Forge :
my ex-wife gave me no warning, she asked for a divorce on valentines day. It was bad communication that ended our marriage.
2024-01-29 16:32:46
3
buffy407md :
I was neglected for 20 years. When I left, he told me that I threw him away like a piece of garbage.
2024-02-03 22:30:19
3
SpunkyMonkee :
this was my marriage. told him for two years that the moment I stop fighting is the moment I've given up. was still shocked when he got divorce papers
2024-01-24 02:28:42
9
Sparkles :
I grieved for so long before I left then continued to grieve. I really believed he was my person, a part of me.
2024-01-23 03:47:47
8
shauny bauny :
Definitely 💯 I even told him I felt like I was grieving the relationship before I broke up. He still felt like he didn’t see it coming
2024-01-23 00:01:30
5
Fraser 1976 :
know do it from his prospective
2024-01-22 20:33:54
5
Logan McLeod :
She left and it's his fault.
Yeah, like I've never heard about it.
2024-01-22 14:22:57
13
BigStarrySkyDreams :
In desperation I said “I will leave when I finish my masters degree.” Served papers 2 weeks before end of last semester. He said “… but you haven’t graduated yet!” 😂
2024-01-25 02:40:39
4
To see more videos from user @theholisticpsychologist, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.