@confidentlyuna: and some days it breaks your heart. But on other days? Somehow it fixes it 🫀🫀Grace by name, grace by nature. Thanks Mum #divorcedparentsproblems #divorcedparentscheck #childrenofdivorce #divorcedparents The reality of having divorced parents

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ianiraianira808
shayra ianira :
my father remarried and is a great father to those kids. he told me he didn’t want to make the same mistake with THEM. like.. what about me? 😞
2024-01-30 17:14:23
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dulcerriina
dulcerriina :
Wow. I feel like I’ve been doing this for my husband and I’m just realizing it.
2024-01-23 04:38:51
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cdrake0424
Mrs. Drake :
I did this and didn’t realize. My heart breaks for my kids because they deserve so much better from their dad. And it’s mind blowing how much energy I was putting into it and had no idea
2024-10-01 14:46:30
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ariellebracero
Arielle Bracero Keith :
My sweet girls. They will know one day❤️they will all know one day♥️
2024-01-23 03:56:04
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kristeninblack
Kristen :
I read old journals of my mom where she was deeply unhappy and wondering why my dad didn’t try harder. I no longer speak to him, and she is dead. I would rather be alone, he never really cared.
2024-01-23 04:47:36
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amp7two7
amtothep :
ill never forgive myself for not giving my baby better to begin with😭😭
2024-01-23 05:06:12
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danii_leann
Sunshine :
This is the ONLY thing I think about after leaving. Wanting my children to have a good image of a man that wasn’t very good 2 me 🥺 but that’s his job
2024-01-23 06:15:13
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thekristinanne
Kristin🧷💙 :
I’ll never be able to thank my mom enough for everything she did. She was always both mom and dad. Even when I didn’t know it.
2024-01-30 03:49:32
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enevieve
Genevieve :
I am the mom in this scenario, all I can say is young women please never have kids w the wrong man, you deserve a good partner ♥️
2024-01-22 23:56:53
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fabuouslyrandom
FabuouslyRandom :
This made me sob. I’m the mom and I’m watching my 16 yo daughter have this realization. It breaks me to watch him break her.
2024-01-23 06:26:09
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spacecadet0000
Spacecadet 🟰💕✌️ :
My mom was this woman, too. It’s so hard to look back on all that and see how much she shouldered and how little recognition she got for it.
2024-01-23 04:46:50
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confidentlyuna
Your Favourite Cousin :
The reality of having divorced parents is grieving for what was but also what could have been. For them. What if they took different paths? Seeing their lives through adult 👁️👁️always gets me
2024-01-22 23:50:17
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junobug3
AishaAlchemist :
I’m doing this right now with my kids, I say such lies so they can know they’re loved, I don’t want them to have issues 💔
2024-01-23 03:18:09
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carolina52612
Carolina52612 :
Thanks for writing this- this is exactly how it’s been in my family (I’m the mom)
2024-01-23 04:45:57
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gossipgirl_441
Barbie :
I tried, I tried so hard. I’m sorry my babies
2024-01-23 04:45:55
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la.guera.musiquera
la.guera.musiquera :
I almost lost my light trying to push him to be good man/father. I tried for so long...15 years.
2024-01-28 06:33:47
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sarahmakk
SarahMakk :
That’s how much we love you. I’m sorry for your pain, but Thank you for acknowledging this.
2024-01-31 21:01:28
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mochi_baobao
mochi_baobao :
So many moms protect the image of the father but it sets their children up for disappointment
2024-01-30 03:34:14
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teemama479
Tamara Mihet :
Mine was the opposite I realized how much my mom demonized him to me when I was little. I love him now that I’m an adult.
2024-01-27 23:30:08
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jane_2992
Jane :
my father gave me the bare minimum but once my parents divorced he just disappeared for the most part. he remembered my birthday at 1am the next day
2024-02-21 19:31:51
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sarah.smiles75
SarahSmiles :
I left my exh 15 months ago and I didn’t realize I had curated all of his interactions w/the children until their relationship with him deteriorated
2024-01-30 10:02:52
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evvyjay
evvyjay :
I do this in reverse 4 my parents. My siblings aren’t kind or thoughtful. So I encourage them w/ ideas how 2 love my parents. Hope they never find out
2024-01-30 17:40:12
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la.gabiotaa
La.Gabiotaa :
10 years and he would apologize with gifts or food. Now about to get divorced and he doesn’t see my daughter much but when he does it’s gifts and gifts and she’s 5 and she can’t see the reality
2024-01-26 23:34:07
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eve71576
Eve :
even worse when they are still together.
2024-02-02 23:26:13
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mizsgil
SMDRT :
This is so interesting to me because I assumed this is what would happen when my parents divorced. But actually he tries really hard and our relationship has improved dramatically
2024-01-30 15:45:51
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sorenbby
Sorenbby :
🥺 one day they’ll understand. I won’t tell them, but they’ll understand.
2024-01-23 15:40:34
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emers152
emers15 :
My dad burned my house down because I was housing my mother after she left their abusive marriage…🫠 nomadic until justice is served.
2024-01-23 13:52:46
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sydneycruz435
sydney cruz :
The most painful loss was the loss of a family unit, I wanted them both happy in the end though
2024-01-23 07:42:02
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adriylavida
adri :
I’m happy my ex continues to buy flowers for his daughter he only started doing that when I was leaving! He’s an amazing father though
2024-01-23 05:05:17
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tlledet
Tiff 💯 :
My God, I’m a mess now.
2024-02-21 00:31:03
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averybakedpotato
Sasha :
This is nearly exactly my experience as well except they didn’t get divorced. She died suddenly and I had learn who my dad really was. 💔💔
2024-02-04 16:40:03
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thisiissasign
universe 🌌 :
oof ok that hurt
2024-02-02 12:49:48
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allimac1885
Allimac1885 :
I begged my mum to leave my dad for years so that my relationship with him COULD disintegrate! Finally happened when I was 36! 🥴😂
2024-02-01 21:26:51
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paperdoll_thatsall
Paper Doll :
I did this with my soon to be ex husband, it was a heavy weight trying to get him to be an involved father.
2024-01-31 04:24:17
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a_spicy_mimi_4_lyfe
SpicyMimi4Lyfe :
I am that Mom too. it was hard watching my children become adults and they realized their dad didn't have a court order anymore to make them get to see him.
2024-01-31 03:39:30
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stonywankenobi
stonywankenobi :
The worst is that my dad cheated, chose divorce, and was hardly in my life after. But my mom still insists he was the love of her life.
2024-01-30 12:43:15
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elleoctaviaart
elleoctavia :
This makes me happy to know my kids will realize oneday
2024-01-30 07:20:20
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akgirlinco
Christina :
I hate watching my kids go through this. They thought he was a good dad before. He really never was. It was me making magic. 💔
2024-01-30 03:00:27
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hudenko.auds
Hudenko :
Same
2024-01-30 00:07:50
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bearriverhome
BearRiverHome :
For me it’s the other way around…. But I always knew….
2024-01-29 20:39:33
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thisisnatalialopez
thisisnatalialopez :
This hits home hard. I did it for 15 years.
2024-01-28 02:25:58
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bandmanna88
Hannah 🍉 🍉 🍉 :
My marriage in a nutshell. when he started hurting our child to hurt me, I was done.
2024-01-23 15:18:37
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littlegoodtreefarms
Katie Goodtree :
@Baumer Goodtree my mom
2024-01-23 15:12:20
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user9445909120761
user9445909120761 :
Yup, and ever since my dads girlfriend moved in with him suddenly it’s “I can’t be around your mom” now it’s separate holidays and birthdays 🥲
2024-01-23 03:29:53
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gretchengertrudew
hev cheni :
This is me, and when I see her happy all my pain goes away
2024-04-04 01:37:38
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