@confidentlyuna: and some days it breaks your heart. But on other days? Somehow it fixes it 🫀🫀Grace by name, grace by nature. Thanks Mum #divorcedparentsproblems #divorcedparentscheck #childrenofdivorce #divorcedparents The reality of having divorced parents
my father remarried and is a great father to those kids. he told me he didn’t want to make the same mistake with THEM. like.. what about me? 😞
2024-01-30 17:14:23
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dulcerriina :
Wow. I feel like I’ve been doing this for my husband and I’m just realizing it.
2024-01-23 04:38:51
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Mrs. Drake :
I did this and didn’t realize. My heart breaks for my kids because they deserve so much better from their dad. And it’s mind blowing how much energy I was putting into it and had no idea
2024-10-01 14:46:30
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Arielle Bracero Keith :
My sweet girls. They will know one day❤️they will all know one day♥️
2024-01-23 03:56:04
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Kristen :
I read old journals of my mom where she was deeply unhappy and wondering why my dad didn’t try harder. I no longer speak to him, and she is dead. I would rather be alone, he never really cared.
2024-01-23 04:47:36
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amtothep :
ill never forgive myself for not giving my baby better to begin with😭😭
2024-01-23 05:06:12
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Sunshine :
This is the ONLY thing I think about after leaving. Wanting my children to have a good image of a man that wasn’t very good 2 me 🥺 but that’s his job
2024-01-23 06:15:13
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Kristin🧷💙 :
I’ll never be able to thank my mom enough for everything she did. She was always both mom and dad. Even when I didn’t know it.
2024-01-30 03:49:32
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Genevieve :
I am the mom in this scenario, all I can say is young women please never have kids w the wrong man, you deserve a good partner ♥️
2024-01-22 23:56:53
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FabuouslyRandom :
This made me sob. I’m the mom and I’m watching my 16 yo daughter have this realization. It breaks me to watch him break her.
2024-01-23 06:26:09
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Spacecadet 🟰💕✌️ :
My mom was this woman, too. It’s so hard to look back on all that and see how much she shouldered and how little recognition she got for it.
2024-01-23 04:46:50
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Your Favourite Cousin :
The reality of having divorced parents is grieving for what was but also what could have been. For them. What if they took different paths? Seeing their lives through adult 👁️👁️always gets me
2024-01-22 23:50:17
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AishaAlchemist :
I’m doing this right now with my kids, I say such lies so they can know they’re loved, I don’t want them to have issues 💔
2024-01-23 03:18:09
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Carolina52612 :
Thanks for writing this- this is exactly how it’s been in my family (I’m the mom)
2024-01-23 04:45:57
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Barbie :
I tried, I tried so hard. I’m sorry my babies
2024-01-23 04:45:55
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la.guera.musiquera :
I almost lost my light trying to push him to be good man/father. I tried for so long...15 years.
2024-01-28 06:33:47
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SarahMakk :
That’s how much we love you. I’m sorry for your pain, but Thank you for acknowledging this.
2024-01-31 21:01:28
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mochi_baobao :
So many moms protect the image of the father but it sets their children up for disappointment
2024-01-30 03:34:14
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Tamara Mihet :
Mine was the opposite I realized how much my mom demonized him to me when I was little. I love him now that I’m an adult.
2024-01-27 23:30:08
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Jane :
my father gave me the bare minimum but once my parents divorced he just disappeared for the most part. he remembered my birthday at 1am the next day
2024-02-21 19:31:51
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SarahSmiles :
I left my exh 15 months ago and I didn’t realize I had curated all of his interactions w/the children until their relationship with him deteriorated
2024-01-30 10:02:52
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evvyjay :
I do this in reverse 4 my parents. My siblings aren’t kind or thoughtful. So I encourage them w/ ideas how 2 love my parents. Hope they never find out
2024-01-30 17:40:12
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La.Gabiotaa :
10 years and he would apologize with gifts or food. Now about to get divorced and he doesn’t see my daughter much but when he does it’s gifts and gifts and she’s 5 and she can’t see the reality
2024-01-26 23:34:07
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Eve :
even worse when they are still together.
2024-02-02 23:26:13
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SMDRT :
This is so interesting to me because I assumed this is what would happen when my parents divorced. But actually he tries really hard and our relationship has improved dramatically
2024-01-30 15:45:51
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Sorenbby :
🥺 one day they’ll understand. I won’t tell them, but they’ll understand.
2024-01-23 15:40:34
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emers15 :
My dad burned my house down because I was housing my mother after she left their abusive marriage…🫠 nomadic until justice is served.
2024-01-23 13:52:46
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sydney cruz :
The most painful loss was the loss of a family unit, I wanted them both happy in the end though
2024-01-23 07:42:02
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adri :
I’m happy my ex continues to buy flowers for his daughter he only started doing that when I was leaving! He’s an amazing father though
2024-01-23 05:05:17
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Tiff 💯 :
My God, I’m a mess now.
2024-02-21 00:31:03
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Sasha :
This is nearly exactly my experience as well except they didn’t get divorced. She died suddenly and I had learn who my dad really was. 💔💔
2024-02-04 16:40:03
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universe 🌌 :
oof ok that hurt
2024-02-02 12:49:48
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Allimac1885 :
I begged my mum to leave my dad for years so that my relationship with him COULD disintegrate! Finally happened when I was 36! 🥴😂
2024-02-01 21:26:51
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Paper Doll :
I did this with my soon to be ex husband, it was a heavy weight trying to get him to be an involved father.
2024-01-31 04:24:17
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SpicyMimi4Lyfe :
I am that Mom too. it was hard watching my children become adults and they realized their dad didn't have a court order anymore to make them get to see him.
2024-01-31 03:39:30
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stonywankenobi :
The worst is that my dad cheated, chose divorce, and was hardly in my life after. But my mom still insists he was the love of her life.
2024-01-30 12:43:15
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elleoctavia :
This makes me happy to know my kids will realize oneday
2024-01-30 07:20:20
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Christina :
I hate watching my kids go through this. They thought he was a good dad before. He really never was. It was me making magic. 💔
2024-01-30 03:00:27
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Hudenko :
Same
2024-01-30 00:07:50
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BearRiverHome :
For me it’s the other way around…. But I always knew….
2024-01-29 20:39:33
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thisisnatalialopez :
This hits home hard. I did it for 15 years.
2024-01-28 02:25:58
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Hannah 🍉 🍉 🍉 :
My marriage in a nutshell. when he started hurting our child to hurt me, I was done.
2024-01-23 15:18:37
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Katie Goodtree :
@Baumer Goodtree my mom
2024-01-23 15:12:20
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user9445909120761 :
Yup, and ever since my dads girlfriend moved in with him suddenly it’s “I can’t be around your mom” now it’s separate holidays and birthdays 🥲
2024-01-23 03:29:53
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hev cheni :
This is me, and when I see her happy all my pain goes away
2024-04-04 01:37:38
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