@professor.steph: Replying to @SmellRanger alright! So you may not get this level of emotional accessibility from your mom, and, this is what it would look like to have a parent emotionally attune to your needs in the scenario you shared. It would be normal for you to experience conflicting emotions in response to this TT!! Part of you may feel one way, and part of you may feel the exact opposite. Both/all feelings and parts are valid. What other scenarios do you guys think I should role model for meeting emotional needs? #Relationship #relationships #mom #dad #kids #nocontact #parenting #gentleparenting #emotionalneglect #neglect #bpd #cptsd #childhoodtrauma #trauma #emotions #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #therapy #MentalHealth #therapytiktok #therapistsontiktok #dating #breakup #marriage #divorce #skit #fyp #foryou #foryoupage

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smellranger
SmellRanger :
Oh my gosh… anything like this would’ve been amazing…. 😭 I don’t think my mom is capable of…. Any of this maybe
2024-01-25 22:22:33
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sorceressdominatrix
SorceressDominatrix :
Why I kept so many secrets. Her mantra “you didn’t tell me that” instead of “wow, I wasn’t safe enough to come to”
2024-01-27 04:03:11
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robbennye
Curlybird🪽🌸🩵 :
You don’t know how deep those wounds are until you hear someone saying the words you really needed to hear.
2024-01-26 06:03:07
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_andgrace
Grace :
lol wut. I appreciate the note at the end that said that this does actually happen IRL. Bc this seems so foreign 💀🤣💜
2024-01-26 18:47:52
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seeyouintime
chey :
why’d this make me cry lol YIKES
2024-02-12 06:49:47
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justingenx65
Justin❌️ :
I knew my mother wasn't safe when I was 4 and tried to hide my broken arm. broken at a 90 angle.
2024-01-27 16:23:21
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a.lavine13
Andrea Lavine :
Not me over here crying imagining if I could ever have this type of interaction
2024-01-30 15:17:02
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mhern22
Maria🧿 :
This made me cry so hard because I know I will never hear my mother say something like this.
2024-02-09 23:38:04
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themysticalbadass
✨The Mystical Badass🍉 :
Can you put all these in the playlist?
2024-01-27 22:54:57
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rachel_watches_tiktok
Rachel :
Why did this make me cry?
2024-01-29 21:32:15
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whatisnjauw
whatisnjauw :
i can see my mother reacting something like this, but then not being there when i try to actually get help or support from her. talking feels empty
2024-01-29 09:11:48
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user6194268102571
Gary 3000 :
My mother would say something along the lines of “how dare you” or “how could’ve I have known?” 😐
2024-01-27 13:59:10
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just_some_bones
just_some_bones :
Crying so hard right now
2024-02-03 17:05:42
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thegreatgaskey
James 'thegreatgaskey' :
so you're saying there is actually parents that behave this way?!? 🤯😳 props to those folks 👏👏👏💖
2024-01-26 03:21:40
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thisishertryingx
Lalalalala :
My mom would be like, well your dad made me this way blame him
2024-01-25 21:55:44
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angelikascharmach
angelikascharmach :
I tried my mom is not capable of this. She is stuck in excuses and feels like a weak person
2024-03-14 14:56:09
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lollypip4
lollypip4 :
My dad used to be toxic and he's changed. Now he'l remember and call me decades later to apologize. People really can change, don't give up!
2024-02-20 01:43:55
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thisishertryingx
Lalalalala :
My mom would never
2024-01-25 21:55:17
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blairkdoescosplay
Blair Kott :
I recently told my mom that I’ve really struggled with our relationship now that I’m an adult (25) and my parents have started to treat me less like a kid.
2024-01-26 01:47:54
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amdobs29
alie :
🥺🥺🥺😭 oh
2024-01-28 17:50:25
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foxxie_p3arl91
Foxxie :
ty for these!
2024-01-29 01:53:22
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nobigteal
whatstheteal :
i want you to know that my mom went to therapy and i had this exact conversation with her last month 🥺 it's achievable, if parents do the work.
2024-02-19 10:11:59
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user_888888889
User88888888 :
I’m really excited for your book! Your content is so helpful!
2024-01-29 19:30:38
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flipp875
Flip :
My mom would safe I’m sorry baby I did the best I could! My aunt would say no that didn’t happen! I miss my mom
2024-01-31 01:58:00
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iamhowiam_
Ay :
sorry to sidenote: what's the Chem info behind you? very curious.
2024-01-25 21:57:15
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