@professor.steph: Replying to @SmellRanger alright! So you may not get this level of emotional accessibility from your mom, and, this is what it would look like to have a parent emotionally attune to your needs in the scenario you shared. It would be normal for you to experience conflicting emotions in response to this TT!! Part of you may feel one way, and part of you may feel the exact opposite. Both/all feelings and parts are valid. What other scenarios do you guys think I should role model for meeting emotional needs? #Relationship #relationships #mom #dad #kids #nocontact #parenting #gentleparenting #emotionalneglect #neglect #bpd #cptsd #childhoodtrauma #trauma #emotions #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #therapy #MentalHealth #therapytiktok #therapistsontiktok #dating #breakup #marriage #divorce #skit #fyp #foryou #foryoupage
Oh my gosh… anything like this would’ve been amazing…. 😭 I don’t think my mom is capable of…. Any of this maybe
2024-01-25 22:22:33
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SorceressDominatrix :
Why I kept so many secrets. Her mantra “you didn’t tell me that” instead of “wow, I wasn’t safe enough to come to”
2024-01-27 04:03:11
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Curlybird🪽🌸🩵 :
You don’t know how deep those wounds are until you hear someone saying the words you really needed to hear.
2024-01-26 06:03:07
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Grace :
lol wut. I appreciate the note at the end that said that this does actually happen IRL. Bc this seems so foreign 💀🤣💜
2024-01-26 18:47:52
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chey :
why’d this make me cry lol YIKES
2024-02-12 06:49:47
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Justin❌️ :
I knew my mother wasn't safe when I was 4 and tried to hide my broken arm. broken at a 90 angle.
2024-01-27 16:23:21
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Andrea Lavine :
Not me over here crying imagining if I could ever have this type of interaction
2024-01-30 15:17:02
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Maria🧿 :
This made me cry so hard because I know I will never hear my mother say something like this.
2024-02-09 23:38:04
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✨The Mystical Badass🍉 :
Can you put all these in the playlist?
2024-01-27 22:54:57
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Rachel :
Why did this make me cry?
2024-01-29 21:32:15
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whatisnjauw :
i can see my mother reacting something like this, but then not being there when i try to actually get help or support from her. talking feels empty
2024-01-29 09:11:48
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Gary 3000 :
My mother would say something along the lines of “how dare you” or “how could’ve I have known?” 😐
2024-01-27 13:59:10
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just_some_bones :
Crying so hard right now
2024-02-03 17:05:42
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James 'thegreatgaskey' :
so you're saying there is actually parents that behave this way?!? 🤯😳 props to those folks 👏👏👏💖
2024-01-26 03:21:40
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Lalalalala :
My mom would be like, well your dad made me this way blame him
2024-01-25 21:55:44
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angelikascharmach :
I tried my mom is not capable of this. She is stuck in excuses and feels like a weak person
2024-03-14 14:56:09
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lollypip4 :
My dad used to be toxic and he's changed. Now he'l remember and call me decades later to apologize. People really can change, don't give up!
2024-02-20 01:43:55
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Lalalalala :
My mom would never
2024-01-25 21:55:17
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Blair Kott :
I recently told my mom that I’ve really struggled with our relationship now that I’m an adult (25) and my parents have started to treat me less like a kid.
2024-01-26 01:47:54
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alie :
🥺🥺🥺😭 oh
2024-01-28 17:50:25
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Foxxie :
ty for these!
2024-01-29 01:53:22
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whatstheteal :
i want you to know that my mom went to therapy and i had this exact conversation with her last month 🥺 it's achievable, if parents do the work.
2024-02-19 10:11:59
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User88888888 :
I’m really excited for your book! Your content is so helpful!
2024-01-29 19:30:38
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Flip :
My mom would safe I’m sorry baby I did the best I could! My aunt would say no that didn’t happen! I miss my mom
2024-01-31 01:58:00
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Ay :
sorry to sidenote: what's the Chem info behind you? very curious.
2024-01-25 21:57:15
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