@stephanne221: Replying to @Steph the Attachment Therapist round 2 here we go! Be sure to drop an example of an emotional need youd love to see be role modeled. I break emotional needs into two types, nurture based or structure based. Nurture based emotions needs: Validation Reassurance Attention Encouragement Repair Affection Expressed interest Play 🔹 Structure based emotional needs are: Boundaries + limits Implementing consequences Role modeling Problem solving Providing structure, predictability, routine 🔹 #emotional #emotionalneglect #neglect #cptsd #childhoodtrauma #bpd #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidant #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #attachment #therapist #therapistsontiktok #therapy #Relationship #relationships #marriage #divorce #dating #relationshiptherapist #MentalHealth #SelfImprovement #SelfCare #fyp #foryou #foryoupage

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disnerd_79
Lissa :
#1 resonates with me — I often overshare details when I take time off work sick because it feels like I need to explain why and how I’m sick bc I’m afraid they’ll think I’m not sick and faking it ☹️
2024-01-29 11:24:57
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shooter._mcgavin
Johnny meatballs :
#3 is me at work. My thought process is “if they know me they won’t like me, but goddamnit they’re going to think I’m useful at least!!”
2024-06-22 15:16:18
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norahaydencallen
Nora Hayden :
A quote that helped me realize my wounds was: “I don’t feel wanted, so I make myself needed”
2024-02-16 09:20:38
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kaseydlogan
Kasey Logan VO :
Bluey! Most attuned family on T.V. also the way@ Mr. Rogers speaks to children.
2024-01-29 23:49:22
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just.an.awkward.oppossum
just an awkward oppossum :
ouch yes, but ouch
2024-01-29 05:09:21
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eve_me_alone_
Eve :
wow the algorithm is a sniper today
2024-02-19 20:36:39
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desireetransformation
desireetransformation :
Yesssssssss. Thank you! As someone who has been neglected for a very long time, I don’t even have a reference point for what’s not neglect! Following.
2024-01-29 17:13:23
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1sunshineyday
Sunshine :
Algorithm, bring me back.
2024-01-30 16:04:18
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fae_light
faelight :
Omg #2. I feel so seen and called out. It has taken a full medical crisis to do things like buy the foods and meds I need instead of saving money. (1)
2024-02-04 10:06:17
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ag_age
age :
um... geeeez. this is me at work too!
2024-02-10 00:28:41
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treyfrazier901
VOID/ The Void Experience 🕳️ :
the 3rd one💔💔
2024-05-07 11:18:23
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saze264
SaySay🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🦄 :
This was very helpful. Thank you 💯
2024-02-28 17:03:53
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daeseregruin
daeseregruin :
I struggle to take sick days without being "sent home" because my sensory overload and endometriosis symptoms were constantly dismissed as a child and teen.
2024-02-05 17:25:36
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pole_fae
Josie Elysia🇨🇦 :
and here I just thought I was a perfectionist 👀
2024-05-29 13:20:51
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brandyp1987
Brandy Peterson-130 lbs down :
All 3. Fortunately I don’t do this anymore.
2024-02-16 22:23:08
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vin_seltzer
Vintage Seltzer :
A lot of women I've worked with do #1 when they call out sick. Takes a bit to build the trust that they can take sick days when they need to
2024-01-30 00:58:41
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phoenixphaedrana
The Hope System :
me, sitting in my 65° apartment with $900 fresh dollars in my checking account and having just justified/apologized for hours for doing sh 😬😨😳-Gwen
2024-01-31 06:50:38
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josh_exists
josh :
#3 lands well. ty. I'm always trying to 'overperform' to 'earn my right to exist' in the presence of others. thanks, mom and dad.
2024-01-29 05:11:15
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angiewayman
angiewayman :
How do I not pass this on ?? 😩
2024-02-15 14:59:56
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thibsforsure
Thibs :
@Earth medicine @Whit @elysia @allix @Maddie
2024-02-08 05:04:45
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meandherandusmakes5
Me and my brain. :
Fascinating. Not everything is a sales pitch
2024-01-29 19:31:56
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maxinethemooshroom
Maxine :
shhhhhhhhhhhhhh I didn't get on TT too get called out 😭😭😭
2024-01-30 07:56:18
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muddyhearterika
ErikatheRedd :
😬 why you call me out like this
2024-01-29 15:29:09
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loubug19
allieoop :
Oooh that first one hit hard. Although I wonder if it still applies if you only had to convince 1 caregiver and not the other?
2024-01-29 16:13:53
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the_bionic_ginger
Susie :
Are these traits always only a result of trauma? I genuinely don’t remember my mom invalidating my needs but I do #1 like my life depends on it
2024-01-29 17:51:05
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kelliefuller4
Kellie Fuller :
Whoa!!!! And I’ve done years of therapy, but never realized any of this
2024-01-30 18:25:42
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melair6
Melair :
Oh my gosh!!!! It’s me! Hi! I’m the problem! It’s me!
2024-01-29 22:18:49
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jackierye13
jack rye💫🕉🪐 :
That would explain why I have a hard time meeting my own needs..
2024-02-03 20:57:24
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cfunk89
Celie :
Wonderfully insightful video. Also where is your necklace from, it’s gorgeous 😍
2024-01-30 04:32:59
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blk_sqrrl
Hay-nes Sl!nk :
I have to do this with my partner.....defend my needs.....she doesn't see it
2024-01-30 15:14:35
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ashinprogress
ashinprogress :
I appreciate your content so much. All 3 of these are seriously exploited by US ed to keep teachers w/o improving the work environment.
2024-01-29 06:15:29
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jessicarozak
Emotions Coach Jessica :
Such great points 👏👏👏
2024-01-29 04:59:45
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n0tdrunk1
Not drunk :
Someone tag me in the role play I can’t find it
2024-06-08 04:41:09
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jayleana25
Jay :
I’m excited for the next series! I feel like the internet is full of what the negative looks like but not what good signs are!
2024-01-29 13:30:29
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meetmichellerenee
Meet Michelle Renee :
I want to make a list of your videos for some of my clients.
2024-01-29 15:16:50
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contrary_clairy
☾ℒคḯℛℰ 𖠌 ฿ℰคℝ🌻 :
Following because my ptsd ass doesn’t know what it’s feeling half the time. I also never feel worthy.
2024-02-24 02:39:21
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beehthephotographer
Beeh :
Thanks
2024-02-13 14:32:33
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caittdaltt
caittdaltt :
Ur healing me ❤️‍🩹🫶🏼 ty
2024-02-15 18:23:01
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the_horror.06
[00.06] :
Number two is the first time I’m able to see what I felt in words
2024-06-07 09:34:18
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mummapinky
VA :
Modelling is important. I know what I shouldn't be doing (get told all the time) but knowing what to do instead is hard when you've never seen it.
2024-02-18 14:20:56
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s9876543212345
Lolol :
I dont recall seeing the healthy interdependency series?? Did i miss it?
2024-06-03 17:36:51
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westbubblenews
WestBubbleNews :
I am going to contact the police again in regards the sim.
2024-02-25 23:59:50
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amylunastar6
Amy Luna :
Yesssss
2024-05-25 20:11:33
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its.a.casey.thing
It's A Casey Thing :
the third made me feel valid as a mum, I don't have him doing chours for keep, it's preparing him for adulthood bit by bit. rather than loads at once
2024-03-01 13:56:58
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abbyreyes087
Abby Reyes :
can you show an example of this?
2024-05-17 16:04:48
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ginger.muse
gingervitis :
I just overshare because of my ADHD. 😂
2024-03-03 08:15:54
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bragg_about_karrah
bragg_about_karrah :
I want to know how to get my needs met when I communicate them effectively but don’t want to feel like # 3 where I have to perform, beg or be in a desperate energy to get my needs met
2024-05-09 00:09:06
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user8392215611362
optimistic_nihilist :
😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
2024-07-11 18:42:15
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blanket_witch
🎀🔮🛏️blanketwitch👒🧹🎀 :
uh oh lol
2024-03-16 21:40:11
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lolmickeyyy
🕷𖤐 𝕸𝖎𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖊𝖑𝖑𝖆 𖤐🕷 :
💀💀💀
2024-12-11 06:04:57
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