@stephanne221: Replying to @Steph the Attachment Therapist round 2 here we go! Be sure to drop an example of an emotional need youd love to see be role modeled. I break emotional needs into two types, nurture based or structure based. Nurture based emotions needs: Validation Reassurance Attention Encouragement Repair Affection Expressed interest Play 🔹 Structure based emotional needs are: Boundaries + limits Implementing consequences Role modeling Problem solving Providing structure, predictability, routine 🔹 #emotional #emotionalneglect #neglect #cptsd #childhoodtrauma #bpd #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidant #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #attachment #therapist #therapistsontiktok #therapy #Relationship #relationships #marriage #divorce #dating #relationshiptherapist #MentalHealth #SelfImprovement #SelfCare #fyp #foryou #foryoupage
#3 lands well. ty. I'm always trying to 'overperform' to 'earn my right to exist' in the presence of others. thanks, mom and dad.
2024-01-29 05:11:15
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Lissa :
#1 resonates with me — I often overshare details when I take time off work sick because it feels like I need to explain why and how I’m sick bc I’m afraid they’ll think I’m not sick and faking it ☹️
2024-01-29 11:24:57
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Kasey Logan VO :
Bluey! Most attuned family on T.V. also the way@ Mr. Rogers speaks to children.
2024-01-29 23:49:22
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Johnny meatballs :
#3 is me at work. My thought process is “if they know me they won’t like me, but goddamnit they’re going to think I’m useful at least!!”
2024-06-22 15:16:18
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just an awkward oppossum :
ouch
yes, but ouch
2024-01-29 05:09:21
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Melair :
Oh my gosh!!!! It’s me! Hi! I’m the problem! It’s me!
2024-01-29 22:18:49
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Nora Hayden :
A quote that helped me realize my wounds was: “I don’t feel wanted, so I make myself needed”
2024-02-16 09:20:38
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Eve :
wow the algorithm is a sniper today
2024-02-19 20:36:39
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angiewayman :
How do I not pass this on ?? 😩
2024-02-15 14:59:56
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Me and my brain. :
Fascinating. Not everything is a sales pitch
2024-01-29 19:31:56
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faelight :
Omg #2. I feel so seen and called out. It has taken a full medical crisis to do things like buy the foods and meds I need instead of saving money. (1)
2024-02-04 10:06:17
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ErikatheRedd :
😬 why you call me out like this
2024-01-29 15:29:09
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Maxine :
shhhhhhhhhhhhhh I didn't get on TT too get called out 😭😭😭
2024-01-30 07:56:18
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allieoop :
Oooh that first one hit hard. Although I wonder if it still applies if you only had to convince 1 caregiver and not the other?
2024-01-29 16:13:53
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Kellie Fuller :
Whoa!!!! And I’ve done years of therapy, but never realized any of this
2024-01-30 18:25:42
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desireetransformation :
Yesssssssss. Thank you! As someone who has been neglected for a very long time, I don’t even have a reference point for what’s not neglect! Following.
2024-01-29 17:13:23
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Not drunk :
Someone tag me in the role play I can’t find it
2024-06-08 04:41:09
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jack rye💫🕉🪐 :
That would explain why I have a hard time meeting my own needs..
2024-02-03 20:57:24
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Hay-nes Sl!nk :
I have to do this with my partner.....defend my needs.....she doesn't see it
2024-01-30 15:14:35
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Celie :
Wonderfully insightful video. Also where is your necklace from, it’s gorgeous 😍
2024-01-30 04:32:59
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Sunshine :
Algorithm, bring me back.
2024-01-30 16:04:18
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age :
um... geeeez. this is me at work too!
2024-02-10 00:28:41
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Michelle Renee, Intimacy Coach :
I want to make a list of your videos for some of my clients.
2024-01-29 15:16:50
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Emotions Coach Jessica :
Such great points 👏👏👏
2024-01-29 04:59:45
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