Josh | Psychology
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Tuesday 30 January 2024 04:27:54 GMT
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Elsa :
logically this makes total sense, but trauma leave feelings that are logic can't touch.
2024-02-12 12:30:45
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jim ✪ :
it's hard when ur mind is conditioned by trauma to always assume the worst from people before they even have to say a word :((
2024-03-04 17:38:58
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cosmiclve :
What if people constantly expect you to pick up on social cues and get really mad at you if you don’t 🥲
2024-02-13 00:25:16
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Gabriel B :
it's a survival skill for a reason, it works. protection from people who'll hurt you before they can get the chance. especially when you can recognise
2024-02-03 23:31:04
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lordvinter :
i understand this, but it's so hard to change something that is so automated
2024-02-12 02:05:43
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lofer :
thanks, really needed to hear that
2024-01-30 04:36:19
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nissim :
but I find myself right almost every time and if I'm not right at that time I'll be right soon so no I can't stop 💔
2024-02-18 15:33:14
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Bearburn :
I see this advice a lot. I think it’s more complex than this. For example, you may observe rejection cues more if you grew up being rejected a lot.
2024-02-11 23:31:35
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❥ :
it hurts
2024-02-10 15:36:10
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kylie 𖦹 :
I get this but I don’t stop myself most of the time, I’ve been doing this for awhile so I know it’ll take a bit to change the way I think
2024-03-05 21:24:59
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EvErYtHiNg_iS_fiNe🔥🫠🔥 :
Being told to stop….ain’t gonna magically make me stop 😑
2024-02-03 08:56:28
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𝑽𝒂𝒍 𓋹 𓍼ོ :
I’m learning❣️
2024-03-06 10:03:21
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ernud :
I'm scared I really am
2024-03-19 06:58:30
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Narimuu :
nah they're giving signs so my instinct is telling me I gotta protect myself it's a defense mechanism 🤓 I have no control over it
2024-03-22 23:01:46
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ᡣ𐭩ּ ֶָ֢. :
yeah, but how? i actually feel that they have smthng against me you know. and why can't they just admit it, right? 😞
2024-02-13 03:35:39
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Kristen 🌞🌿🌎🌻 :
It’s so hard to change but it’s possible if you get to the root cause of why you’re people pleasing. There’s always a reason!
2024-02-18 16:26:48
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Elamer :
But what if they are acting different towards me.
2024-01-30 14:58:54
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_miss_q2🇿🇦 :
I hear you , but how do I do that 💀
2024-02-03 05:40:22
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:
It’s like I I’m really scared of a forced connection and people uncomfortable with me
2024-02-15 06:12:20
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chelle :
I love this a lot!
2024-01-30 14:55:11
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Keem possible :
This 💯💯
2024-03-06 10:37:20
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Ntok💤in :
this account? im super grateful for it. 😭
2024-03-07 18:06:30
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opto maturus :
exactly what my psych prof said “stop rationalizing people’s emotions and behavior, focus on urs instead”
2024-04-26 02:57:54
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@napoleon :
real
2024-03-06 12:24:25
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superdupercoolguy6969 :
How to stop doubting?
2024-01-31 12:38:15
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