@sabrina.zohar: How to communicate your needs with an avoidant. #avoidantattachment #datingadvice #anxiousattachment #texting #grief #communication #avoidantattachmentstyle #datingtips

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cat.witch
stevie :
its so exhausting that the anxious always has to create the conversation & ammend the conflict while the avoidant person would just let it fall apart
2024-01-31 17:40:51
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gabrielabumb
Gabriela Bumb :
It’s always the anxious attached that needs to learn to self regulate and handle the situation. It’s exhausting
2024-01-31 03:38:09
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photoswithamani
PhotoswithAmani :
If you're a person with an anxious attachment style, find someone who is secure. Avoid the avoidants. It's not worth constantly being triggered.
2024-02-01 08:31:16
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michelletrevino72
Michelle Trevino722 :
I dont want to communicate I need communication every time I get the silent treatment.
2024-01-30 18:01:57
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thtaquarius
𝔠𝔞𝔱 :
I could not go through this again. The most exhausting thing ever
2024-01-31 04:35:19
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aleyah_17
Aleyah20 :
Why can’t the avoidant just say hey I need some space? Why is it always the anxious person who has to do the work, make the first move, initiate the conversation, etc?
2024-02-16 20:26:02
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jen76476
Jen :
I’m an avoidant but I don’t want space. I need more love and reassurance.
2024-01-30 19:20:30
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shyezaa
Shy :
I don’t need another job
2024-01-30 18:21:35
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jailanetee
Jailane Terrones :
No because why do we have to put up with them acting like a**holes and then just act like they aren’t doing anything wrong
2024-01-31 16:24:31
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barefoot_blessed
🌊 Barefoot&Blessed ✝️ :
What do I do….I have been finding out I am both anxious yet avoidant all at the same time. I NEED HELP PLZ 😂
2024-01-31 05:23:05
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lugosiana
Ana :
I told him (and showed through my actions and reactions) over and over for years that it's ok to communicate. he still never did.
2024-01-31 17:06:03
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gracefullydelulu
Gracefully Delulu :
I tried to speak with him many times, saying that he was important for me, everything was good and then he just ghosted me. 😭 How am i supposed to
2024-03-04 15:45:44
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corumeach
MoonRonin :
i get blamed for wanting consistency. she feels controlled by it. if she feels like doing sth it's ok. end of story.🤷🏼‍♀️
2024-01-30 17:57:16
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lilbugzz
Kall :
Avoiders need to learn to be different for once.
2024-02-03 02:58:48
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ilikecake6748
Janet :
Yes Ma’am ❤️
2024-01-30 17:25:13
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efrangipane
Ellen Herinckx :
For real, how do two avoidants date eachother? Just snappy and rude minimal communication 95% of the time or what? Without an anxious self-regulating person constantly trying to get it working?
2024-07-31 07:24:37
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banjonash
Ash :
I don't like the ones that say they're interested and then they hold back it's kind of a waste of time.
2024-01-31 02:42:04
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melanyjanegray
Melany :
I did all of this he still stonewalled me, I’ve been offered “can I try make it up to you?” Cancelled on our plans. I was patient and he’s left me on read
2025-03-02 09:40:57
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rottiemomma75
Trudy Küppers :
I agree, but they need to want to do the work.
2025-01-18 22:23:28
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pryana.xo
Pryana :
I’m more anxious and my partner is avoidant. Told him before he can take time to clear his head if he needs it, but to lmk. He never does. And he’s going through one of his shutdowns rn. I can’t deal.
2024-01-30 23:36:40
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brianmez0
brian mez :
The honesty is so refreshing
2024-01-31 08:28:40
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kimberleegr
Kimberlee :
what happens when you ask for a conversation about issues that are bothering you and they react by saying they don’t want the same relationship expectations , want to see other people after a year?
2024-01-31 01:01:50
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81578899user
user196703022020 :
Oh hell no. I’m both and I’m live nah to avoidant. Can find a secure person off the bat :)
2024-01-31 02:28:02
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tessa_petersen21
Tessa :
Been following you a while. You gave me all the red flag warning but I ended up with a huge red flag guy and got fooled. I will listen from now.
2024-01-30 17:56:24
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livvlightly
viví :
tbh this dynamic is sooo draining from both sides
2024-02-01 01:47:00
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