@thats_just_jess: Trying to cause a scene over a banana is wildly immature. But because of the boundaries I have in place with her thats the level she has to stoop to in order to try and manipulate who she wants to portray me as a human. I will not control or demand how my family chooses to interact with my mother in law. I will ask that when in situation that I have to be around her that if she chooses to try and cause a scene that we not react. Thats what she wants. She wants to be able to say “see Jess is xyz”. By not reacting we take away her ability to try and create a negative narrative about me. #agegap #motherinlawproblems #motherinlaw #daughterinlaw #inlaws #tryingtoconceive #mommysboy