@awakeningwithbrian: READ 👇🏼 Love languages, better, communication, or relationship counseling, does absolutely nothing to change things. Your issues have nothing to do with these superficial issues, you have unresolved inner child wounds that go all the way back to your childhood. You are experiencing and re-creating what you’ve always known. So how do you actually improve your relationship? You do your own inner work, and begin healing your childhood trauma. You learn to face, feel, and reprocess all of your deepest insecurities that have nothing to do with your partner. I guarantee you that when you start to actually heal and change inside, your relationship will change as well. It’s impossible for it not to. Now what does healing even mean or look like? It means getting out of the head connecting to the body, learning to work with the actual painful emotions that are felt, and connecting to the inner child. 🙏🏼 Link in bio if you want to begin the deep work 🙏🏼
Brian - Transformational Coach
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Monday 05 February 2024 16:53:53 GMT
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Angela Lynn :
I decided today I want a divorce from him... again. He's avoidant, I'm anxious. He doesn't try hard enough, calls me needy.
2024-02-06 00:30:25
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Angel :
Bro described exactly what happened to me
2024-02-05 17:52:41
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ZYAN YARA :
imagine understanding this and the other person hears nothing.......
2024-02-28 00:52:25
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Aurora Montes de Oca :
That’s why I think that people who have done the inner work should not date people who have not because it ends up being a big problem.
2024-02-07 03:47:33
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bengasco :
I want to work on this immediately. its so painful and exhausting
2024-02-05 20:38:28
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Bobby Fisher :
People have accountability issues
2024-02-06 12:41:13
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Monica Galaviz-Aguirre :
You are correct. My husband had to go to therapy to deal with child hood trauma. It helped so much.
2024-02-07 02:47:45
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360BridalService :
@360BridalService: Spot on but basically if we can’t afford help, we then just stay in the cycle? Because as great of resources are coaching/therapy is needed
2024-02-05 18:59:19
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Theresa :
Don’t divorce, unless you really need too. If you love one another, work it out.
2024-02-06 04:09:30
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Micheleann :
Does every single person experience childhood trauma? Just on a scale of how much we’ve experienced?
2024-02-07 12:06:35
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Rie :
I'm working on it, he didn't want to. I walked away, he was dragging me down
2024-02-06 08:23:12
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sophia_ccc97 :
When I read the book attached, it said 50% of people are secure, 20% are anxious, 25% are avoidant and the rest is disorganized attachment. But irl I feel it’s so different
2024-03-18 20:26:37
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🦋✨𝔼𝕓𝕠𝕟𝕪✨🦋 :
Well our inner children be fighting damn near everyday then😂😭😭
2024-02-05 19:52:55
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Flanel66 :
I'm allowing my partner that need me to hurt, because any and all conflict makes me shutdown. Im seeking therapy. I honestly feel like I've been trying so hard to fight the urges to shutdown. But im
2024-03-25 10:57:55
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Dr. Judy Ho | Psychologist :
👏👏👏
2024-03-05 22:23:34
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heyo :
I feel like you just described my marriage to a T, I feel I was neglected as a kid and I’m overbearing now, he’s more avoidant
2024-02-05 20:24:56
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GraceCaroline :
This is exactly what’s happening in our society today. We are all responsible for our own healing 👏♥️
2024-03-05 12:45:06
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nui_momoa :
Bro put this on hers
2024-02-12 04:35:47
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Lupe Nunez23 :
interested
2024-03-06 07:16:59
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amourskitcken_foodwithlove :
Yehweh is the answer
2024-02-09 19:27:51
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Erika :
I’m on the hamster wheel right now 😢
2024-02-05 21:14:42
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moebogardo :
I wish I could meet you lol.. Thank you for sharing your words on the reality of THIS.
2024-02-05 17:11:06
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Divy :
How do I heal my inner child?
2024-02-10 19:56:13
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