@missclairebenjamin: 🚨 Handling delivering bad news👇 🧠 It’s never nice having to deliver news that you know is going to disappoint or upset someone. It’s natural to feel really uncomfortable about it. ▶️ As a manager sometimes our own discomfort can lead us to check out emotionally and deliver the news in a robotic way that lacks empathy. 💡 A really important skill to master as a manager is tolerating our own discomfort so we can still show up to the conversation in a constructive way that is also considerate and empathetic. 🚫 It can be tempting to avoid these kind of conversations- I would encourage you to try not to do this. ▶️ Here a 4 steps to help you: 1️⃣ Thank the person for applying and say something that the panel appreciated e.g. you were a strong candidate in lots of areas or you answered the technical questions really well 2️⃣ Let them know that the decision is to give the job to another candidate and the reason why (focus on highlighting a skill or experience gap) 3️⃣ Show them that you still believe in them or their capabilities. Offer to go through some feedback in detail and draw up a plan together to help them close any skill or experience gaps 4️⃣ Ask them if they want to talk further or if they would prefer time to process things (don’t launch in with feedback without their consent) You’ve got this 🙌 📌 Please be mindful that the perspective offered in this video is generalised and won’t fit every situation so please follow your instincts about whether this applies to your situation. You’ve got this! #worktips #leadershipdevelopment #communicationskills #corporatelife #emotionalintelligence #professionaldevelopment #managingpeople #difficultconversations #communication

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Steve :
have to say, as someone who's worked in senior leadership for over ten years, your content is outstanding
2024-02-05 19:51:33
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catelina_maria
catalina maria :
As a new manager I find your content so helpful. Wish my manager would coach me like this.
2024-02-05 22:14:05
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jhawthorn91
Jessiiii :
I genuinely feel like I’ve learnt so much from your videos as a manager who was offered no training on actually managing people
2024-02-05 22:38:08
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thewhiskerwhispurrer
♓️aylee :
My manager just said “unfortunately this isn’t a good meeting. Pack your things and leave the premises” no explanation 😂
2024-02-06 04:23:44
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avaadore666
user8417674662351 :
Where are your bracelets from
2024-03-05 21:40:33
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missclairebenjamin
Claire | Work people tips :
Comment “yes” if you’d like me to make more videos on delivering bad news… and let me know what scenarios would be helpful for you 🙂
2024-02-05 19:36:42
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bonjour2023x
Springsun :
Great advice
2024-02-06 09:07:24
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lilpizzaqueen
g ⚡️ :
Exactly! As awkward as it is to deliver bad news, it is always worse for the person receiving it. That’s why it’s important to do it well!
2024-02-06 16:18:50
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jrich33mn
Jessica :
This is fantastic. Thanks for sharing!
2024-02-20 00:26:42
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evan3585
Evan :
This is such great advice. Having seen both forms displayed and now studying leadership it’s so great to see these back to back comparisons sink in. So thank you.
2024-03-31 05:41:51
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justbeingmeinmy40s
Sarah 😃 :
Your content is brilliant 😃
2024-03-30 06:24:46
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manifestwithmarta
CreatorsMIND | Mindset Mentor :
My manager brought me news I couldn’t become senior in a similar way you showed at the end and must admit I felt really appreciated and respected even didn’t get promoted 🥰 love your content!
2024-02-07 19:48:48
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theviewfrom.505
🎮theviewfrom505🎮 :
I will never forgive the way my old job told me I wasnt being kept on, they didnt even thank me for my work or provide any comfort
2024-02-05 22:41:21
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matt_midd1
Matt Midd :
Claire, I love your videos… But can we not this time cause I’m awaiting interview results 😅😂💀
2024-02-05 23:24:00
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juliet.star
Juliet :
I've never had a boss so steady and thoughtful. too many ppl in leadership who don't belong there
2024-02-06 19:31:32
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manyonib21
Bulelani Manyoni :
I am happy to follow you thank you for your content 🥺
2024-02-05 20:54:10
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missclairebenjamin
Claire | Work people tips :
How someone tells us we didn’t get the job can make such a difference. Empathy in these moments can be everything 💛
2024-02-05 19:40:47
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sundreamck
SundreamCK :
You’re perfect!
2024-02-29 12:44:49
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becca.simmons
becca.simmons :
I was sacked then made to walk back through a full office, crying my eyes out and under the strict instruction not to talk to anyone whilst getting my things, then was ‘escorted’ out the office😂
2024-02-05 23:59:33
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naturalpnw
GG :
I would love the robotic response lol it’s honest
2024-02-07 21:18:33
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holmedos
А.Х. :
I love your content even though I am not a manager 😆
2024-02-05 21:27:22
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hertfordshirejournal
HertfordshireJournal :
another great video! so grateful 💖
2024-02-06 12:57:22
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minnie_moomoo_pets
minnie_moomoo_pets :
We need more Clairs in the world!
2024-02-05 20:48:50
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gena_the_therapist
Gena the Haitian Therapist🇭🇹 :
yes!
2024-02-05 20:56:29
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