@lauraleabalanced: We tend to believe that the ‘true’ version of our ex is who they showed us in the beginning, but in my experience personally and with my coaching, this is not actually the case. If you are struggling after a breakup, I highly encourage you to try a cross-referencing exercise to see the gaps in who your brain wanted them to be (the first ‘version’) vs who they really are. #anxiousattachment #breakup #attachmentstyle #breakupcoach #relationshipadvice #avoidantattachment #situationship #anxiousavoidanttrap #fyp #mondaymotivation

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goodknightly
GoodKnightly 🇨🇦 :
I always do a relationship autopsy, and almost everytime conclude my ex lied about their character to pursue me
2024-02-06 02:13:47
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beakeryfrog
Chuckbob :
Another important factor is what negative qualities you and your ex enhanced in each other. Sometimes your ex may generally embody a lot of positive..
2024-02-05 23:11:26
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meh1975
E :
I spent 2 years with the ideal version and then 3 years trying to rationalize why she wasnt that person anymore but wanted to make it work
2024-02-06 16:09:15
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katie.huns
Katie :
This was true in my relationship. I’d do everything to make sure I could go to his family’s functions. He rarely did that for me and my family.
2024-02-06 04:41:35
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user2349249941379
User :
Do you ever think that’s who they are for the right person?
2024-02-05 23:12:55
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paulredican
Paul & Diesel :
They are not the person I married 😢 unfortunately
2024-02-05 23:48:05
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jen.con45
jen.con45 :
My ex expected us to see his family weekly, but wouldn't allow my family to come visit bc "they weren't his people" Love this message 👏👏
2024-02-06 13:16:41
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tammy19021
Tammy :
Your videos are saving me 😭♥️
2024-02-06 03:15:56
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l0okitslex
Alexis :
My therapist said it's too early to conduct the autopsy. Give me time. 😅
2024-02-14 03:32:01
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carlynlongg
carlyn :
yep I always fall for the “kind hearted” guys and they turn out to be vile when they stop trying to impress me to “conquer” me
2024-02-11 02:17:07
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boomertik
boomertik :
this is gold
2024-02-07 20:54:19
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deletedacct1122
girly pop :
um what if my ex was never very nice from the beginning lol
2024-02-07 16:02:43
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whonu0
Whonu :
💜💜💜
2024-02-07 02:25:11
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paulmmason1
Paul Mason :
Totally agree with you! Her actions didn't like up with words. I revisited what version she appeared to be early on with who she really was. Healing❤️
2024-02-06 15:37:41
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jess_anotherfangirl
Jess 🧡 | fangirl & corgi mom :
I did it recently.
2024-02-06 14:12:38
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donboopo
donboopo :
🥰
2024-02-05 22:52:33
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andy66a57
fourknk 🇨🇦 :
How long can the rose coloured glasses last. Because for 2 years he showed up great. Then changed.
2024-03-28 18:15:29
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parramattaeels66
Lara :
@pipey excellent question
2024-03-20 21:35:48
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r_c_6
R_C_6 :
How can we get them to show their true colours earlier on dating/relationship?
2024-03-16 10:09:47
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maroonedhere
Ketchup Catsup Catch Up 🇨🇦 :
the honeymoon glaze
2024-02-15 23:24:41
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darlagrins
Darla Kirby :
Amazing how you are opening my eyes and my mind! Would love to have had your influence the 4 yrs I thought my heart was broken.
2024-02-15 08:34:36
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_saraha48
_saraha48 :
I’m assessing to see which man he is or if he’s struggling
2024-02-13 00:02:41
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hansremorez
hanianaeem120 :
This is all so true but how do you fight the feeling of loneliness and missing them so much anyway
2024-02-11 22:36:51
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