@lauraleabalanced: We tend to believe that the ‘true’ version of our ex is who they showed us in the beginning, but in my experience personally and with my coaching, this is not actually the case. If you are struggling after a breakup, I highly encourage you to try a cross-referencing exercise to see the gaps in who your brain wanted them to be (the first ‘version’) vs who they really are. #anxiousattachment #breakup #attachmentstyle #breakupcoach #relationshipadvice #avoidantattachment #situationship #anxiousavoidanttrap #fyp #mondaymotivation
Laura Lea | Breakup Coach
Region: US
Monday 05 February 2024 22:42:14 GMT
Music
Download
Comments
GoodKnightly 🇨🇦 :
I always do a relationship autopsy, and almost everytime conclude my ex lied about their character to pursue me
2024-02-06 02:13:47
171
Chuckbob :
Another important factor is what negative qualities you and your ex enhanced in each other. Sometimes your ex may generally embody a lot of positive..
2024-02-05 23:11:26
39
E :
I spent 2 years with the ideal version and then 3 years trying to rationalize why she wasnt that person anymore but wanted to make it work
2024-02-06 16:09:15
18
Katie :
This was true in my relationship. I’d do everything to make sure I could go to his family’s functions. He rarely did that for me and my family.
2024-02-06 04:41:35
11
User :
Do you ever think that’s who they are for the right person?
2024-02-05 23:12:55
9
Paul & Diesel :
They are not the person I married 😢 unfortunately
2024-02-05 23:48:05
6
jen.con45 :
My ex expected us to see his family weekly, but wouldn't allow my family to come visit bc "they weren't his people"
Love this message 👏👏
2024-02-06 13:16:41
4
Tammy :
Your videos are saving me 😭♥️
2024-02-06 03:15:56
4
Alexis :
My therapist said it's too early to conduct the autopsy. Give me time. 😅
2024-02-14 03:32:01
1
carlyn :
yep I always fall for the “kind hearted” guys and they turn out to be vile when they stop trying to impress me to “conquer” me
2024-02-11 02:17:07
1
boomertik :
this is gold
2024-02-07 20:54:19
1
girly pop :
um what if my ex was never very nice from the beginning lol
2024-02-07 16:02:43
1
Whonu :
💜💜💜
2024-02-07 02:25:11
1
Paul Mason :
Totally agree with you! Her actions didn't like up with words. I revisited what version she appeared to be early on with who she really was. Healing❤️
2024-02-06 15:37:41
1
Jess 🧡 | fangirl & corgi mom :
I did it recently.
2024-02-06 14:12:38
1
donboopo :
🥰
2024-02-05 22:52:33
1
fourknk 🇨🇦 :
How long can the rose coloured glasses last. Because for 2 years he showed up great. Then changed.
2024-03-28 18:15:29
0
Lara :
@pipey excellent question
2024-03-20 21:35:48
0
R_C_6 :
How can we get them to show their true colours earlier on dating/relationship?
2024-03-16 10:09:47
0
Ketchup Catsup Catch Up 🇨🇦 :
the honeymoon glaze
2024-02-15 23:24:41
0
Darla Kirby :
Amazing how you are opening my eyes and my mind! Would love to have had your influence the 4 yrs I thought my heart was broken.
2024-02-15 08:34:36
0
_saraha48 :
I’m assessing to see which man he is or if he’s struggling
2024-02-13 00:02:41
0
hanianaeem120 :
This is all so true but how do you fight the feeling of loneliness and missing them so much anyway
2024-02-11 22:36:51
0
To see more videos from user @lauraleabalanced, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.
© 2021-2025 TikWM. All rights reserved.