@hijarbie_doll: Replying to @Travelseeker1980 nothing against this commenter I just wanted to expand on this interesting observation about DILs and the evil DIL stereotype #DIL #MIL #inlaws #evildil #extendedfamily #southasian
If you move in with your in-laws or they move in with you, make sure you have separate kitchens, bathrooms and doors that go outside. Lack of privacy leads to a lot of issues over time.
2024-02-08 05:30:30
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color.with.meee :
I think joint family system is itself a very wrong system. You don't have your privacy and you are always expected to do what other wants from you. So live in your own space even if it's next door.
2024-03-11 21:05:42
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SK Henna :
My husbands parents live with us. As lovely as they are it is hard but I’ve set my boundaries and have a healthy relationship with them Alhamdulillah.
2024-02-15 09:26:24
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Travelseeker1980 :
their sole purpose is to work full time and entertain their husbands. again, it's my own observation from my own community
2024-02-06 11:21:22
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Shahnaz :
Tbh i think most DILs get married with the intention of trying their best. The problem occurs when they are expected to be superwomen, working a job then coming home and all household chores left to
2024-02-06 12:01:46
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Syeda Hoque :
You seem like a beautiful soul outside and inside Masha Allah and Allah huma barik.
2024-02-06 14:41:49
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User483627239392 :
This is so ridiculous. If she’s living with your parents of course she should clean up after herself etc. but otherwise she’s not your maid and islamically has no responsibility, anything she does is
2024-02-06 12:57:41
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helen :
iv had to learn so much sabr due living with my sickly MIL. I agree with u wholeheartedly
2024-02-06 14:18:46
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Saahir :
This comment is the reason why so many married women in the south Asian are miserable or divorced
2024-02-06 15:12:22
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Panda :
I think some DIL do feel entitled. They expect their MIL to cook and clean after them but won’t contribute in the house. Other than your own parents you can’t expect unconditional service from others
2024-02-06 11:27:21
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Travelseeker1980 :
This was not directed at anyone personally. from my own observation on my community. DIL live in MIL but do not pull their weight around the house.
2024-02-06 11:20:47
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alphiana :
so much lies. let's not forget the SILs that want their brothers wife to stay with their mum and work as a maid and never leave. but don't want that
2024-02-13 07:34:58
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user9502271488583 :
Lol the daughter in laws are always called “evil” if they know their god given rights 🙃
2024-02-06 18:54:48
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SANAMKHAN786 :
Islam&sabr.It's hard no doubt,but patience is golden,with time ppl learn to coincide.There r 2 types of women,1 burns bridges&other builds them.
2024-02-06 22:08:28
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Travelseeker1980 :
my point is whether your are a MIL or DIL every one should do their part and mind their own business. it is possible to live together if these are fol
2024-02-06 11:36:10
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Aliyah :
I think this advice is good for minor issues like annoyance or frustration, abuse is completely different, this doesnt apply to that 👍🏻
2024-02-06 13:34:34
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user6704827144863 :
mother in law and his sisters🥺
2024-02-06 13:14:23
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Nina :
I like this perspective, you've made some very interesting points
2024-02-06 11:39:15
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Moer :
This evil daughter in law is after money, even though the mother lives in a council house 😂
2024-02-06 19:01:38
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R. :
Doesn't ignoring people or controlling your reactions not turn people bitter in the long run? You don't need to prove you're not an evil dil to anyone
2024-02-06 12:36:07
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justsaythat444 :
A reminder that it is a husband’s job in Islam to provide his wife her own dwelling. Her OWN. Any man or in laws refusing this are going against Islam
2024-02-07 15:35:33
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queeeen449 :
People say evil because they have had bad experience with daughter in law. We have. Scheming, breaking family bonds, putting everyone down
2024-02-06 17:32:05
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Shel x :
This comment 😂😂😂 just ignore them
2024-02-06 13:01:01
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Aaminah Cookie :
Ignore comments like this. People don’t want to see anyone happy these days. If you’re happy with your living conditions, good for you!
2024-05-02 06:55:04
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……. :
Oh god not this travel seeker lady with her backwards mentality. Her previous comments on your other videos just shows how this women thinks 🥴
2024-02-07 11:51:36
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anana_vids :
Please lets not angelize the DIL, every single girl I know talks smack about her in laws, we are not innocent. I know DIL who intentionally breakup familiies too.
2024-03-08 11:50:59
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nabeg1981 :
SABR is the key to ultimate happiness..
2024-02-12 00:43:36
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Afee Ashraf :
Make make more videos on this topic
2024-02-08 02:12:42
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javeriakhan2821 :
Love the advice the Tesco lady gave you. She was 100% right.
2024-02-07 19:58:08
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amm0966 :
My one did blackmagic to me and my husband to seperate us. We are suffering for more than 2 years. We moved 100 miles away and stop talking to her
2024-02-07 09:31:52
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sky :
❤️MashAllah
2024-02-06 17:35:50
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Aallyy 🍉 :
Na girl, I watch Pakistani dramas 🙈🙈🙈
2024-02-06 15:56:27
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H :
What’s wrong with being fed by your MIL
2024-02-06 15:38:53
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Miss 05 Akh :
It’s bc the women they got their sons married to they didn’t do enough research on.. they can cry about it. Their fault.
2024-02-06 14:55:30
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Snoopy x :
Omdss the being sick and don’t know how to cook one… I’ve seen this, and it don’t change.. you’ll always have evil pple in older pple and younger pple…
2024-05-05 07:58:22
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Maz999 :
recite adhkars for protection from all forms of evil
2024-04-26 00:29:05
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Eyeshaa Rizwan :
None is obliged to feed other whether its daughter in law or Mother in law!!!! Why its thought as obligation that daughter in law must feed inlaws.its not!
2024-04-10 19:02:05
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Blessings :
🥰🥰
2024-04-02 15:45:41
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SAMIA :
which shade are you using on sheglam concelar, please
2024-03-17 10:06:15
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Afee Ashraf :
I have never heard so much wisdom in a few minutes
2024-02-08 02:12:31
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__freen :
good and wise take. but being the bigger person every time isn’t feasible for everyone
2024-02-06 23:54:27
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@Zaynab :
💯 agree with the sisters comment
2024-02-06 16:07:17
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user9876 :
I love your videos but just announce the pregnancy!! It's so obvious. why do u keep hiding it while publicy posting videos of urself?
2024-02-06 11:43:00
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