@therapyjeff: Are you in a casual relationship or situationship? If so, ask yourself these 11 yes or no questions to figure out if your needs are being met and it’s serving you well. We’re aiming for 11 out of 11 yeses. #MentalHealth #therapy #therapist #therapytiktok #dating #datingadvice #relationshipadvice 1. Do I feel clear about what this relationship is and isn’t, and does it align with my wants and needs? 2. Are we able to communicate openly about our feelings, expectations, and boundaries, even if the relationship is casual? 3. Do I feel respected in this relationship? Are my boundaries, values, and personhood honored? 4. Even in a casual setup, are my emotional needs being acknowledged and met to a degree that I feel good about? 5. Do I feel physically safe and satisfied? Are our interactions enjoyable and consensual? 6. Does this relationship allow me to maintain my independence, personal growth, and pursuits outside of it? 7. Do I feel like the investment (time, energy, emotion) I'm putting into this relationship is balanced with what I’m receiving back? 8. Does this relationship bring more joy and positivity into my life than stress or confusion? 9. Am I comfortable with the uncertainty regarding the future of this relationship? 10. Does this situation affect my self-esteem and overall sense of self-worth in a positive way? 11. Do we have a clear understanding and agreement on how we might end or change the dynamics of our relationship if needed?"

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cait.bru1
cait.bru1 :
I had 4 no’s by question 3 sooo
2024-02-06 17:26:41
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okrhrka
Khh :
You sir already know it’s 3/11 AT MOST
2024-02-06 18:19:18
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farwah.com
farwy :
if it could get 11/11 yes, it wouldn’t have been a situationship
2024-02-06 20:10:31
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reborn.twice
reborn.twice :
“does the situation affect my self esteem and overall sense of self worth” me: YES! “in a positive way” me: oh…
2024-02-08 09:59:09
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starrtic
IvyL :
These are great, and so is that cardigan! 😁
2024-02-06 15:10:59
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adventureswali
Adventures With Ali | Travel :
11/11 should I wife him up
2024-02-07 12:57:44
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kim.bouley
Kim Boulé :
11/11 babes!! here for it! ☺️💓
2024-02-06 18:12:06
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akrian2030
Karina Peterson720 :
10/11 we haven’t discussed the out clause yet, it’s super early.
2024-02-06 16:57:01
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cbollo
Just Another Caitlyn :
lol my anxiously attached self was never going to be good in a situationship 😅💕
2024-02-06 18:34:45
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kazzyyo
Wardsyk :
2 out of 11. But I’ve broken up with him now so just confirmation it was a good move 👌
2024-02-06 15:32:50
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azulcastillonehme
azul_the_perfumehead :
The way my smile slowly faded
2024-03-21 02:54:05
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shelsabelsa
Shelsa :
I got a 0 but I still can’t let go. When will I be able to do what I know is right ?😞
2024-02-06 17:19:53
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kingstonbluethegreatdane
Mr Kingston Blue :
I've never considered 11. Is it important to have an exit strategy or wld it be "I'd like to remain friends if this ever goes south?"
2024-02-20 14:01:34
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whitdog13
Whit-dog 🐶 :
I didn’t have even all these when I was married 😂😂
2024-02-07 05:46:52
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colo5281
Colo5281 :
We need to create a comment section dating app. If a man has watched and agreed to this, I would swipe right
2024-02-06 22:44:23
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mak ✨💫 :
oh 🙂🙃 okay !
2024-02-07 00:18:05
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househollander
abey ₂⁴ :
i couldve used this about 3 months ago😭
2024-02-06 23:21:54
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chiennui
SLWilliams :
11 out of 11 no's ❤️
2024-02-07 14:26:18
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vivaciousvc
Vladi :
1 no
2024-02-07 02:38:45
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aaronlwhitaker
Aaron :
Needed this like 6 months ago
2024-02-07 03:25:40
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rooftopdeath
Birdie :
50/11 nos, I win
2024-03-17 02:41:53
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ascending.phoenix
Paige Hook✨Spiritual Minister :
Wellllllll you have higher standards for me than I have for me 😅 most of them were yes!
2024-02-06 14:52:10
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twinmir11
TwinMiriam11 :
Damnnnnn Jeff we’re not heroes
2024-02-07 02:08:39
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rachbasil
rachel :
i stopped the video at 1, i don’t even need to know what the other questions are to know the answers
2024-03-21 14:35:39
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noticeyourneighbor
noticeyourneighbor :
This is really helpful and applicable to my situation. I really appreciate this.
2024-02-06 16:58:12
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