ok i agree that they SHOULDN’T take it personally, but trust me sometimes they do
2024-02-07 00:48:17
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🧅Taylor🧅 :
this is such an innocent take 😭
2024-02-07 03:20:25
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Cameron Russ :
Love this mindset
2024-02-07 00:28:59
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luca :
this is so real i did this once and i went “i have a bf” and he went “okay? i wasn’t hitting on you” and it was so embarrassing
2024-02-09 15:18:04
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Ricky :
he should’ve said “people that are SECURE in themselves won’t take it personally”
2024-02-07 19:01:57
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Syd :
This take is honestly so wholesome and - at the same time unfortunately it seems many do - in fact - take it extremely personally
2024-02-07 09:45:05
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Tia :
I don’t think it’s rude I’m just SCARED
2024-02-07 03:25:14
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Olivia Pedersen :
Don’t think it’s a rude I get scared about how they’re gonna react
2024-02-07 22:26:20
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Andre Emmanuel :
Facts if that happens you move on to the next
2024-02-10 21:47:05
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Paigearoon :
Love the idea, but guys immediately turn rude on me and then immediately belittle me as to how could I possibly think they could’ve wanted me.
2024-02-07 00:39:14
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ivy✨ :
sorry but when you said: "he's not gonna take it personally" i laughed so hard because they DO VERY MUCH take it personally
2024-02-07 00:51:16
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Yvette Miller :
Agree with some of this message, but tell me you've never dealt with a man who doesn't like to be rejected without telling me..
2024-02-07 02:10:36
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_madalynnf_ :
He will, in fact, be offended
2024-02-07 06:53:18
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Vivi Blair :
I like “not sure what your intentions are but I do have a boyfriend”
2024-02-07 05:41:13
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Brieboard :
Yea no they will take it personally a lot of the time
2024-02-07 04:10:17
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Arianna :
Sometimes I say “Sorry I need to go talk to my brother” they leave you alone real quick if your brothers around 😂
2024-02-07 06:31:26
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walker🦈🧸💫 :
say it louder for the people in the back
2024-02-07 01:56:24
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chiara :
i usually say "why are you talking to me" or "why are you asking me that" first. or just hold up my hand and show them the ring lmaoo
2024-02-07 00:54:05
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StoryTeller :
Ideally we’d love this. In reality, this is where men have gotten aggressive and verbally violet at minimum. Maybe direct your point at men not women
2024-02-07 05:51:20
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Cecilia Santschi :
it’s only rude if you make it rude
2024-02-07 00:34:11
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Colby Taylor :
My life strategy is ignoring all men with no connection to me. That said, you’d be surprised how aggro men can get when rejected!
2024-02-07 00:51:48
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rachie.jmzz_ :
If someone hits on me, and i have a bf, i think it’s definitely not rude to make it clear where you stand just my opinion
2024-02-07 00:37:55
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Faith :
Like say “hello back nicely but follow up with btw before u continue i have a bf”😅
2024-02-07 00:59:43
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chiara :
This is how it should be but for women who go out and respond this way, it can very easily become dangerous for that woman.
2024-02-07 06:19:30
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itsme.mess :
And honestly, so what if they think you’re a little rude? It’s not like you’re friends and gonna see eachother again. It’s ok to stand your ground
2024-02-07 00:42:35
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hi :
honey why u promising his feelings won’t be hurt 😭😭 u don’t know some men
2024-02-07 02:16:21
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Jessica49 :
real
2024-02-07 02:47:00
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nattykeeryquinn🫶🏼 :
tell you’re a boy without telling me you’re a boy
2024-02-07 10:24:27
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megan :
gabe I love that you think this but realistically this is generally going to get me atleast yelled at and possibly put me in danger 🤡
2024-02-07 01:01:19
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Kai :
Yeah no they absolutely do get offended… and offending a man as a women in this situation could get her into a dangerous situation
2024-02-07 14:12:18
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Caro♡ :
sweetheart you don't know the half of it ❤️
2024-02-07 14:03:37
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QueenBean💎 :
Bestie hear me out YOU dont take offense some of these dude definitely do.
2024-02-07 05:50:44
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ky :
yeah unfortunately they do take offense no matter how u phrase it. i’ve had dudes scream in my face just bc I told them I had a bf. told me I shouldn’t even be at the bar😭😭
2024-02-07 06:57:08
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Heartofglass17 :
Presumptuous to think guys all think that way and a little strange to feed that stereotype. Legit half my “hellos” are really “uh youre in the way of the bar please move” but polite
2024-02-07 02:10:09
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Graham Ehringer :
Bro girls are a myth😂😂😂
2024-02-07 00:29:20
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🕊Paige🕊 :
I’m always nice but work in a way to bring up my husband in a way that flows without me just yelling IM MARRIED
2024-02-08 18:34:15
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Akira :
It was the guy who dropped off my bedframe
2024-02-07 05:21:25
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rhi 🧿 :
babe i’m so sorry but this is just not accurate 😭 lots of guys take offense regardless
2024-02-07 03:38:58
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Adrian 🙂 פיליפינים :
no 💀
2024-02-07 00:31:38
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Jocelyn :
I say it would be rude
2024-02-13 16:39:29
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H :
there are so many different situations where men are going to be offended and might actually get violent with her
2024-02-13 10:47:11
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Tati <3 :
Also whether guy or girl, saying sorry before it doesn’t sit right bc it’s like ur apologizing you’re taken yk
2024-02-08 13:48:29
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user52753783 :
safer to assume it ends in✨homicide✨
2024-02-07 19:00:31
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Ashley :
“I promise you this man won’t be offended” said by a man who clearly has not experienced the anger/aggression of rejected men 💀
2024-02-07 16:49:31
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Ash Knight :
He won’t be offended. Are we serious?! So many guys become upset and will through fits as it’s the women fault for not being interested
2024-02-07 12:43:01
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mak :
I’m a hairstylist that does mostly men’s hair. Talking to them is apart of my job. When they hit on me and I’m like I’ve got a bf they IMMEDIATELY switch up and are so rude.
2024-02-07 07:06:51
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