@bugandalex: You can follow @squeakykeys for a lot of chill conversations style videos about autism, relationships, and navigating neurodiversity! We are so aggressively shamed as children to "stop complaining", and I have carried that into my adulthood. I used to go on and on, complaining for far longer than "average", and would be told that I either needed to find a solution or get over it. I'm generally very hyperverbal and I work through ideas and thoughts outloud, so it makes complete sense that I would do the same with things that upset me. Time to unlearn the shame ❤️ #autistic #autisticadult

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Alix (they/them) :
i have 6 little lego star wars characters on my desk and when im home alone they are who i vent and complain to. it helps
2024-02-07 15:38:41
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squeakykeys
squeakykeys :
TY! and fr learning that I was allowed to be a nuisance was LIFE CHANGING
2024-02-07 13:07:11
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maswestskyw
mas🏳️‍⚧️🍉 :
I tell my husband "my body needs to be as loud as the problem is and as disruptive as it is making me feel."I do try not to project though
2024-02-07 23:56:39
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toodles.1993
toodles.1993 :
You and Alex, and @squeakykeys are forever my “STOP SCROLLING AND WATCH” creators 🫶🏻🫶🏻 so grateful for a lot of content from all of you on my ‘what kind of ND am I?’ Journey 😅
2024-02-07 13:04:01
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kupidxkitty
Kupid 💐 :
whoa this is neat… maybe this is also tied to how autistic people have a tendency to ruminate more than others? so thats why we need to talk about it over and over for long periods?
2024-02-07 19:53:35
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ernestegress
Ernie :
I didn't want to play my video game anymore.. until I ranted about it for like fifteen minutes (I had died twice in game) Now I wanna play it again 😂
2024-02-07 19:48:53
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kodaajune
Koda 🇵🇸 :
oh my god I even do this when I'm upset about something and I can't let it go until I've fully processed it 🫠
2024-02-07 15:19:47
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fromgeee
Fromgeee :
I realized this same thing about myself recently, good or bad, I have to vocalize every thought and decision I make, either to someone or just to myself out loud. It’s very helpful
2024-02-16 21:47:58
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